This is fucking PERFECT! Absolutely fucking PERFECT if you can do this in set, especially in comfort building you would get laid like a god. That sounded interesting as shit- keep that same energy you have but focus it with your eyes, intensity in your voice, the way you grab her...all of it...bravo sir.

I know I wrote it- but it sounds like a movie trailer. All you need is bad ass music behind you.

M2, thanks for listening to the clip, plus thanks for the thumbs up!
I'll try to CALM DOWN in each set so I can make the clip I sent you my default. Sometimes when I'm too high energy, I tend to speak quickly, but I'll work on controlling my voice and channeling my energy!

Thanks, and I'll keep it up!

September 15th 2011
I'm really bad at Day 2's. It takes me until D10 to K-Close, and D12 for an F-Close. Well, it not always that bad but my current LTR took me ages. I need to make a conscious effort to turning D2 into AT LEAST a kiss. And D3 into a F-close.

I was talking to Diplomatica today and he told me the importance of Frame Control. I don't wanna infuse myself into the concept yet, because I can't even stay consistent with the Stylelife Challenge, but its an interesting concept and I'll keep it at the back of my mind until its the right timing for me to learn.

I have a lot of materials I wanna touch on. Style, David Deangelo, Mystery, Love Systems, Don Juan, NLP, Body Language, Frame Control, Kino...the list is endless! But I wanna touch on each of the basics and have something that'll get me into the habit of opening sets daily. Perhaps thats the Stylelife 30 day Challenge and its purpose. But once again, I didn't do it today, so I gotta get myself into shape.

I accidentally flaked on Diplomatica today - we were supposed to sarge at 1pm, and I ended up waking up at 2pm. I feel fucking bad. I owe him lunch and punani. And I'm arranging this with Saka the girl from Shinagawa station. I told her bring a hottie, and I'm not sure whether she's willing to comply because she responds to my email:
"why bring a hot girl? isn't it personality that matters? btw, are you that desperate for a gf?"

Bitch is giving me disqualifiers. I have to show her I don't care by saying:
"i don't know what you're after, but if it's the right girl and the right timing, she could be my girlfriend, why not?"

the keypoint is timing. I don't want this girl as my LTR, but if she dishes out Last Minute Resistance, I can either freeze her out, or tell her that its not the right timing, and I want to find out if we're compatible sexually because its such an important part of a relationship if you're a mature girl. (plus let her know beforehand, I don't hang out with girls who are immature and needy).

I need my beauty sleep so Stealth is off!

September 16th 2011: You gotta F-Close by D3
Warmup: 1
Approach: 3
N-Close: 2

Diplomatica told me: "if I don't F-close her by D3, then fuck her." I thought he just can't be fucked. Yeah, he just can't be fucked, thats right. After meeting so many girls consistently, I'm starting to develop a "I can't be fucked" attitude too. Apart from the sarges, I do part-time work, do boxing, play soccer, and I'm trying to start a business online. The dates can only be fixed after a certain time (7pm+) so I need to fix up my schedule a bit.

Schedule:
8AM - Wake up
10~4PM - Work

Option 1:
4~7PM - Sarge
8~10:30PM - Boxing
Option 2:
4~7PM - Boxing
7~10PM - Date

I know there's a work-around to everything. If the girl's doing a normal Japanese job, she'll be working from at least 9am~7pm. So I gotta keep that 7~11pm bracket open.

N-Close 1: Kazu at Starbucks
When she sat next to me at Starbucks I smelt scented some really sweet perfume. I broke the 3 second rule out of approaching, but around 10seconds in, I opened.
Me: "I really like your perfume"
Her: "ermm...yeah thanks" (reaction wasn't great)
Me: "It's a...sweet scent, I really love perfumes"
Her: "thanks, where are you from?"

So then we talked for an hour and a half, I teased her a little during that time. I gotta learn to initiate the bounce and go on that instant date. Still need practice, but I eventually number closed

Kazu's a 6.0 - really small and cute. Also made her open up and she's actually a bit of an easy girl, so lets see how things roll

N-Close 2: Aya at the train station
I was walking at the train platform when I sensed this girl must be pretty. I opened over the shoulder indirect:
Me: This train goes to xyz?
Her: yeah (broken english)
Me: By the way, I really like the shirt you're wearing underneath. It feels like summer. It was really hot today btw wasn't it?

