Here is what I do to pick up women with boyfriends, consistently.
Actual field report.
1. I spot a woman sitting down on a bench outside of a mall, having a smoke and talking on the phone.
2. I walk up to her from the side and say to her:
"Tell him you will call him back in 2 minutes"
Key point. Notice how I am telling her to get off the phone and also taking it a bit further by even presupposing that she is talking to her boyfriend and commanding that she gives up the call to talk to me. When you come with such dominance and confidence, a woman 90% of the time will comply.
3. I then say, "Look, I saw the outline of your face from the side and it caught my eye. I can't explain what it was specifically"(This is what is known as a "tension loop" which is an open-ended comment which creates sexual tension and causes a woman to seek its resolution). She gazes at me with curiosity and also warmth. I then say "I wanted to see what the rest of you was like and more importantly if you were interesting".
4. She puts on a big smile and says "Oh thank you. I am Amanda and I think I am interesting"
Notice how I have her in my reality now. She is not even thinking about her boyfriend or aching to call him back
5. I then say, "Well I can tell by your hands that you are a very passionate person and if that is true then you can hang with me"
6. She says "What do you mean my hands. What about them?"
7. I then tell her that I have knowledge of hand analysis which is like a mystical art for the
new millennium and that it breaks down everyone's hand structure into one of five types, with each type conveying a certain something about the hand owner's personality.
I then begin to take her on a journey of self-discovery by telling her about herself based on her hand structure.
She is fascinated and focused on me, like a deer caught in headlights.
Note: Women love to discover the unknown and are fascinated by a man who
has knowledge of it, in particular about them because they are true suckers for
self-discovery!
8. I then say to her, "Well is it true that you are a passionate and giving person?"
9. She says "Yes I am! with enthusiasm"
10. I then say "Cool you can hang with me. So here is what is going to happen. You are going to give me your number and I am going to call you and we are going to hang out. Oh and of course you will be as warm and interesting next time around, yes?"
11. She says "Yes of course".
12. I then add the finishing Picasso like touch to the interaction by building some rapport with her. How is this done? Very easily by engaging her in some fluff talk, so that she doesn't think that I just went in to get her number to add as another notch on my belt, but that I actually thought she was special and wanted to get to know her. I then make my exit.
Sticking points.
1. Lead with your vocal projection, sport a sly smile, make and maintain solid eye contact and overall demonstrate confidence with your entire body language.
2. Don't ask, tell and take!
3. Once you get her attention then you need to demonstrate value by being interesting, charming, demonstrate a witty sense of humor( This is a big one!)
4. After you get a number close, don't just exit. Build some rapport for a while and then exit. It follows the same principle of not going for the kiss at the end of your interaction with a woman, but rather building up the touch during it, so that the kiss is just an obvious climax at the end and not something that makes her feel uneasy when you try to go for it.
McMaax
www.maaximumsduction.com
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