FR#30
Saturday. August. 7. 2010
Location: Downtown

Its hard to believe that Im already 30 FRs deep in my journey into the pickup arts. Mind you, it has been almost 3 years. Anyways, last Saturday I went over to my buddy Scott's place who lives downtown, with the intentions of going out sarging. My friend Scott is a natural. He knows of the PUA, and is currently reading The Game, but he gets with a lot of girls basically just through confidence and great social circle game.

So we started off the night heading to this one bar/club close to his place where we were supposed to meet my other friend John. He was at this bar/club watching the UFC fights and by the time we got there, the place was packed. So we had to wait outside until the fights were over. When they ended John meets us outside with his other friends, and tells us hes going to another bar down the street. So we join the group and head over to this other bar.

At the 2nd bar, I basically just had a few drinks and acted very social within the group I was with. I wasn't feeling AA, but I was just having fun with my friends. After about 45 mins at this bar and no gaming we decided we were gonna go back to the original bar/ club. On my way out an HB7 approaches me and says "I like your shirt" (IOI obviously). But I wasnt surprised because my "go-2" shirt always draws comments from everyone. My shirt says "Mile High Club" on it, in big block letters LOL. Girls love to comment on it or ask me if its true. And I always respond with "they handed it to me when I got off the plane". Overall, its just a great peacocking shirt. So I talked with this girl for about a minute or 2, but my friends were literally walking out of the bar so I ejected.

Back to the original bar, my buddy John and his friends got right back in because they had their hands stamped. But Scott and I didnt so we had to get in line. Little did we know that it was the slowest line ever and it took us an hour to get in. However, in the lineup we both just ran game on the girls ahead of us and behind us. The lineup is the best place to get over your AA, or get comfortable before going into a bar or club. I strongly suggest you converse with everyone (guys and girls) in the lineup at every venue. I usually just open people directly or make loud open ended comments with whomever Im with. It always works.

Things got strange though when after 30 mins of waiting John comes outside to see if I was still in line, and tailing behind him is my former HB9 one-itis from high school, who used to hate my guts. I hadn't seen this girl in 3 years so I was caught off guard. I ignored her a second while greeting John when she says "Fogell!" (Well atleast she doesn't totally hate my guts anymore, because she acknowledged me). What entailed though was a couple of minutes of surprisingly not awkward conversation. And I basically just DHV'ed my friend John by pumping his tires, also showing her that Im not interested in her anymore. And then they both went back inside. (My friend got her number, and started gaming other girls almost immeaditely after). I was pissed about seeing her though, because I didnt want to see her for atleast another 3 years. By then Im hoping my game is tight enough that I'll be able to do what I couldnt do in high school.

Then we waited another 30 mins in line and got into the bar/ club. When we got In I was pissed to see that the place was now just a club at the late hour. Its a bar earlier in the day. So it was super loud, and all the gaming was dance floor game which Im not very good at. But I said "fuck it" and just went hard on the d-floor. I basically just acted like an absolute idiot the whole time, which worked somewhat. I ended up in a 3 set of girls. Doing stupid dance moves. But because it was so loud I couldn't get much done.

Towards the end of the night I ended up opening this HB8 Hired Gun Waitress and sarged her for a good 15 minutes. I was doing the best I could in the loud environment, and she was giving me a lot of IOIs. After about 10 minutes she suggests we do shots together. She bought me one, but I had to buy hers (so I still got a drink atleast). Then we fluffed for a few more minutes when I noticed the set was starting to go stale. In a last ditch effort I went for the #-close and for the first time I think ever, she rejected me. I was surprised that I couldnt get the digits. But looking back, I didnt have her qualify at all. She was not emotionally invested in me whatsoever, despite the attraction. So next time Im gaming a hired gun, knowing that they are busy working. Everything has to be accelerated. I cant stay in attraction for too long, I have to build comfort a lot quicker next time.

After that I left the bar with Scott and when I texted my HB7 friend to meet up. (This girl is another one of my former one-itis' from high school and Ive been in the friend zone with her for several years. However, in the last few months, my game has improved a lot, and I feel Ive been getting some serious IOIs from her.) Anyways, she was close to us so we walked over to meet her. She was with 4 of her friends. A few of them were pretty good looking. And the weirdest part was, when she introduced me to them, they all were like "oh its good to meet you. HB7 has told us so much about you. Like...(and they started listing some of my DHV qualities)" I guess thats a good thing, but it was just so freaking weird. Like she mentioned before that she tells her co-workers about me. But I thought she was kidding. I don't know whether this was a massive IOI or whether she just is proud of me as a friend.

Anyways, after that I left Scott, and drove HB7 and another one of her friends home. (It was on my way). And that was that. Haven't heard from her since, but Im really confused on the situation. I wouldnt mind hooking up with her. So any input or advice on the situation would be really appreciated.