ok now today is my first day out in the field(this time at the mall) with some learned PUA info and applying it to my game. i had this whole plan planned out in my mind but when i would approach an HB, all of a sudden my mind would go blank and it would be akward i figure i just need to keep practicing.

did these kinds of things ever effect yall's first times using the PUA methods?

thanks

theO

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Vic Vega

Worst comes to worst just be friendly, sometimes iv tried to approch a girl with something in my head only to go blank, i just was friendly and tried to be funny.

Keep swinging your bound to get it one these times ;P

Hell yes, the approach always makes my heart beat faster. In the past month and a half since being single again, I must have approached over 100 targets in sets as large as 5, and every single time, it's an effort to appear calm and relaxed.

Have your elbows bent at more than 90 degrees with your hands kinda forward pointing like this:



That helps you to be more engaging, and makes it easier to reach out and almost-touch, or actually touch someone which makes them feel like you are friendly, and you'll find it also helps you to feel more comfortable, and there isn't a huge amount of space between them and you.

Basically if you focus on opening as many sets as you can, not necessarily with targets in them, then you will quickly become more comfortable with it.

I ALMOST HAD A HEART ATTACK TALKING TO A HB8 AT BARNES AND NOBLE TODAY. I HAVE LOADS OF ROUTINES MEMORIZED, BUT I NEARLY STARTED FULL ON SHAKING. I GUESS I FOUND OUT THAT WITHOUT SOME SOCIAL LUBRICANTE, IM KINDA SHY. I HAVE ALOT OF WORK TO DO ON MY DAY GAME.

IF YOUR AT A BAR, TWO BEERS SHOULD FIX THAT. SORRY, HATE TO ADVOCATE THE SAUCE, BUT AFTER A SHOT, I'M PRETTY FEARLESS. PROBABLY NOT AS SHARP, BUT TWICE AS BOLD. A WARNING HERE, IT MAY BE A LACK OF LIQUOR THAT CAUSED ME TO REACT THE WAY I DID, AS IN I MAY HAVE TRAINED MY BRAIN TO ONLY TALK TO WOMEN WHILE DRINKING. IT WILL HAVE TO DUE TILL I HAVE MORE COLD APPROCHES UNDER MY BELT.

TAKE FROM THAT WHAT YOU WILL.... AND DON'T DO DRUGS...

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Silverback