Ok this is my first time being fully involved and enveloped into putting everything i learned to the test.

In my political science class i managed to grab a seat right next to this smokin hott HB9. So I overcome all my fears and gradually over time i was able to get in a comfort zone with her by asking her for scantrons, asking when our assignments are due, test dates etc.

I open with an opener that i made up myself so i can back myself up if i ever got called out on using canned openers from the show.

Class has just ended and were walking out the door together getting ready to go to our next college class.

Me: "Hey i was having this argument with my friend in the car about how much cologne is too much cologne."
HB9: *looks attentively and is deeply interested*
Me: "My friend thinks that you should put on enough cologne so that you can smell him from about 2-3 feet away. But i think that you should put on enough so that you can only smell him maybe 6 inches to a foot away. And i need a girl's opinion on this because he keeps saying all the girls prefer the 2-3 feet thing."
HB9: "No way that's waaay too much cologne blah blah blah *how i should put on cologne* blah blah blah"
Me: Alright sounds great. Well i'll see ya around. *give her a hug and go off to class*



The next class (basically a couple hours ago) I'm sitting next to her again. I neg her a couple times when she asks me what was our teacher talking about etc. I'm receiving all these IoI's from her the whole time. She's playing with her hair. She's smiling and laughing when i'm talking to her and negging her. So class ends and we walk out of class together. This time i'm determined to get a number out of her. This time i open with the jealous girlfriend opener except a little modified.

Me: "So my friends and I went to the club last weekend and my friend who was with his gf met his ex-gf who hes still good friends with, and what happened was that his gf got so mad at him when he danced with his ex-gf for ONE song. I mean isn't that kinda messed up?"
HB9: "blah blah blah"
HB9: "Omg you're so tall i feel so short around you!" *smiles and gives a playful pout*
Me: "I can't help it if i ate my vegetables and you didn't." (She laughs at this)
Me:"Hey i forgot my wallet at home and i really want some coffee so you want to buy me some?"
HB9: "Haha no!"
Me: "Fine let's play a game. If i win you have to go get some coffee with me but if you win ill take notes for you all next week."

So I do the 5 question game on her and i end up winning on the 5th one (thank god! my delivery on the last question was horrible)

HB9: "Omg you tricked me loser!"
Me: "haha. I can't get coffee right now because i have a midterm right now but give me your number and we'll meet up tommorrow.
HB9: "I don't have a phone this is my boyfriend's cell phone sorry."
Me: "Wow are you kidding me? Fine Thursday you have to drink coffee with me after our class okay?"
HB9: "Ok see ya around" *We hug and go off to class*


Ok from what i can tell she tried to let me down easy. She said she doesn't have a cellphone which in my opinion of this day and age is freaking impossible. Also she told me that the phone she had in her pocket was her boyfriend's so i'm assuming she's trying to tell me that she's taken.

So what are your opinions on this? Should i keep going for this girl or should i eject? What did i do wrong?

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Still Strugglin'

i give you an A!

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"it's you against you, it's the paradox that drives us all"
-Survivor

the thing i've noticed is that sometimes we can't really tell just HOW strong an IOI is. sometimes obvious IOIs generally just mean what it says, it's an indicator of INTEREST, not always that they're into you. although the motivation does help you act more alpha if you always feel like you can get any girl you ever wanted =)

but what I would say is get into the comfort level more while throwing a few negs just to show that you don't really care about getting with her or anything. it seems like you guys are in the friend zone but you should probably run a bf destroyer to see if she'll budge...

the more girls you practice with, the easier it is to see IOIs for what they really mean... and what to do in every situation... when to throw negs... how to go from attraction to comfort... etc...

keep at it... maybe you need social proof (being friends with other girls, showing that you don't really need her) to seduce her. mayyybe. also relax a little bit, lay back and let her lean forward when talking to you... or be quiet on purpose or ignore her for a few seconds to see if she trys to get your attention...

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by Casual (Age 20, Upcoming PUA)

How do i run a bf destroyer?

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