So today she was late coming in again, she came in and i was already in a conversation with one of the coworkers/assistant manager about work and everything else so I didn't get to talk to her today just a quick Hi when she walked in and then she looked at the clock and said something about how she wasn't to late then left. I won't be seeing her again till monday morning now

Careful my man, you don't want to develop a case of the One-itis. Remember that you need to spread your focus on several other HBs.

Hopefully when she came in you stayed with the customer you were with and only slightly acknowledged her (the subtle head nod her way usually works).

As for this girl though, it's about time you integrated yourself into her social SPAM, these 3-5 minute talks isn't really advancing you any further.

Go back and read all the posts and you will see that there has been a constant progression, now the next time for you see her, you are going to have bring it to the next level.

But my advice, and this is one that i had to recently give to one of my closest friend, is that you absolutely cannot limit yourself to one girl at this point. You need to practice these skills on other girls, start getting more numbers and once rumor comes back to her of your success with the laides, you will be in even better waters.

I hate to say this bluntly but it seems like you are currently making one of the biggest mistake a AFC makes ... you are focusing on only one target for a long period of time.

Five-O can back me up on this one!

Good luck and good hunting!

- Boot-it

Oh no she's not the only one Im focusing on, theres 3 or 4 that im working on. not to mention online gaming aswell, Ive got 3 that im working on online aswell trying to perfect that game. As far as this one im just looking at her as someone whos going to open doors for me, shes some one besides the ex that I talk to or see on a almost daily bases and I also cant lose with her if my game is good, either she dumps the boyfriend or she introduces me to a much different world than what im used to.

you guys mind if we change it up to another HB ive been trying to work thats been giving me problems?

you guys mind if we change it up to another HB ive been trying to work thats been giving me problems?

You come on here to talk about every and any HB you wish.

As for for the first HB we were talking about, you have the correct attitude, remember that you have been playing a good game up until now, and in the near future if you need an "opinion" about another one of the girls, bring it up to show pre-selection to the current one. Of course this needs to be done subtlely, but it can be done well.

Ok, well bring on the next candidate / subject!

- Boot-it

well actually do you guys have any suggestions for someone trying to turn their friend into more than a friend?

Well I think Five-O might be better for this one, (I'll contact him so that he checks the boards today...)

Personally... I have never tried to turn into something more. There may be a few right now that I may try and advance the situation into a romantic situation, but i have never had someone go from friend to girlfriend!

This being said, if I look back on all the material, all the books, all the stories that i have heard.

The only way to get her would be to start slowly showing her the new you. Make her doubt that in fact you are only friend material. This does not mean that you tell her about girls you pick up, or sleezy things you've tried or any tricks of the trade.

What you need to do is show three things.

1) Pre - Selection
2) Higher Social Value
3) C+F

First you need to start dating someone else. Now remember you need to be dating, nothing more serious. Once she asks if she can meet the lucky lady or so, you can always reply with ...

well you havn't met the others...
why, you getting jealous?
or something in that line...

Second HSV, you need to invite her to a party or an event you are already invited to and simply be the life of the party! play a few games, make a few comments... play the room a bit...

finally make sure that when you are around her that you play the Cocky + Funny part ... not too rude, but small things...

This is the best advice I can give you... remember confidence and knowing that women in the end want you is the best way to guarantee the best result!

- cheers

Boot-it

Hey thanks boot it

I have been deathly busy lately but here is whats been going on with me and her lately....

First off Ive taken myself away a bit, we used to talk everyday now I haven't talked to her in almost a week, in all honesty its partly because I hate talking to her when the current dbag is around.

Second She has a boyfriend who is a massive tool and a foot injury that has basically crippled her and the tool isn't taking care of her needs so when I can i've been going up there once a week, this will be the first week i wont make it but when I do see her I generally do something to demonstrate higher value like cook her dinner, feed and play with her pets, and basic stuff like that. we did get into a fight last week about dbag and she unintentionally stated a bunch of things she feels i need to change. we have also recently had the discussion of her meeting people im dating.

I have been sarging when Im able too and supplement it with online sarging as well. I currently have two hbs on the hook, one of them is going to take a little more work tho Im using them when I can as a demonstration of me dating.

I wont be able to DHSV as of now due to the foot injury and she wont allow me anywhere near her other friends or family... Im her big secret and it confuses me.

you guys have anymore suggestions for me on this?