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PostPosted: Wed Aug 04, 2010 7:58 am 
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My wing and I decided that to get over AA we should do something crazy like go out and purposely get rejected 300 times by the end of August.

We meet up at the mall. He was running late so I told him to meet me in the food court because I hadn't eaten in a couple of hours. I go to chic-fil-a and wait in line. A "HB chic-fil-a" stood in front of me, I was nervous as hell...then I said fuck it, I'm here to get rejected. I told her there's an open register, she smiles, and says thank you. I think to myself ok...that's over...I go order my food and out of nowhere an old lady comes up, and I let her go in front of me too. HBchic-fil-a was on her cell, she notices what I did and laugh, told me I'm such a nice guy or whatever. I get my food, Wing still isn't here, look for a place to sit, I sit down by myself, turn around, notice HBchic-fil-a was sitting by herself, we made eye contact and I head over and sit down, she smiles, ioi's like crazy, Number Close!! Kino with her was pretty minimal, mostly high-fives, and a big ol hug before we went our separate ways.

I meet my wing for the first time, we start walking around and try to start opening.
I don't really keep count of rejections, but it was probably mid-teens today.
The worst rejections I had today was probably when I tried to give a girl a hug, she said Uhhh I don't think so, and some jailbait teenybopper called me a pussy because i dont have a tatoo...? Eh...didn't really hurt my feelings bad...On To The Next One!!

A couple hours later we stopped by the skating rink to cool off. My wing and I notice HB skating around. Debated what race she was. She stopped and stood near us with her back facing us with her co worker several times I guess that's called Proximity? We split up to get food. I finished my meal pretty quick so I stop by the rink again. We make eye contact, I smile, take my finger and do the "come hither" motion. She comes. (Holy shit??!)
HBskate: Do I know you?
Me: I don't know, but you look familiar (stuttering)
Me: ( I think, fuck it) I don't know you. I think you're cute.
HB: (Giving me IOI's) Why thank you!
Me: I think you're cute, And I know you're working so I don't want to keep you. Maybe we could hang out sometime.
HB: Maybe another time!
Me: How would I contact you?
HB: Facebook? number?
Me: gimme your number
HB: she gives number
Me: Ill text you! ( I texted "Hey kid", she pretended to be upset and skate away and knocks down a little girl)
we both laugh, she blames me, she told me to call her next time im around.
Number closed, Kino was limited to a hand shake.

Anyways, we walk around, and try to get rejected some more. I feel goofy and retarded as hell.

I feel like I'm progressing, 2nd time trying daygame and got 2 number closes. Both girls have been texting me so they're not flakes, YES!!!
Now what? what do i do next? Set up a Day 2?? HELP ME OUT BROS!!


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Went out to do day game again.
AA was bad...Got rejected a lot haha....whatever, ON TO THE NEXT ONE!
1 Number close, some girl from Kazakhstan. Couldn't believe I got it. I know if I had done that to any other girl I would've gotten rejected.
She worked at one of those carts in the mall. I was getting kind of desperate so I needed to open. On my scale she's a 6.

I go pretty direct and I walk right up to her, stand in front of her.
Me: Hi. What's you're name?
HB: (name)
Me: (noticed an accent) Cool! Where are you from?
HB: Kazakhstan.
Me: haha have you ever seen Borat?
HB: yes, but none of it is true
Me: What is you're real national anthem?
HB: I don't understand
Me: What are you doing here? working? going to school?
HB: Yes I'm going to school here.
Me: What are you selling? Can you sell me something??
HB: Hair clips. mostly for women. (she touches my hair and tries to clip it on)
Me: haha noooo, you put it on. I think it'll look better on you! (she clips it on)
Me: I don't like it! put your hair down, it looks better. I really like your earrings though! anyways I need to get going, do you have a number?
HB: Yes, But I am going back to Kazakhstan.
Me: How long?
HB: A week.
Me: What's your number? (Number close)
I give her a Hug and leave. I text her my number and shes texts back.

Questions:
Foreign Chicks...They really suck at giving hi fives haha
Moving targets suck!...How the hell do you open them with out chasing?
Define teenage!...seriously young girls nowadays look so mature, how can I tell if these girls are 18?
On most of the sets I am opening I am saying Hi as my opener. After that I have no game plan, no idea what I am doing. Going with the flow. I feel that my body language is good. Eye Contact is good...Ya'll got any tips for me?


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 05, 2010 3:04 am 
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I think if you have to question thier age, probably dont go for it.

Its true though, 14 year olds dress like they're 16, 16 year olds dress like they're 18, ect.

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like your attitude/work ethic.. Hope that approach gets slicker for you.. good shit.


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Moving targets suck!...How the hell do you open them with out chasing?!...seriously young girls nowadays look so mature, how can I tell if these girls are 18?
On most of the sets I am opening I am saying Hi as my opener. After that I have no game plan, no idea what I am doing. Going with the flow. I feel that my body language is good. Eye Contact is good...Ya'll got any tips for me?
Regarding moving targets that are walking down a road when you are walking up you stop them before they pass, if you are both walking down the road you just say "excuse me blah blah" and walk alongside them talking works fine on straight roads, otherwise you have to stop them.

