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| j0ker1 | PostPosted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 11:33 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Jan 30, 2011 11:13 am Posts: 1 | | Hey guys first post, sorry if I do anything majorly wrong.
Was out at a club few weeks ago having a few drinks with friends, bar/club environment. Was just chillin near the dance floor drinking with my friend (guy) when I get opened by a girl who sits down infront of me (I was against the wall). Her group come along too and my mate starts talkin to another girl from the group. Dream scenario for an AFC such as myself.
Anyway I start with some small talk and throw in the little game I've got...she asks my age (IOI) I tell her to guess and she guesses correctly - I act amazed. I then guess her age and get it right too. I then throw in a few teasing negs and use my natural wit to my advantage quite well. At this stage she is shuffling closer to me with her seat, knees touching and wide eyes (Although she was fairly drunk so...). Now I don't remember the exact flow of conversation but I was struggling and she kept it going well, but then suddenly her boyfriend comes up as a topic, and how he's so good and she needs to be good to him, but that in any other case she would be kissing me at that very moment (She actually said this). She tells my I'm a cute guy and girls will be chasing me. I think I just nodded my head at those statements not knowing how to react. She then says something about sex and how we've all been there and its no big deal, I nod and agree with her but laugh inside as I'm still on v plates. Then some more talk about the boyrfriend and eventually the convo dies, she turns away to talk to friends and I walk off lol.
I've asked my mates a lot about it but they really don't know what to think of it, maybe she was gaming me with the whole boyfriend thing, some sort of test?
At first I thought maybe she was just a crazy drunk that just wanted someone to talk to and the IOI's were just the alcohol....but thats a stretch even for an AFC like me.
What do you guys think?
As a last note, I'm posting this as a fuckup report because the whole boyfriend dialogue, as off putting as it was was not why I lost the set. It was my complete lack of mid game and letting the convo die, but none the less thought this was an interesting topic.
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| zebraG | PostPosted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 11:55 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Sun Oct 10, 2010 8:13 pm Posts: 344 | | It sounds to me like she did have a boyfriend.
There are two ways to deal with boyfriend comments:
1) ignore it. Look up boyfriend killer routines on here to deal with that one.
2) (this is someone else's idea), number close her. Tell her that you like the fact that she respects their relationship even in the face of someone she's so clearly attracted to, such as yourself. Then tell her that as soon as she's single you're going to take her to [some place that you said was great].
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