Id been recieving e-mails from a lot of guys in the Northern Ireland area about organising a possible meet, so I figured WTF! lets just go do it! So I e-mailed a bunch of PUAs back and forth the last two weeks to get something organised etc.

The plan was to meet at a pub around 6 or 7, have a chat, then go sarge. One of the guys that was attending the meet got called away last minute for work reasons, and another couldnt make it (no worries guys).

IRISHCHARM and me met up first in the pub around 7 and my first impressions were like WTF does this guy need pickup for? He's a good looking guy, very sociable and with more than a hint of a younger David Borenaz (Angel from Buffy) about him lol

We chatted for an hour or so and bounced to another pub to meet up with Jon, another PUA. While we were waiting for Jon we spotted a two set (Blonde HB8 with a Brunette HB6) who were SURROUNDED by AFC guys. We sat opposite them and analyzed thier body language and stuff. We even got some IOI's thrown accross to us from the girls as if to say 'get us the fuck outta here' But for whatever reason, neither me or irishcharm made a move.

Got a txt from Jon saying he'd arrived so we met him at the bar. To be honest I think he was a little intimidated because of the fact that me and irishcharm had gotten to know eachother and that Jon was joining the group a few hours late. From first impressions I liked him, and Id like to sarge with him sometime and get to know him cause he seems like a cool dude. He wanted to stay in that pub with his friends so we didnt pressire him to leave.

Me and irishcharm then bounced to a club a few miles away called 'the box'. I figured that irishcharm knows his own city better than I do so I let him lead. 30 minutes later and an entrance fee of £7 had us standing in the middle of the club and I just...FROZE.

Im really disappointed with myself. I didnt even try to make an approach the whole night. irishcharm dragged me onto the dance floor where I danced for like 30 seconds if even.

Fuck me Ive never felt so fucking useless in my entire life. Its the location, not nescessarily the AA. Im incredibly intimidated by club enviroments. And to top it off it was a dance/trance club. I fucking hate dance/trance lol

irishcharm is a good mover, the fucker can dance despite what he says. He also seemed to be familiar with the songs and stuff where I just felt fucking useless altogether. Give the man his props, he really did try with me, and Im immensely thankful for the time and effort he put in, but nothing he said was going to make me approach anyone in that club.

We headed to the downstairs part of the club where I opened up a bit, I stole a camera off a bunch of HB 6/7's and took some photos of them an made fun of one of the girls in the photos. We danced alongside them for like 30 mins. Irishcharm dragged one of them over to him (ill let hm tell that story if he wants) then we called it a night.

He walked me to my friends house cause I had no fucking idea where I was going and on the way we fluffed about the game and stuff.

I met up my the friend I was staying with as irishcharm got into a taxi and headed home.
My friend is an HB6/7 who lives in student uni dorms. She took me inside and introduced me to her friends, five guys and two girls, one of which was an HB8.5.

So I went to work. DHV'd the group, started into drinking games, isolated the HB8.5. NEG NEG NEG lol puch pull. Worked VERY WELL. But then I found out that she was a fucking VIRGIN (which bothered me) and had started seeing one of the guys in the dorm (which DIDNT bother me because I out alpha'ed him from the get-go lol). So at that stage I was all like fuck thi Im too fucking tired (it was like 5 in the morning) and drunk (loads of beers and half a bottle of vodka) for this shit.

So everyone fucked off except for my HB6/7 friend and another guy, who was cool. We left the dorms at like 6 in the morning to get some pizza. Came back to the dorms, cooked and ate the pizza and then excused myself to go home on the 8 o'clock bus.

On the bus journey I remembered something I said to irishcharm that night...that we would sarge again in a few months...and that I would OWN that fucking dancefloor. Im taking myself out to the most loud, in-your-face clubs in my area to overcome this fear of club enviroments. Im going to get this shit sorted, cause I really let myself down, and feel like I let irishcharm down too.

A few hours later I arrived back in my own house looking forward to a nice warm shower, only to find that our fuse box for the electricity had blown so I was like fuck this Im going to bed.

I think, getting used to club environments will work for you. So i think that might be a good idea.

And don't chicken out because a girl tells you she is a virgin. There is nothing much YOU can do wrong. No doubt someon might fuck it up. But hell, you have good intentions with her. Even though or maybe because you where gaming. Just keep talking to her and be nice, look for her reactions and imrprove your game.

My final tip for you is: Give a buddy a 50£ maybe more, like the 200.- from Mystery and tell them to give you a part of your money back with every approach. And approach the first set that comes under your nose for the first money. After that, shift over to serious gaming. It helped me very much.

- WT

yea thats my gameplan now
She wasnt the one that told me, it was my pivot that told me. I kept chatting to her anyways, paving the way for the day I turn up at her door when shes not a virgin.
Im gonna try this for defs. Thanks for the feedback dude. If anyone else wants to leave feedback, ur more than welcome.

Appologies again for not being able to meet up with you guys but fair play to you for setting the meet up in the first place... someone has to get us up off our arses and get us out there among like minded individuals.

Dont let that night worry you. If I was there...then there would probably have been two of us freezing!?!

You learnt a few lessons and were made aware of a few areas that might need sorting out. Thats what this is all about. When you extend your boundaries and extend your comfort zones then you really start to learn about where your at and where you need to go. Once you see whats wrong you have a better chance of fixing it. You learnt something...it was a good nights work then!

Hey, I think it`s good for start. Freezing is normal sometimes. Drink more beer -antifreezer .
About the tip with the money, HEY THAT`S JUST PERFECT.
The major thing is HAVE FUN, don`t bother about the other things. Have fun and... have fun

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lol get ur ass out for the next meet. Better yet, come meet me in Derry before x-mas and we'l have a sarge up here
I totally agree. I think its better for me in the long run. I have a very hard time getting emotional about stuff. This night made me emotional...and now that emotion is what is going to kickstart me into changing things. Despite the failures...it was a good night in that respect.

Gadget remember, there are no failures, only lessons to be learned..

And you're going to have good nights, and not so good ones. This is a given.

Although fairly soon, the good ones will start outnumbering the not so good ones.. Until the not so good ones become rarer, and rarer..

Get back out there and give it hell..

What's the alternative? The bottle of lotion and towel..

No brainer, huh?

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