Then we got on the same train and chatted for around 30minutes. She was fucking cute. A HB7. Her smile was amazing, and so was her skin. She was drunk so she told me its really easy to talk to her now. I did the friend routine - talked about my best friends (DHV), and then asked her about the man she likes.

Me: what type of guy do you like?
Her: Someone who takes the lead!
Me: I understand, you can't find too much of that in Japan. Like a guy who you go out with and always ends up asking you what you wanna have for dinner. The guy should take the lead - like "do you want Italian?". But always give the girls options - a good guy asks "do you prefer Italian or French"?
Her: I love that!!! (IOI)

I text her later and she replies by saying "lets go drinking". Now comes the next challenge, at least a higher quality challenge but a hard nut to crack.

I can't drink
When I drink, I vomit. I get a headache. I get nauseous. And then I end up regretting it. So drinking is a big no-no for me. Now since I've left drinking out of the option, how do I get the girl drunk and not drink myself?

Any suggestions would be gratefully embraced by me and my penis.

IDEA:
Bet with my friend: "I'm doing a bet with my friend ABC who lives in XYZ (DHV here). He knows I'm a guy who never bends over, so he made a bet on me that I can't not drink for a year. This year I haven't taken a sip of alcohol while I hang out with my friends at the bar. At first it was a little uncomfortable, but my friends are all cool with it - so they get super drunk, I get super high with them, and everything turns out great. I know you're like my friends - you don't need me to drink because you know we're gonna end up having a great night. (no pauses - so lets hit the drinks!) Order cold Japanese tea. Deal Done!

I wouldn't focus so much on "I have to do this, by this day___." live in the moment- if it happens, it happens, if it doesn't, it doesn't. If you have the mindset of "I have to f-close by D3 then you're going to rush things, or, push her....just go into it accepting that whatever happens, happens but, you're going to have fun no matter what.


Also- just tell the girl, "I don't drink, but I love conversation, so, let's do that. If you want to drink, cool, I won't" that shows her you have a pretty solid frame. If she asks why, explain the bet thing, it's kind of funny and use that voice!

It also looks like you're complimenting a lot. Don't compliment until they have earned a reason to be complimented.

I'll give you an example of a recent approach I did- it's on my FR. previous-vt99907.html?postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=0

During my carpool this morning (I have a 40 min commute to work, sometimes more if there is traffic in the tunnel) one of the people I ride with wanted to go to Dunkin Donuts- I don't normally eat stuff like this but I figured what the hell.

Immediately upon entering I spy a milf. A bonafide milf. Blonde, tan, incredible body. The whole way to work I kept thinking, can I really sarge at 6am? Would that even work, but here before me was a 9+. I had to act and try it out

She was leaning over the counter telling the cashier which donuts she wanted. Every guy in the place had eyes on her. I knew if I was going to do this, not only would I have to neg, but also open at the same time. Both risky and more so that early in the morning. She was wearing khaki business pants and black shirt. I am in khakis and a black dress shirt. Perfect.

I step up in line as she waits for her stuff, take a breathe and go totally on instinct. It was one of those things where you don't think, you just do.

"Holy crap you totally copied me! Black shirt and khakis. We need to coordinate better." I say with a smirk. She has her back to me, I am standing at an angle and talking over my shoulder. She turns, faces me with a huge grin, reaches for my bicep and says: "I know we totally do, next time I'll send you a memo.

Just that IOI alone would have been enough once upon a time, but she is a stone cold milf so I continue. "You know I think that is a good idea, I think you should send me a memo if you're going to copy what I am wearing. This is embarrassing for both of us." I laugh, she squeeze harder on my arm, looks me up and down. Hook!

That is an example of my open. I like how you're not using canned stuff though. Keep it up dude

September 17th: Happy 25th B-Day to Me

I had a date with my LTR all day today. Sexed twice, came once, and ate some Chinese food. She gave me an awesome b-day present, an album with all our photographs. Its swaying me around emotionally because I feel bad I have 2 D2's tomorrow, and will be sarging at school festivals.

