I was at a local club and it was pretty dead, but my buddies were the DJs. I'm standing at the bar talking to one of them and I notice a 7 and a 7.5 sitting at the bar. I figured since they were the best I could get in the place, I might as well give it a try. I slid over to them and said "I need your adivice on something, my buddy the Dj there is having a birthday next weekend and we are trying to figure out what to do for his party, any suggestions?". Right off the bat I got what could have been a shit test by the obstacle, or just a standard reply in the suggestion of strippers. I said "Ya that's been brought up, but we're not really into that". She (the 7) suggested chip and dales, I said "hey, it's his birthday not mine;)". At this point, after giving the target the proper ignore time I realized the 7 was actually alos a 7.5. I threw out some negs to the target "oh you just got off work? I can tell by your hair ", "That gap in your teeth is so cute!". Anyway, the other girl had a crush on a bouncer and I played the whole gay thing some more, than I offered to find out if he was single. I than broke contact with them and went and told my buddy Djing about how funny it was telling these girls I was gay. He took it a step further by sending the next song out to me "who just came out of the closet today".... he's not familiar with the game.
So I go back to the ladies and get their names, I give them mine (Caliber). Anyway the one goes to the washroom (by herself for some reason) leaving me with the target, I use the ESP trick on her and she naturally chooses 7. She says "try it on my friend" I explained the psychological oddity that people ussually pick 7. I said your friend will too. Turns out 7 is the friend's favourite number, so that worked twice in a matter of seconds. I made sure to work Kino a couple of times, and at the end of the night a slow song came on, I asked the target for a dance which she graciously accepted (IOI?). We dance and the lights come on. Here's where I get stumped. I couldn't seem to number close them and I screwed up trying so I'm pretty sure they knew I was trying for a number close. I invited them to a party the following day. Than I wasn't sure how to get past the gay thing (I should have done nothing) but instead I told them straight up "oh by the way, I'm straight". So by the end of my sarge I was becoming kind of AFC like. But I think my good outwieghed the bad.

All in all I'd say not bad for someone who is only on step 3: chapter 9, but I'm highly self-critical. Thoughts???

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not bad, but you need more rapport building stuff to gain attraction, like games, routines, etc. when you have the attraction THEN you can slickly show them you're not gay.


i think you need a more cocky-funny attitude when you're gaming girls...works a lot better. as for you question about how to show them you're not gay, just say something funny involving "my ex-girlfriend". if they ask about if ur gay or not then, just bust on them talking about how gullible or something they are.

Thanks, advice is always helpful. Come to thinkof it when I was dancing with her I did mention something about and ex g/f and after a pause said "...... se this is new to me"
What do you mean by the "cocky-funny attitude"??

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Caliber: "It's not often you find a guy of my caliber...."

Okay so after last night I decided to keep it up. I was hoping I'd see the girls from last night at my buddies party but after a bit I realized that was an AFC wish. Throughout the night the only girls around were ex-girlfriends, current girlfriends/wives of my buddies, or <5's...... none of which I considered worthy of my sarge's. I did however use them as practice for confidence.
I have recently begun to follow the rule of not getting drunk, whilst sarging. My one buddy is skeptical of the game.... and all it's glory, but the way I see it, the less ppl believe in it, the more is left open for me.okay, so towards the end of the night some people show up. There is an 8.75 an 8.5 and a young lad. I later found out the lad was the 8.75's brother. (I don't know why she would bring him out). I remembered this girl from halloween at the bar..... probably because she was wearing her skanky "daisy duke" costume again. I tried a few slight openers on her in front of my buddy and than used some negs..... she seemed like A) too stupid of a girl to appreciate compliments and B) someone who doesn't like to not get her way.
So I decided that the 8.5 was cooler anyway. So we were sitting outside my buddies place and I said "I have a question, should a guy consider it, a compliment, or an insult to his masculinity when a gay guy hits on him?" She said a compliment. I went on to explain that this always happens to me, and that the month before when I was skydiving in Simcoe, the guy who was packing chutes was also hitting on me, I could justify this making me feel uncomfortable"
I was going through my FMAC steps when all of a sudden the young lad that came with this girl and his sister comes bolting out of the house! At first I didn't know what to think, but as I saw my buddies bolt after him I thought of the old 'Army guy + Whiskey = trouble' bit. I said " I'll be right back".
I ran ahead of my buddies and ahead of the lad and cut him off. He was crying and whining about this that and the other thing. Apparently he had opened a door to find his sister getting fed by my buddy (kudos to him). and he hit my buddy.
well that made everyone mad. To me I thought "if you know you are going out to get fucked, leave your lil brother at home" and if your bro is going to catch you make sure it is cool with it". Anyway I felt bad for stopping my buddies from teaching the lad an important lesson.
Anyway, even though I thought the opposite, I was able to work game on the girl I had begun on
finally ppl started leaving. I offered to give her a ride (since the Game told me not to get drunk when we go out) She accepted. I said we need to hang out again, she agreed. I said but how will I ever get to see you, and she gave me her number.
Than when I drove her home, I thought I was going to use the kiss close and before I could even say ..", she used it on me and kissed me.
Now I'll see where this goes, but with any luck, I'll give her, her massage and she'll want more.
I'm excited to kiss her again

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Caliber: "It's not often you find a guy of my caliber...."