| Saturday evening, 8pm.
Making my way to the NIA in Birmingham to watch Lee Evans. Just had dinner, was feeling really good for the night to come even with taking my company into account that night. (I was with 3 guys, 1 had a GF he is serious about and the other 2 complete AFC's, 1 of those being a virgin)
10:30-11, Show was great, so off we went to hit some clubs. I was rather enjoying myself but the others seemed very mellow, moaning about people and the time it took to buy a drink. Which brought me down, the more time I spent near them the harder I found it to even dare approach anyone, It didn't feel like normal AA, was more of a lack of will..
Gave up any intention of even trying.
Night goes on, still had a good time, talking, dancing, watching.
When I decide I'm taking two of the guys to get a lapdance, I promised the virgin at his previous birthday I'd buy him one at some point, so off we went.
After mere seconds of walking in the door, a dancer comes to the side of me and asks if I want to dance, I didn't go in intending to have one, but for some reason when she asked, I just said "Yeah" without any hesitation, which she pulled me up on later, the fact I acted on impulse, was no thinking about it or looking around just went straight into a room with her.
Then it all just broke free, all the need to game suddenly hit me all at once, we started talking and she was laughing loads and kept stopping and looking at me oddly and shaking her head, till eventually she said "I want to see you later"
So I took her phone number, we talked some more and I got a kiss and I walked out.
I was meant to ring her at 4:30am after she finished work, I forgot and rang at 5, she was eating with other dancers and her manager. She said she still wants to see me and she would ring me after eating. At the time I thought she has probably blown me off just wanted to try and get me to pay for more dances later down the road, so I wasn't too bothered, was staying in an apartment and already had 3 girls there that one of my friends new and had ran into them in a club, K-closed both of them and generally had a laugh when my phone started ringing. It was 6:30 and the dancer was ringing me? I answered and went into the other room. We talked, she said it was very late, she was going out tomorrow/today and needed sleep so not to see her now, but we kept talking for a while and I somehow managed to remember everything we had talked about in the club, all the details.
Her reaction to me finishing her sentences from my memory got a reaction.
"You.. Remembered all that? .. Come round"
So I did. 7am, I didn't really know where to go, all my friends had fallen asleep, so I walked the other girls to the train station then went off to find this dancer.
And the craziest thing happened. We talked.
I went in, we got in her bed and talked and cuddled and kissed for 4 hours.
I usually escalate as fast as possible, I don't like to waste time, but I didn't push, just rolled with it and talked. Now she wishes to see me a lot more. Even asked me to sleep there and go to blackpool with her today for a friends birthday which I said no to.
So now I'm meant to be seeing her next week, she also implies plenty more plans, seems very keen to spend time with me. I am finding it odd for some reason, I'm used to getting girls to fancy me, to push for one on one time. But I found this encounter peculiar I think mainly for her profession, age difference and general lifestyle I suppose.
I'm 19, she's 27. The game has made things happen for me I never expected they would. Just a year ago I would never have dreamed to walk into a stripclub from the shyness. Now I end up going home and making future plans with one of the dancers?
I intend now to really work hard on 'hired guns' it's easy to speed escalate drunk girls in a club, I want to push for the pretty bar girls who are sober and putting up with drunk guys failing at hitting on them all night, I want to walk out of a strip club with a dancer on each arm.
I want and I intend to get.
So here I am, finally home. Hadn't slept all night, got off the train, walked in my front door and passed out for the next 5 hours. The night ended very differently to how I expected it, how I felt it would half way through the night.
No, I didn't K-close 5-10 girls. No I didn't get home with a contact list that had grown. But I felt good. I've had fun.
And that seems enough.
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