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| umarkhan8627 | PostPosted: Fri Jul 15, 2011 8:45 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Jul 07, 2011 3:01 am Posts: 18 | | I went sarging for first time with my friends who basically did not have any idea of the game. Its not to say that I am not an AFC but a RAFC. So i went to a bar i hit on the bartender, tried to a make conversation but then moved on quickly this was a small bar. I smiled and held a high posture. I did approach a lot of groups at a club i went in a club. I did the “Did you see the fight" followed by the ESP routine.
I engaged some groups I did give a lot of IOD"s but did not neg the girl which was my biggest mistake. The group because I did not neg the target in fact i never had a specific target in mind. in I was having trouble engaging After a bit I was able to engage a girl into conversation. Her friend who had a bf was less responsive. I missed the chance by not engaging her in the conversation. The girl kept on giving me IOI's and i reciprocated her IOI's I tried the spin around routine to keep take her seat and she sat in my lap afterwards. She asked me to tie her hair and asked me a lot of questions. When I tried the Best friend routine they actually made out which was I think pretty HOT to see anyway. The girl said your interesting but we are together and we won’t be able to do something tn. I failed to get a #close that night but i returned to her after a good bye kiss.
I have learned from my experience. Luckily I did not have much approach anxiety but i need to work on my transitioning and DHV's and not showing interest. I shall remember this next time.
• In brief here what I did wrong
• Not engaging the entire group.
• Having no particular target in mind
• Not negging enough
• Lack of a proper wingman
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| 0uch | PostPosted: Sat Jul 16, 2011 9:50 am | |
Joined: Sat Oct 02, 2010 8:36 pm Posts: 1253 | | From reading your field report.
#1. Negging is a big NO if your target is giving IOI already. Teasing is OK. Learn the difference. If you do neg girls are that are into you, calibrated with IOI. Push/Pull.
#2. She start asking you bunch of question. This is bad really early on. She is basically screening you. You need to flip it around and screen her. High Value guys are the ones screening women, they are not the one getting screen by women. Of course, she has to get to know more about you, so you give little info at a time. Also, if your successfully screening her, and she asked you a question, answer it. You have to recriprocate also.
#3. Engaging a whole group is good. But if your target really is into you and is focused just on you, you do the same. Stop it and just engage her. You will notice when this happens, her friends will become a blur including everyone around you. She will be going through the same thing. If you can reach this point, number close is gonna be legit. Also, at that point, you should have your target isolated from her friend.
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