i work overnight shift at a walmart and i start my shift a few hours before the store closes. So i use that time to practice game or simple conversation techniques on customers as i walk through the store. now last night this HB9 was in my isle texting. so i said to her did you come here to text or shop? it worked well where she smiled and laughed. i told her how confused she looked and a few other witty comments and i felt this real good vibe with her and saw an ioi.
And this is where it all went wrong. I left the isle!!??!?!?!?!? i was dropping off new frieght into the isles so i kept working. but i kept purposely grabbing frieght that would bring me back to isle she was in. I gave her a few more witty comments (something i must say I am an ace at). she was still reacting well and lingering.
I should have dropped what i was doing stood there and talked her and tried to get the number close. At that moment I even thought out a good conversational topic that i could lead into the #close. But i just kept working, walking by her and throwing remarks. in the end she i think she kinda got creeped out and left.I was talking to my friend later on and he said i definetly fucked up by walking by her too many times and coming of as a stalker.
So things i learned by failing - 1. don't rely on one technique or skill cause it gets stale fast. 2. when walking by a girl open her and close the deal either on the first or second interaction because if your still coming by for third, fourths, and even fifth interactions without displaying your intent directly, you will come of as creepy and wierd.
Bottom line to all the newbs out there. get out, try and fail. I won't lie it can be scary as hell, but you will slowly build an immunity to the fear while learning some key pieces of info that will help you grow.