3 rules you must understand to get a same night lay

1)safety, speaking about your surroundings, letting her know about where your from, pets you have, places you like to go, where you like to hang out....ask her about places she likes to go, conjour up feelings in her where she feels safe.This gets her familar with your lifestyle and fa miliar with where she might be going later ......

2) speak about sisters or any female relatives, speak about them in a very caring way, how they mean alot to you in a very casual way!If you display this kind of behaviour it displays that you have other females in your life and lets your targets know that your not so bad a guy

3)Use future projections - making an assumption about what you are both gonna be doing in the near future or long term future, its gotta be playful and not too intense! these projections have gotta be put into the conversation throughout!this puts images in her head of seeing you again!

After safety and comfort has been built this is when the anti slut device is activated in a girl! it can be unexpected! This is where guys mess up! this is where she will back off when she sees where things are heading which is the same night lay! guys become very needy, start trying to please her to much, then you become the needy guy, she is then turned off! then guys start trying to use logical persuasion, trying to sweetalk her around! this shows your sleazy side! you cant verbally convince a girl to sleep with you. your need to demonstrate you are spontaneous, open minded, independent and not powerless against other peoples opinions, that you dont care what others think! Dropping in a story about being independent, that your a free thinker or opinions and you dont care about others opinions as long as its NON SEXUAL!!! it has to e something you done and you were spontaneous, after get her to speak about something she done spontaneously, open minded, independent, that she doesnt have a fear of doing things and allows her mind to not care about other peoples opinions. you, then gotta give her positive validation, tell her you like that story about her!

if you like, you can speak about how its great to always do what you want to do, how you both speak about living by other peoples judgements is so weak etc...if she starts edging away to look for her mates, start saying casually, i thought you were independent and oh im sorry i was.....kind of verr away from her, shes gonna wanna validate herself to you to back what she has been saying all along and stay!shes gonna want you to put her back on that pedestol which you originally put her. By positively and negatively validating her will keep her with you. you put her high up, then bought her from being high up to the bottom of barrel again....

this will improve your chances of sex tenfold if you get it right!

It took me a while but have started to get results using this technique, anybody got anymore or want to disect this to underestand it more and break it down![/u]