Well, this was my first approach in a long while, and I went for it. Went out for the Newbie Mission at a local mall, but traffic was at an all-time low. Also, it apparently was Older Women Day, and I missed the memo. When it comes down to it tho, a person's a person, and the mission was only to say "hey," so I did that.
At one point I walked past one of the clothing stores and saw HB Mosquito. 10 (everybody has their opinions on rating, but after a certain point a beautiful woman is a 10 for me, what's the essential difference b/n a 10 and a 9?) Very petite, around 5 foot 4, c cup, long black hair, Indian. I walked back and entered. I asked about the scarf I'd seen outside, said I was shopping for a gf of mine, and her co-worker talked with me. Found out it was a "shrug," a more versatile version of a scarf. Learn something new everyday. . .
HB Mosquito went over an modeled a shrug for me. Very sexy. Chatted with her about the shrug. Then I meandered around the store for a bit. Came back and saw her scratching her elbow.
Me: Itchy?
HB: Yeah, mosquitos got me.
Me: Pesky little things. . .
HB: I got like 20 bites just going home yesterday.
Me: Geez, what do you live on a swamp? 20 bites?
Conversation petered out a bit after this. I def kept her laughing, found out about where she lives, that she works full-time at the store, little things. I also briefly opened the conversation to a customer who was listening. I had EC throughout the convo, but I couldn't really find a way to crank up a sexual vibe.
I finally just asked for her number. "Hey, you seem like a fun person. Here, put your number in so we can hang out some time." She said that her boyfriend wouldn't like that. I made a face-saving comment, and ejected soon after that.
Comments much appreciated. This is what I took away from this:
- I opened and engaged a HB 10. That's great experience. As I'm working out now, and will soon replace my glasses with contacts, my PV will only improve.
Looking back on it, I see that I am a really engaging person. I knew that from the start. The problem, or sticking point, I see is pumping the sexual vibe.
Also, I feel that I approached indirectly, with the impromptu scarf opener I used. I've been wanting to do direct game, and I feel that the jump from convo to asking for her number was a bit abrupt because of this.
Lastly, I wonder, if anybody knows of a way to practice becoming more observant DURING the pick-up. Looking back on it, I don't think I got any sexual signals at all.
-H!j!nx