hi guys!

ok! so yesterday, I was on a big live event, it was a concert in my hometown cca. 5k of visitors. friend and I were mingling around the crowd and set ourselves solid somewhere in the middle of the audience space.

next to my friend there was a genuine '7' dancing like wild . few minutes after, she accidentally steps on friends shoe. I found that as a good way to open her so I playfully went over to her and accused her that she has to buy my friend a beer cause all the pain he was in . she was all like "hahahha" and turned sideways (ignore#1). so I returned to stand where I was before.

my friend wasn't paying any attention to whatever was happening here and he went deeper into the crowd. I made like 3 steps after him and than decided to go back to the gal. this was what I said the second time: "You've totally ignored me a minute a go I turned out as a total loser in front of my friend.", she was like "hahahaha" again, so I accused her: "we don't even know each other and You behaved like that.". again she does "hahahaha", and says "have a nice time!". (ignore #2).

after that I went back to my friend and couldn't decided if I should make it to her again. I didn't care much for the ignore part #3 but I didn't know what to do that would be a win this time.

do you think that I should of get back to her and do a line like this: "what's wrong with You for not letting me to know You?". any other suggestion is welcome!

ty!

First - at 5k of visitors I would not have wasted the whole evening on a HB7 that gives multiple rejections.

She was not in your proximity, so a pretty cold approach, less likely to work.

Then I would say you opened with the wrong energy level/vibe - she's dancing like crazy and totally immersed in music and moves, and you stand there arguing in a logic way on compensation for stepping on your friend. Plus your friend is totally neutral. You could have rised your energy level to hers and while dancing wild, step on your friend, he looks annoyed, and open like "I love the expression on my friend's face when someone steps on him, could you do it again for me?" Yeah you shouldn't abuse your wing blabla but when he stands around like a pole and does not party - his fault...

Next, following, returning, describing yourself as the loser is pure DLV. Let him go, make it look like you just sent him to fetch some drinks for both of you, crank up the power and go like "now let's get the party started".

Just my 2c

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man, You really make some sense! now when I roll the story again in my mind I can see that You're totally right.

thx