One thing I realized. The more I sarge, the less I feel for my LTR. I don't think I was having that much fun today to be honest. On a 1~10, being with her felt like a 4 experience. The sex is getting bland too. I'm losing interest. Playa needs some new territory to explore

Fear of Success/Failure or Lack of Purpose?
Its hard to pin point whats worrying me inside. Is it the fact I feel so successful with pickup lately that I'm afraid of moving towards the unknown? Or is it the fact I'm scared of hurting people from my success? (ie-LTR finding out and getting hurt, hurting other along my journey). Or is it that I don't have enough purpose to keep me fueled to pick girls up? I've been thinking too much. Its a combination of it all. But I know when I'm in set, I'm enjoying life with a genuine smile on my face.

Perhaps I'm 25 now and I'm feeling the pressures of life I should have felt when I was 18. I tell girls I'm 18 sometimes. 7 years is huge. One can start multi-million dollar company, become a professional boxer, a mPUA, and have 100's of people on his birthday. Mine didn't turn out that way. Perhaps its something I desire, a lifestyle where I'm always surrounded by friends - and having a blast on special days like my b-day.

Tomorrow
I've got D2 with model girl and Saka (she works at a hostess bar serving horny balding men drinks). My game is improving so quickly. I want some space to pace things down and get some sleep. Seriously...

Reply to M2
Whatever happens, happens I guess. Its the initial fear of that thing turning into guilt.

I also realize I'm giving the girl too much compliment to fill the empty space of quietness plus because I get the pleasure of an instant "thank you" response. I'll practice combining IOI with an IOD so she doesn't get stuck up like a little bitch!

September 18th: Failure, Kiss Close, and the F-Close I Rejected
Approach: 13
N-Close: 3
K-Close: 1

Its 5:30am. I'm back home. I have mixed feelings inside. I didn't have any exciting feelings inside, or a feeling that I won. I kind of ended up more confused than ever. Well lets go back 18hrs back to the morning of Sunday...

School Festival Sarge
Once again, here it comes. Its the school festival sarge. I'm so bad at sarging at school festivals its ridiculous. But today was the day to prove myself wrong, because I created a routine stack to apply. My main goal today is to practice "DISQUALIFYING".

As I arrived, I opened a 3-set on their way to the school. I did the english directional opener, transitioned into broken Japanese, and then teased the hell out of one girl - called her "charai" meaning - a light girl in Japanese, lol. Most importantly I got them to laugh so it was all cool. But none of them were good looking so I introduced them to Legoman, and then said "bye". How cold hearted, they wanted my number so I could seduce them and fuck them.

Anyway, there were a lot of girls. So me and Legoman got started. My energy was fine but Legoman was losing his because he lost his wallet the other day. We started opening a few cuties - they all gave IOI's to Legoman. 2minutes into the conversation, all the girl had dried up looks on their faces. Even though these girls were obviously sitting around to be picked up by these fucking AFC's around us. It was funny because there was this one area where girls just sat down waiting for guys to approach them. I don't know what it is, we're both very good looking, alpha-attitude, great body posture and voice, and our conversation is meant to entertain, but they just don't dig. Perhaps its because we don't fit the initial criteria they have in their minds for coming to this school festival - we're not from this school!

We kept approaching but every conversation ended up dry and sour - with the expression on the girls' faces. Legoman always told me "lets bounce" when the girls immediately showed the looks. I always tried persisting to keep them interested but failed in every set. We took a break and ate Yakisoba.

Then a mother visiting the school told me with hostility: "someone's sitting here". I nodded and said "okay I'll move". I told Legoman we should find another location. Then he said "why? why the hell do we have to move because she told us to?". Legoman reminds me I need to stand up for myself, and not be pushed around. Because I hate being pushed around and I look like a fucking loser doing so. So I sat down, but allowed enough space for another person to sit next to the mother. Problem solved.

