Gents,

A quick bit of background. I am 25, single, and in good shape. I was successful with women when at university (4 years ago) but have since lost a shitload of confidence. My close friends are all in relationships and I find myself with increasing amounts of time on my own. I have decided that change is required. I want to meet more women, that is the prime directive. However most importantly, I want to be comfortable when speaking with ANY person, be it male or female, in any environment. I know that if I can conquer this little mind battle, the sky is the limit.

As for Pick up artistry, I am a novice. I have read The Game two times and scoured the web for ESP games, kino techniques, openers and have listened to David DeAngelo's Mastery series.

I fully understand that absorbing a fuck-ton of information is all well and good but the real acid test comes in going out and trying my arm.

ANYWHO!

Saturday night was a BBQ at my best friends house, there were around 16-17 of us, a mixture of girls and boys. We drank a lot, danced a lot and I was in a very good place. This for me was perfect preparation for hitting the bars and clubs of my quaint little small town. Prior to Saturday, I had compiled a small selective cheat-sheet on my iphone that i could pull up for that little nudge of confidence if I got myself in a litte fit of AA.

So, we roll into town and hit the busiest bar. Unfortunately, its wall to wall cock. I looked around for women, there were a few dusted around but nothing that was tickling my tadger. Anyway, the night is wearing on, and then I spot a HB7 sat down on her phone. I go to my buddy, "Watch this".

I walk over, sit down next to her and lean in..

Rossford: "How's your night going?"
Her: "Meh, OK".
I then put my hand on her knee, look her in the eyes and say, "What would you say if I promised I could improve your night by 100%?"
Her: "Haha, how?"
Rossford: "Close your eyes for me and think of a chlakboard etc etc (I play the ESP game, get both her numbers right)

She opens up and starts touching me, leaning in and the conversation flows with complete ease. IOI's are flying al over the place. One of my buddies then comes over and starts nagging at me to leave, I get up to go and she grabs my wrist and says stay. At this point I know its on, I pass my phone, she puts her digits in and I bounce.

So, I inumber closed her with relative ease, I was amazed how seamless the entire episode was. I text her when I got asking how her night was and she text back swiftly. I then slept.

Next day i text her to ee how she is and I get no reply, and have since then not got one. I figure she has a little bit of buyers remorse or something like that. I am a little bit perturbed by it but I will move on. I figure, if the broad wants to talk to me, she will and there is no point in forcing the envelope.

My questions are though:

1: Shall I just leave it?

AND SECONDLY,

2: I have a girl coming round tonight who I have kissed several times but things have gone flat since. I want to progress shit up the scale somewhat but get a bit stuck at the kiss stage. Any tips on moving past that bit?

Gentleman, hope I have not bored you all too much. Things are moving upwards!

Ross

Congrats man, great story, sounds like you could've taken her home, I think you should have her get to your place ASAP.

About the second question I don't really know, but if getting the kiss is not a problem then try to be kissing on your bed and when you are start touching her (but not her intimate parts). Touch her everywhere (but not THERE), sniff/kiss/gently bite her neck and I think you WILL turn her on. Have her touch your intimate parts before you touch hers, just make her horny as hell and she WILL start.

If she doesn't you can always start yourself by gently going by her intimate parts (just too short to have her push your hand away) and turn het on some more!;)

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As for the no reply to text thing.
Text her saying,
"strangest thing just happened, a cat walked past my window that looked just like you! just get in touch asap for my peace of mind to let me know some jealous witch hasn't cast a spell and turned you into a CAT!"

Pretty cheesey but worth a go.

If no reply still, i hate to say it buddy but give it up!

Good luck!

the first girl - it is common for girls to text you back once and never again. often girls you pick up at a bar, you never see them again. sometimes once they know they've gotten you, they lose interest. maybe she did not see your text, but i think you are better off moving on to the next girl. she has your number and she can text you or call you if she really wants. texting her again, just in case she might reply, will show desperation and probably won't work.

with the girl you've kissed, you can ask her about her comfort level. and also if you do invite her to your place, make sure you at some point ask her "do you want me to ___?" and get a verbal "yes, i would like you to do this _____ to me" from her, because otherwise she could have buyers remorse the next day or she could be thinking you are forcing yourself on to her and just be too shy to say NO or to walk out on you. I read stories in the newspapers about women accusing guys of "touching their breasts" and "forcing themselves on to them while they are drunk" and "rape" all because the guy did have the balls to ask "do you want me to touch your breasts?" "do you want to have sex with me?" is she says no, take it as a no and don't proceed. agree with her. if she changes her mind she needs to say so. playing hard to get on the female's part or the pua type of thinking "dont take her NO as an answer unless it's backed up by actions" is a recipe for disaster and her feeling used and/or saying you raped her.

you can kiss and blow your breath on her neck, kiss her ear, give her a back rub with your right hand, if she puts her leg on yours, you can ask if you can put your hand on her thigh and play with her thigh. you can also her hair apart from her neck gently. you can let her do the same for you. you can also snuggle her and let her rest her head on your shoulder. these things are fun and enjoyable and they seem to turn some women on. have some sexy Latin music playing and get some cheap $1 colored lights or candles. again i would not recommend using alcohol with a girl because it makes the issue of getting consent from her to have sex very confusing. if you are too shy to talk straight about sex, you should not be having sex. and if you do, it might turn her on or show her that you are mature, or she might get shy and just back out.

also, often good looking guys start sarging bars and get laid a lot right away. be careful what you wish for though, because the women you sleep with can start fighting with each other (do not add them on facebook!) and also you can catch stds from them. they can also get upset and accuse you of fooling them once they found out you are a PUA. they might claim at first they only want sex, but then they get emotional anyway. if you are really good with a girl, and you stand your ground, she will keep coming back. do not be afraid of saying NO to a girl and not having sex with her or doing something you do not want to do even if she really wants to. they will usually still be yours after you say no, and you will not feel used or feel like a whimp.

also if you are good looking, you probably dont need any routines. just try to develop your own natural flirting skills. compliment them and tease them.

Fellas,

Have been away recently and nit had a chance to check on your replies. Some very interesting stuff indeed.

As for the first girl, she did text back in the end and it fizzled out shortly after. No worries on that.

The bizarre thing is, when I was at university, I flourished and had no problem bedding girls. It became easy. For several reasons, I am convinced parts of my confidence have been knocked out of me over the last few years. Nasty break up and job losses have all taken a toll.

Also, getting out into bars is obviously now more of a rarity since now I am not a student.

If I can just tap back into that confidence that flowed so easily several years ago, i genuinely feel I would be OK.

Still, I am going to a wedding on Friday, if I cat pick up someone there, then I might as well chop of my little fella and retire my balls.

Thanks again gentlemen.