Oki so there was this party around with some of my mates , international party people all around the world. I bump in and notice girls are out numbered 5 to 1. I get to the place with 2 mates, and people are starting things up.
Music is not good and I don´t drink so I´m "locked". I was telling bullshit to my 2 friends which live near to me on the way to the party to get there in a good mood but still it was not enough. I swing by and compliment everybody. Even the ones I don´t know.
After this I check the "dance floor" and there is this Colombian girl which looked like and 7.5 or 8 I get next do her and I follow the 3 secs rule and engaged to dance, another dude of mine comes by and simple takes her away, you can say I´m weak or so on but the situation was as follow this guy came untied my hands with the girl with sort of a slap and take her, she looked a bit worried but kept dancing with him, the dude kclosed her in about 10 minutes and later sort of dropped her.
Fuck 15 minutes of party and I had been already lost one even she was "free" I have some principles and I simply forgot about her. Party was crappy but there is this other girl I met 2 days ago and she is in town I don´t know how long. I met her in a party and she seems to be visiting friends here, I tried to talk with her on the first time we met but by cultural differences, let´s say way of dancing (she didn´t like the body contact which is "normal" in germany) so she played defense. But I was amoged by a ex-bf or some shit like that the dude just pulled her away talking some shit I couldn´t catch in polish. I got her mail contact.
Again I followed my principle she went cause she wanted but I had a mail from her, I mailed her she mailed me back I invited her to a open party on the dorms she gave no reply. So I was on defensive she did not replied and I preferred to don´t invest on her. I said hallo, and asked someshit like hey if you dn´t like to dance what do you like to do?
Her: Sex.
Before I could even reply the big dude pulled her aside again.
The big dude from the other night was trying to get her and this lasted most of the night.
Before I go home I go get my jacket and the first girl was sitting on it, I ask for the jacket and she says "nooooooooo it is so soft" embracing it, I get it from her hands and said wel you could have had it 5 hours ago that was your choice. She frowned and I dunno if it was a good call.
In order to come to the dorms we had a 30 min walk. She is on the group with other 6 dudes friends of her. There are 2 other girls also with us. As I needed some conversation I asked her:
Meh: Hey I hadn´t a chance to really talk with you on the party (lie
) but you didnt answer my second mail that was not nice. (I sent her 2 mails, one saying "hi" which she replied, and a second with the address of another party which she didn´t answer nor showed up).
She: Oh sorry I coudnt check my mail later on that day I´m really sorry.
Oki so I had space for a talk. Following this convo I told something about a trip I did to Poland. I´ve said her I knew only a single word of polish and how Ive learned this word with a girl in a party and so one, she mocks on my mispronounce of the word and I say her I don´t trust her polish skills. She laughs and breaks the remaining ice.
So I keep saying how things are cheap in poland if you got euros to see things around and my impression of poland, she seems interested and goes to add a reply but I cut her saying hey you gotta listen this till the end don´t interrupt me (and I re-start from the beginning).
She says hey you already told that, I said hey can´t you wait, impossible to talk with you you gotta listen wait your turn. She is up to crush me if I start the history again. Before Ican say anithing she drops a "Hey it is cold" So I said hell sure and put my cold hands behind her ears just a little touch, she giggles and says hey don´t do that!
On this I say oh sorry and embrace her, she embraces back so oki I got some response. So we keep talking and I have this problem, I can talk english almost as a native speaker and I forget not all people can do it. So she complains about my english being to fast. And starts to talk french, so I say hey I can speak french too, Oui, sevi, sava, bon jour toallet, abajour, soutien . And she laughs and I keep working in kino I did the stuff of pushing pull as she was walking next to me
I said: "hey you are walking on my line, step aside"
She steps asside walks around a parked car and comes back to me. I tried to isolate her a bit by "tying my lacers" but it gave me no sufficient space so we get near to the dorms and I had no chance to close. In order to get to the dorms we need to get around a building Im still holding her waist and a french dude is near us. I know he lives in the building we need to get around so I "follow him" holding her while the others go by the other side, I hoped the sucker would enter home so I would have like 6 steps just with her, but the idiot decides to "walk us home." So now we are 3 again, she says bye to him and her friends are already at home at the window looking for her.
She comes to say bye to me, and this orbiter is distracted by some shit the dudes told at the window. Fortunately this was exactly the moment she was coming to give me good bye. I look to her eyes she seems comfortable and smiling. Screw the 90% to 10% rule of kissing I got no time I fast as hell kissed her right on, so a cheek kiss was made in a tongue kiss, when she came to embrace me I softly pushed her she lost a bit of balance and smiled so I had her holding on me with a open mouth :p (thanks to martial arts skills this was easy), I quickly kissed her. She had no great time to realize what was being done before it was actually done
Before she tries to release her self I had already dropped her, so no push or any shit like that. She smiles, but he friends are coming and I knew I got no other chance. She says good night and goes home
I know she liked the kiss but I had no time nor place, I failed in the isolation step, still I tried it conscientiously. Im dropping her a mail calling her a bad kisser I dunno I got no other idea and I will try it my own way.
So I need enlightenment about this amoging and bad close.
I thanks you all for the enourmous patience to read a post which reports the night of a looser
Edited for better reading.
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