I will skip the details the day 1 where I got HB9's number. Basically, we met at the bus stop, I started doing DHV stories emphasizing my spontaneity and fun, busted her balls by calling her needy when she wanted me to stay with her when I said I was about to leave, and ran a half assed cube (she kept on making ridiculous answers so I just ended up joking around with her, did lots of CF teasing her about thinking about sex.) We ended up texting that night, and I role played as russian spy and shes the photographer following me around. I also got her to add me on her phone as golfer guy with cute butt, to which she called cheesy with smiley face.

Day 2:

I wasn't sure if she was going to flake or not so I sent her a text at the beginning of the day going "This is your phone. It is cramped and sweaty in your pocket. Help!"

She texted me when she got there looking for me (I was in another bookstore reading while I waited for her because she said she would be a little bit late. Only ended up being 4 minutes so I'm thinking this was a shit test.)

As we walked along, I basically mixed some CF with rapport building, asking her about her passion and why she wanted to be a business major.

We went to Starbucks, and I started talking to the waitress and joked with her about HB9. I purposely misprounouced HB9's name (personal experience tells me that women pretend to hate it when you forget their name, but actually love it. I'm guessing this is more CF?).

I led her to the park at this point. Kino was mostly incidental up to this point. At the park, I escalated to over 3, so like gently lifting her chin, running my hands through her hair, etc.

This is where some of my problems arise. I was trying to build rapport at the park and ended up staying 3 hours there. My friend called me earlier and she heard me saying I was about to leave in 30 minutes. She begged me to stay and I did, but my friend did not call back. I'm not sure if this came off as needy. I tease her for wanting me there and being needy when she begged me to stay however.

I built rapport running analysis to demonstrate that I understand the deeper meanings about how women and men are different (how men are mostly attracted to looks and women judge by personality after the man passes a basic bar for being good looking). At this point, she goes onto reveal her deeper stories such as the most spiteful thing she has ever done, the most embarassing sexual experience she ever had, etc. She even managed to reveal that she was a fat kid in middle school, to which I spun a story off about how I was the same too.

I tried to further kino by having her lay on me while we laid on the park, grabbing her hand, etc. I'm somewhat confused by the ioi's at this point because while I laid my head on her stomach, she would stroke my hair. When I tried to grab her hand, she would never reciprocate though. She did say she has never had a real bf and has only been through hook ups. I teased her at some point, to which she said I'll dump you right now. (not sure if shes play threatening violence, but this would be a first date.)

She told me that she needed to prepare for a party at 8, so we began walking to her bus stop. She started asking me what she should wear for Halloween, what she should wear for tonight. I felt this was getting a little close to LJBF territory, so I started busting out the "Do I look like a chick? Why are you asking me?" (Note to self, was there a better way to do this?). I started trying to ramp up the sexual tension by sometimes looking at her silently while she talked (eye contact was consistently strong on day 1, interspersed when I met up with her at the beginning of day 2 in case this is relevant). She replied by saying it was somewhat awkward, and I told her things are only awkward when she lets it be.

Anyway, at the bus stop, I tried to leave once again, but she begged me to stay. I took this as a final sign, so I tried to kiss close.

Me: "Stop looking at me like that. You look like you wanna kiss me" when she was silent and just staring straight at me.

Her expression slightly changed at this point
Her: "No, why do you have to make it awkward now?."

Me: "You made it awkward first by looking at me like that."

Her: "Fine, I'll look straight at the ad."

She then kept talking by asking me what my favorite book was. At this point, I tried something new and became somewhat indifferent, answering her questions slowly, not listening, etc. When the bus arrived, I busted her one last time saying, you owe me for messing up my Fruit Ninja save!



My questions for the PUA here are as follows

1) What should I have done better?
2) Should I eject and next her?
3) Did my rapport send me to LJBF zone?
4) Is there any additional details you would need for further advice?

Personally, I think you tried busting her on the same thing (being "needy") too many times. Especially if done in a C&F manner, this can be done only so many times before it gets old.

Also, she may have seen it as rude that you chastised her for asking your opinion about what to wear. She was asking your opinion of something, which is a sign of respect, and you blew her off. I think the old stereotype of men not knowing anything about fashion ("Do I look like a chick? Why are you asking me?") is not held by a lot of people any longer. Women who are fashionable are attracted to men who have an understanding of fashion. In this situation, I would have either told her to dress up as something that leads to a story (childhood favorite etc.), or give a thorough description of a Halloween outfit that you think would look sexy on her.

"Stop looking at me like that. You look like you wanna kiss me."
Again, at some point this becomes tiresome. By this point it probably seemed ingenuine (which it was) to her, and the joke of her being more attracted to you than vice versa was tiresome. Instead, just kiss her.

I don't think the rapport you developed was a negative thing; but I think some of the scenarios I have outlined cause her to lose some attraction. All may not be lost. If there is any possibility for you to hang out with her in a group setting where you both arrive separately, this could be an excellent way to attract her again. Whether alone or not, if she is still giving you good vibes, try delivering some SOIs. I don't believe all is lost with this girl, but it could possibly be a slippery slope from here.

Hope this helps.

Good report man there's plenty good stuff here, let me get my pen and paper and let my personal critiquing begin.

when a girl asks you for an opinion about something not so significant(lol) it does mean she values it and WANTS your input but its not that bad.

you did go C&F too much and she n you both noticed it when you tried to kiss close
instead of C&F kiss close you should drop your C&F frame and exchange it for a solid SOI then go for a kiss

you didnt mention anything about qualification or SOIs in your report im guessing you didnt do it and that holds your progress with her back

unfortunately the biggest mistake in my opinion was when you tried to kiss close and when it didnt work out you got grumpy? not so good, an alpha male doesnt give a fuk if he get a kiss or not and neither should you, you should really maintain your state.

All in all i think youve got somewhat solid game i love roleplaying even tho not that great at it just yet, there's still hope for this girl although its more difficult now, re build attraction

Hope this helps

I didn't do much SOI's other than body language and telling her she had great hair. She talked multiple times about how other guys complement her on her tits. I didn't bite the bait and say anything however.

So she ended up texting me first today asking me what I was doing and saying she is bored. Just told her I am busy and cooking. Should I play hard to get to amp up attraction? or Should I demonstrate stronger SOI's?

My thought process right now is that she sees me as in the limbo stage where she isn't sure whether she wants to pursue a relationship with me or not, but wants to keep me as an orbiter so she doesn't want to lose me as a contact. As a result, I'm considering just being distant for now.

I think if a girl texts you just to say she is bored, that is a huge IOI. I would personally advise against being distant.

Yeah you were a little too rough with her. The escalation is good, but there's no need to constantly tease her. Girls are attracted to a guy with multiple sides, don't only show your cocky one. Some specific situations you could have handled better:
1. On the party/Halloween part, she's offering a good conversation topic, drop the teasing and have a good conversation with her.
2. Being silent can be good when it comes naturally. If you're really listening to her, and have a good feeling for the rhythm of the conversation, then slow down the pace, talk less, maintain more eye contact.
3. Your k-close attempt was arrogant. Should have just kissed her, or, rather than blaming her for the sexuality, place it on yourself. "It's so hard not to kiss you right now."
4. And then you got moody after being rejected. No need for that.

But it sounds like you did well otherwise, she is definitely interested and you should show interest when she does. Be nice to her, be positive and a team player. She'll appreciate it.

So im planning on bringing her bqck to my place so i can cook something. Yay or nay?