Hi,

went to 3 clubs one after another. Did several approaches in each- probably near 15 approaches in around 3 hours- basically using the idea that my only criteria for success was the approach-

after about ten approaches and getting nothing much more than pleasant chit chat back but nothing solid- I decide to hit the road for my last venue.

Straight into conversation as I open the door and hear the bass booming inside the club- I spot a girl I had approached in an earlier venue- so I approach- it was cool- I then approach a hb8 and eject prematuraly- run out of "material" but wanted to keep it going.

Go over to another hb8 and she is wearing a top with the union jack on it- hot as fuck- and anyways I start talking and ask her if she wants to go to dance- she accepts and I take her hand lead her to the floor-

we were dancing and I put my hands around her waist- she doesn´t politely remove them but keeps on dancing and doing these sexy Spanish dances for me- Jeez nearly busted my nut.

I keep getting IOIs and so I decide to try to kiss her but it doesn´t fly and she moves away her head. She had already had to go to the toilet and disappeared a couple of times but only for a little while and then come back to me. Oh Man, I really thought- this is it!!!!

Anyway to cut a long story short- I twirl her around a few times and then she introduces me to her frilends who also want to talk to me- I felt the man" in fact- in about fifteen minutes- I noticed that just about every hot girl was looking at me in the area and got loads of AIs- but I thought that it was really on with this girl and me.

I never saw it coming- she just disappeared leaving me standing on my own- for about 15 minutes and like an idiot I just waited- I felt that it was really on and never could have thought she would blow me off-

Anyway, after 15 minutes she comes back with a girlfriend in tow and completely ignores me so I go over completely mystified- "did I do something?"
she says, no, I was loooking for you.
Total lie, cos she walked straight past me--- I mean I just couldn´t believe how my buying temp could go from red hot to freezing point in less than 5.

Suppose it was going for the k close that fucked her up.

Also, I had been wise enough to get her number a little after we met and after calling yesterday realised the number doesn´t exist!!! She completely fooled me.

Lessons learned....
1. Just because a girl "seems" to be interested or hooked, it doesn´t mean shit...
immediately if a girl goes to the toilet continue talking being sociable with other girls- don´t put your eggs all in one basket and never get your hopes up too high.
2. Don´t try for the make out too soon or her anti slut defence kicks in if she is in front of her friends and she could get pissed.
3. Don´t trust or think it is going to work out with any girl- cos there can be surprises even in the most "interested" chick.
4. Always be willing to lose the girl.

Now, I want to how to create more comfort so the chick doesn´t just think, all I want to do is the f close and leave.

I think it's obvious - with that much cooling water to pee out, the BT is gone very quickly :)

My opinion:
Seriously, I wouldn't KC on the dancfloor unless the heat is REALLY on, too much ASD, too public.

Then, when she keeps leaving for the toilet or some other place several times, something is wrong. If you build rapport, she will not want to be away from you. Maybe she keeps coming back, but if that emotional connection is not established, she will eject sometime. Test it - on her 2nd trip to the loo, go a litte C&F by saying: "you know, when you're not around, I feel threatened by all these hungry eyes. You know, I can resist anything but temptation..." Look for her reaction, it should be obvious what way to go.

However, I think you played it very good - the real missed chance is that you lost your frame and waited for 15min instead of just using your social proof to open the next set. As long as she does not catch you while you make out with someone else, there is nothing to complain for her, and you increase your SP for both sets.

Nice FR, keep delivering!

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Pain is temporary

Thanks bro,

I was thinking yes, that maybe to go in for the k close on the dance floor could be asking for trouble and making her look like a slut so I will watch out for that one next time.

I think previously I would have been hit fucking hard by that the other day because I had done so many appproaches I couldn´t remember half of them by the time I had finished but it just shows you that persistence pays so next time, i will in there slogging- and keep trying until I hit the jackpot.

Peace.