I told Legoman to move the one guy who was next to a 2set. As he moved him, I approached one the set, opened them, and then the little guy went away. We all talked for like 25minutes, then we bounced. We spend too long in one set its ridiculous. The girl I was talking to was adventurous and was looking forward to the skydiving trip to Australia. I guess its because our fail rate is so high. Then we find another 2set. I talk to a semi-slutty weird snowboard loving girl. Both sets, I tease. But gotta work on my disqualifies!

Then it was 5pm already as we knew it, and one of the girls from the other week approached us. It was the girl we met and she was a crazy little monster- number closed her too. So we went ahead and approached different girls, but nothing ever clicked. As we were in a 3set, 4 AMOGS came our way and blocked me and the girls and Legoman. One of them said, the girl is my sexfriend. He said: you were doing magic a while ago weren't you? I said, no, what are you talking about.

I didn't blast the AMOG because I got a little scared - they were big. So I told Legoman, "lets bail". He got pissed off: "why the fuck do we have to bail just because these fucking idiots interrupt us? If we leave now, we'll end up looking like losers!" Fuck, he's truly right, I really need to bring to the surface the alpha side of me! Legoman said: "even if I might lose, I'd still fight against them because I hate losing." - thats the attitude I need. Like Mystery vs the Soviet guy with the gun.

Legoman n-closed a girl he really liked so he didn't wanna sarge anymore at the place because he'd look bad. So we bounced, and then headed to Ikebukuro.

Day 2 with Model Girl
I met Lem, the model girl at Ikebukuro. I introduced her to Legoman and we chatted for a while. It was great Legoman came, because I didn't know what to talk about at times. But anyway, Lem was looking fine, she had pretty large breasts proportional to her body. I gave her a hug - instant kino - something that doesn't happen in Japan. My PUA buddy Jay told me "a handshake is like a hug in Japan, girls in Japan find a handshake really warm!". So I escalate it and take it one level up to a hug - perhaps its like kissing on the lips in Western terms!

We head for the department store and check out the animal corner. Then we head down to the furniture area and sit around on the beds. I give the the pillow and do the intimate talk.
Me: You know, my friends from Thailand all have these huggable pillows - I guess many of them really wanted love. Do you like hugging things while you're asleep?
Her: Yeah, hugging things while asleep feels great
Me: But nothing is better than hugging a real person isn't it? (I hug her while saying it)

Gay Routine:
Somewhere along the lines, I told her a story of meeting gay people in Sydney. And when she asked whether I was gay (jokingly) - I told her yeah I'm gay. She really believed me and ended up being confused but in agreement!

I was starving and wanted food, so we went and ate. I ended up paying which was stupid because she offered. I was thinking of how to make her pay her half during dinner, but I thought fuck-it!

It was 9:30pm and we started heading towards the station but I wanted to find a quiet place to chat. Lucky for us, we found a set of stairs, nicely lit up, great place to chat. We chatted and then kino'd a bit. I disqualified her enough today - when she told me something which is different to my opinion, I told her: "we can't be friends anymore, we'd never get along! (with a smile and laugh)" - she always responded by - "nooo, we can so get along!"

I also came up with a fun routine every PUA can use for a kiss close displayed at the end of today's update. So we played along Stealth's kiss close routine (without an actual kiss) and kept staring at each other trying to make each other laugh.

Before the kiss, she still thought I might be gay or bisexual. So I kept teasing her and told her I won't tell her!

The kiss close
Me: I'm really surprised you don't threatened when I get my face close to yours
Her: I'm fine with it, its not threatening.
Me: What if I get this close!
Her: Its fine~
Me: What if its this close?
(as I keep giving her a soft kiss)
Me: now you know one option is out of the question (with regards to being gay, bi, or straight).


She has a really small mouth, soft lips, and her tongue is like so fucking soft and nice.

I initiate the bounce and we head back to the train station. We get on the same train, and when we were gonna say goodbye, hugged her and kissed her. Now comes the guilt with me and my current LTR…fuck!

The F-Close I rejected
D2 with Kana - the hostess girl. We meet at Kawasaki - I go there with my bicycle and we head towards the river. We buy non-alcoholic drinks and talk for hours and hours. We get along so fucking well so far. I learned she's a really sensitive girl, so all that negging I did towards the start was ineffective for her.

