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PostPosted: Sun Sep 11, 2011 7:03 pm 
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So Lately I have been studying a lot of Vince Kelvins material.. And his shit is tight.. its extreme fast kino escalation and hardcore attraction pushing! I approached this 2 set down in Santa Monica and instantly I used Vince's situational type rolling openers,
BAO: “ooohh I like your business clothing you just came from an interview didn't you?”
She totally laughed at that but the weird thing was her fiend was wearing a dress/ club kind of clothing and I totally called them out.
BAO: “ You guys aren't best friends aren't you. She is dressed like she is ready to make some sales and your dressed to impress, ready to throw down some dance moves.”I moved my finger from the business looking girl to the club girl.
HB: 8.5: haha no no The interview was good and yeah I so love to party. (this was my first time seeing a girl qualify.)
Bao:

My major SP is I Freeze after I get positive feedback... My vibe is actually working... and then I just stop dead in my tracks. What do I do to keep the vibe.. I assume I just keep practicing and studying Vince's material its totally heping Im going to study his. How to Continue a conversation DVD thats going to help soooo much!!! I heard good things about it.


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:54 pm 
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I'm hoping this isn't just a plug for this PUA, but here's my advice.

Rely less on the canned stuff. That was a great opener, but there's no need to think of routines all the time. Meditate (this is the best advice I can give anyone) before you go out and maintain that calm and focused mental state. People will be naturally drawn to you.


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 12, 2011 5:27 pm 
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Naw this isnt a plug i went to one of Vince Kelvins Boot camps and he's the reason why im even approaching before him i was jsut at home studying and reading.. Thanks for the advice bro, that is actually what i did, Im Way calm now when i open and im working on one thing at a time. I open then hook, but after the hook and a bit of teasing i usually freeze out and be quiet. One thing at a time i guess. My next goal is to start trying to run role playing more and kino escalation...


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Naw this isnt a plug i went to one of Vince Kelvins Boot camps and he's the reason why im even approaching before him i was jsut at home studying and reading.. Thanks for the advice bro, that is actually what i did, Im Way calm now when i open and im working on one thing at a time. I open then hook, but after the hook and a bit of teasing i usually freeze out and be quiet. One thing at a time i guess. My next goal is to start trying to run role playing more and kino escalation...
Try a question. Even an "interview" one. As long as you aren't throwing question after question, they work great to get conversation flowing.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 6:32 pm 
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It's okay if you freeze a little after the opener. Just maintain eye contact (if reasonable) and keep going. Most people have to think of stuff to say, including girls, so they won't freak out if you pause for a few seconds to come up with something. After some practice it will flow much easier and you might find yourself just relaxed and talking to people without the long pauses. Natural game is just as important as the canned openers and lines. Without it long term interactions will become stale since you will run out of canned material.


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