Field Report #1
- 10 - June - 2011
- The Promised Land, Lloyds, Varsity, Oceana
Okay so here's my first field report guys! Nothing major happened but I did open a few girls and get some conversation going.
I met my friend in The Promised Land and saw his friends' band play (pretty good actually). After that we went to Lloyds Bar for a few drinks and met some lads from Exeter (it's where I'm from so I was buzzing!). One of my girl mates (I've been with her a few times and f-closed) text me saying she and some of her friends were in Varsity, so my friend and I went to Varsity for a bit and met up with them.
My friend is a nurse at Cardiff University (I happen to know quite a lot of nurses there for some reason, lol) and she had brought her friend up from home for the weekend. So it was her, her friend from home and some other house mates who are also nurses. Her friend from home's first words to me were "You're hot! You're hot!" so I took this as a good sign and figured I'd open her (well she opened me rather!). Her friend was a tall, slim, blonde...I'd say about a HB8.5. I asked her name then used Gambler's Stealth Attraction technique of pretending not to hear her so every time I would move in closer until she would say it into my ear. This worked a treat! My game does need a lot of work, but we had a chat about what she's doing at university and it didn't really go anywhere. I was a little cheeky saying her name was different to what it actually was and not falling for her attempts to have the control.
Outside Varsity my girl mate was talking to random sets and I kept jumping in and taking control (I don't normally do this, but the social proofing gives me a whole different level of confidence) and I was being the AMOG. Given that I used to be a student representative when I was in Cardiff University and worked in retail I used to always be confident, so last night felt like I was again.
My nurse friend was all over me but I kept going in for a kiss then pulling away again. She then tried to go in for a kiss and I turned my head, and then kissed her a few minutes later. At one point I tried to neg her but it went wrong and came out as an insult...she ignored me for about 10 minutes and so did her friends, lol. Her and her friends then went to Live Lounge, and my friend and I went to Oceana.
I don't like Oceana for pick-up, but I can do well in dancefloor game there. We spent most of the night in the Disco Room (cheesy music is my guilty pleasure haha) and some girl tried to grind against me but I pushed her away (I just wanted to reject a girl and prove that it works both ways, even if she was about a HB7). We danced for a bit, went outside for a break, then back in. As I entered the dancefloor again, a HB8 (blonde) stroked her hand down my face so I took this as an IOI. I then said to her "Hands off the merchandise young lady. Slow down" and then spun her around and danced for a few minutes.
My friend shortly after was complaining about not feeling well, so he went to the toilets where he chundered (lush!). After that he wanted to go home so we did (this was about 02:30).
What did I learn?
- I spoke to the HB8.5 blonde (my friend's friend) but wasn't able to create attraction, comfort or rapport. She was into me by immediately saying "You're hot! You're hot!" so this was a major IOI, but I couldn't follow this through.
- I used push-pull techniques on my friend to DHV myself and keep her guessing. Cat string theory!
- I was able to reject a girl on the dancefloor. I wanted to have the power.
- I was able to merge into the sets my girl mate opened, and in some cases became the AMOG.
- I had a dance with the HB8 blonde and wouldn't let her touch the "merchandise", lol.
The opportunity for a f-close was always a guarantee with my girl mate, and possibly even her friend if I was able to create attraction and comfort! I think it was a successful night. Start as I mean to go on![/u][/b][/list][/list]
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