She advised me that I should break up with my LTR if I want to play around with many girls (I admitted I want to fuck around because I never had the chance when younger). But then before that, I was advising her with her ADD/sleep deprivation problem, and her relationship issues. She's actually a really good girl with a simple dream of finding a good man, marrying him, and being a loving wife with children. She has self-esteem problems because she feels she's like an object when people have sex with her.

I met her around 12:45am. Around 3:30am, I was already losing it, half asleep and a little stomach cramp. Around 4:30am, we started having sex talk. She told me she liked sex talk.
Me: So whats your favorite position? I had the impression…well, I won't actually tell you.
Her: tell me tell me!!!
Me: Fine, you told me you wanted to dominate your man. So you must love being on top.
Her: actually I don't like being on top too much, I get tired. I prefer missionary.
Me: Does sex feel differently with every person?
Her: Yeah, there's always a match or an un-match with regards to sex…
Me: It would be interesting to find out whether we match [laughing]
Her: Totally!
Me: But I'm sorry I can't have sex with you, I wanna keep this cool relationship going!
Her: …awww, okay.
Me: You know the love hotels around Kawasaki? There's a bali-style place where you can rent games, a portable planetarium, and nintendo wii. We should go there and play wii, take a bath together…
Her: …and put it in?
Me: {laughing} definitely!

When I told her "lets go to the love hotel and find out" she kept on saying yes. So I could have gone. But I had a stomach ache, plus my libido was extremely low, and Sleep>Sex was the status quo. I did a fun thing where I made her feel a sarge of energy!

Me: The condoms I wear are big size
Her: You have a big one?
Me: I don't know, but this is how it is when its not erect
{I pull her hand and put it on my penis - she rubs it a bit and then takes it back}
Her: Okay, normal size is normal. But omg! I feel so dokidoki (like butterflies in my chest) when you put my hand on your penis! I usually have fun and touch people's dick's but its the first time someone took my hand and put it on their penis!!!

Around 5:30am, it was enough. I was sleepy, and so it was time for me to go. I initiated the bounce, we hugged, and said goodbye. She told me if we had sex, she might fall in love with me. Even without the sex she said: "you're really attractive. I bet your really good with the girls. I could end up falling in love with you". Great approval I got, perhaps the validation I've been seeking all along from changing myself to become a PUA.

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Stealth's Kiss Close Routine
Lets play a fun game. Okay, I'm gonna get my face really close to yours. When I get close enough, I want you to get your face close to mine. And see what happens. [as you get your face close to her, she'll get a little closer and you automatically pull back].

Whats funny is, when I'm getting close to you but then you suddenly get closer, I repel backwards! (could be the truth in life too, lol)

Okay, now you try getting your face close to me.

[as she gets her face close to yours, don't get your face close to hers. Just stay there. As she gets closer and closer, turn your head and peck her on the lips!
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Day 2 with Yumi tomorrow.

I'm gonna have fun. But I'll have the goal in mind to kiss close by D2, and f-close by D3.

That means logistics. Finding a quiet place to talk after dinner/drinks. Soft-drinks for me, so its a good timing to test my: I dont drink routine.

I'm reluctant to arrange a D2 with Aoi because she's not my type, but if I can practice D2 F-close it'd be great. Here's a brainstorm of things I can do to escalate to D2:
-sex talk (favorite position, strawberry fields routine from pickuplabs.com)
-logistics (quiet and romantic looking place to talk after dinner/drinks)
-seed the bounce (movies, whats your house like, do friends visit, etc)

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This is my rough routine for f-close:
1. Go to restaurant/bar for food/chat. DHV and Disqualify as much as I can. Use outstanding body language and tone. Tease her, and make it easy and comfortable for her to talk about anything to me. Make her feel safe with me - show her I'm a non-threatening fun guy and not a serial killer.
Also talk about movies and her house. Also Strawberry Fields routine and escalate sex talk a bit.
2. Bounce her to quiet location while conversation is still fresh. Kiss-close her there, and then suggest it'd be cool to stay for longer, but I need some sleep. Tell her I wanna see that "interesting thing" from her house, or "rent that movie".
3. Go to her house, take a piss/shit/shower, get ready for bed, and get to the sex!

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