If you have not read Pick Up 2 Relationship Part I-III do so or you will be lost. * means see note below. With out further ado, Pick Up 2 Relationship Part IV:

...So we are still walking around the city of Buenos Aires proceeding into the comfort stage. Now many PUAs claim that comfort is one of the more tricky phases because you have to go through comfort material, while making sure that attraction and qualification don't dwindull, and manage Kino. Many times I would agree with them. However, I must say that the comfort stage of this pick-up was fairly easy. I noticed we were talking mostly in statements as opposed to questions which was a plus. The conversation with exchange of ideas/principles, ect. proceeded organically, so I didn't have to use routines like the truth game. Also, she unconsciously gave me a lot of help keeping the attraction level up by asking me about my fun travel adventures. Keeping the Qualification ballon inflated was easy enough as I could easily refer to her cooking skills when ever we passed a cooking shop, or her dancing when ever we passed a tango palor (on almost every corner here).

Kino was the only thing I had to play any remote attention to, and that was easy enough if you are observent. It was a cold day in Baires and she was wearing a tank-top. I thought about negging her for this for a second, but since for some reason didn't register till comfort phase, I decided rather than negging to mention that I too am very cold resistant. Anyway, main reason brought up coldness and clothes is that it provided me an oppertunity to say, "although your not freezing, I bet your hands are cold". From there, took the hand that was closest to me and felt it and said, "see, I told you it was cold". From there I rubbed it between my two hands and then went into hand holding*.

Another big break in kino came when we passed yet again another dance palor. I jokely said that I wanted to see her dancing skills right now. I then twirled her around 3 times (you know like in salsa when you raise your arm and the girl spins). After the twirls ended, I ended up with my arm around her back and she then put hers around my back. From that moment forth, we were walking the city in that position. Still in comfort convo.

At some point during the night (oh yeah, it was night now), she asked how this happened. She said she didn't understand how I came in briefly for a cell phone and how now we were cruzing the streets together. I couldn't help to feel my PUA ego feeling stroked. I wanted to say that sometimes when two people meet they really click dispite the fact that they have only known each other for a short time. However, since my Spanish was not that good, all I could muster to say was that sometimes 2 people met well. She kinda understood what I was saying, but she wanted to understand exactly, and communicating this thought took a good 2 minutes. She then mentioned that after I left the shop I first time that her supervisior (Old fat Russian lady who would only need a crystal ball to look like a fortune teller) told her that she would end up going out with me (Thank you Russian fortune telling lady). I went into this bit (true by the way) about how older women make for the best fortune tellers and they make up the bulk of the fortune teller industry**. Looking back at this point I probably could have kissed her with a line such as "lets figure out if she is right".

However, the kiss did come soon enough. Kino continued to escalate as I was massaging the hand of the arm that she had around my back and vica versa. Eventually I said "I think I'm in trouble because I want to kiss you"***. She said she did as well and we kissed.

*When you go into hand holding, try to have your hand infront. In otherwords, try to have the back of your hand facing the direction you are walking. Typically the person in a relationship that has their hand in this position is the one in control. It sends subconscious message of control and confidence.

**Reason being is that women have evolved to be more perceptive of body language and the body language of interactions. They are better in general at reading people. Older women have more experience than younger women, so they typically do better. Both do better in the fortune telling business than men.

***I have come to the conclusion that kiss lines that express hesitation to kiss in this fashion such as, "I am trying so hard not to kiss you" are not the best. They are not horrible. However, they do beg the question why. Most girls take these expressions at face value, but some don't. Plus remember, girls are more perceptive so they analyze these things. They ask, why is he trying hard not to kiss me? Does he have a girl friend? are there repercusions that I am not aware about? I have never gotten into serious trouble using any of these, but still there are lines that work that don't carry the hassle.