With regard to your underage point, honestly you don’t unless they are wearing school uniform!! seriously though it is hard to tell sometimes, it happened to me the other day while approaching loads of girls in day game, i approached a girl (she looked 18/19), said some direct line to her, (basically a complement and my name) got a smile and she said her name, i asked what she was doing in London, she said work experience (oh shit went through my head!), asked what age she was, she said 15 almost 16, at which point she asked my age, i then made my excuses, "18, sorry i have to go it was nice meeting you" then just carried on walking down the road. Honestly I don’t think I did anything fundamentally wrong by speaking to her, I cold approached not knowing her age and I didn’t cross the line, once I knew she was 15, I got the hell out of there as quick as I could, cold approaching in day game it is bound to happen, in a night club it is obviously less likely to happen, but even in a club it could still happen becuase frankly in the uk girl of 14/15 are able to get into night clubs on 18+ nights, so it could still happen in a club… you just need to be careful and not cross the line.

Some of you may not agree with my point of view, and maby i should not have admitted it (no one else seems to be honest about it) but it is bound to happen just that one time, you just need to make sure you do not cross the line.


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ImNaShit. Thanks man. I'm gonna keep putting in the work. My wing is out for a couple of days. I'll probably just go out with my regular friends and see what happens. I don't really want to game in front of them because I know my game is not where it needs to be. I don't really feel like dealing with my friends dogging on me haha

Gr4p3. At least the future talent class is looking good right? haha

Jtaz.
On the sets that are down the road, I'd stop them and they would freak out, I couldn't even get past "hi" before they reject me...I'm a pretty buff guy..All my friends from High School that didn't play sports with me told me I intimidated all of them. I also do the Hi five opener a lot, doesn't really work too well for me. Another thing I've done is if there is a cute girl ill point to her and say YOU! Come here! ( with my arms open ready for a hug) haha doesn't really work either...One girl who looked like she was on break from work ran right through it. Another girl didn't speak English and was like wtf.


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Night game.
I went out the last 2 nights. 1st night went out with 2 dudes. I don't remember anything so I don't think anything happened.
Last Night
It's Wednesday night, my and wing and I drive around town to see if anything was going on. Finally find a place, looked for a parking spot noticed a couple of girls. I roll the window down and say HEY! They were my sister's friends. We say Hi and all the usual BS you say to people you haven't seen in a few years. I park and we walk in to the first bar. All we see is dudes everywhere and my sister's friends. I wanted to avoid them so we go to the bar, get a drink, chill out and watch the game. As soon as we decide to bounce to the next bar a 4set walk in. FINE AS HELL. But this little thing called AA told me go to the next bar FML!! We go to the next bar, Same thing...DUDES everywhere and my sister's friends. I told myself I need to at least talk to someone. I go and "open" my sister's friends and introduced my wing to them. It was good practice for him because he didn't know them. He has the same problem as me when talking to new people...Keeping the conversation going...I get a free drink from one of the girls. They leave, and we decide to see if we can bounce to the next venue and keep the momentum going. We go....DUDES everywhere....man what do girls do on Wednesday night?? haha

Ok So main points to that night.
Need to find venues with girls (Houston Texas Holla at me!)

I started talking to the door man so maybe we can be buddy buddy down the road (good thing)

AA is a bitch...

Keeping the conversation going and flowing (I think this is just practice but if ya'll have any advice, HIT ME!)

Alcohol...Lately I've been doing a lot better but, I get obliterated way too often...Once school starts it'll get better, I'll get back on track to eating right too.


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I'd stop them and they would freak out...I'm a pretty buff guy.
Some girls just reject you when they are busy or something, and being a pretty buff guy should work in your favour :)

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AA is a bitch...

Keeping the conversation going and flowing (I think this is just practice but if ya'll have any advice, HIT ME!)

Alcohol...Lately I've been doing a lot better but, I get obliterated way too often...Once school starts it'll get better, I'll get back on track to eating right too.
You should have approached that dam 4 set you fail 100% of the approaches you dont make...

For AA, once its gone its done, approching girls becomes like she is sexy i am going to say some shit to her... i had it for a bit, i would go out and not approach a single girl, or approach 1 we have all done it, however the only real way to cure aa is to go out and approach.

i got rid of mine by asking girls just where startbucks, them telling me, saying thanks and walking off, then after doing that a bit 10-30 times i did a direct approach, then direct approach and full convo, maby close and the more and more direct approaches you do and it just becomes a piece of piss, indirect then becomes even easier, becuase you have handled direct, or you could go out in some random town and just approach girls and say "kiss or slap" once you have been mega direct, it all becomes easier :)

Do not drink Alcohol, it messed up your game, you think you are gaming the best ever but really you are crashing and burning, their is plenty of drinks which look like alcahol but are not, if you dont want to be the one drinking lemonade all night!!


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I think if you have to question thier age, probably dont go for it.

Its true though, 14 year olds dress like they're 16, 16 year olds dress like they're 18, ect.
Do you get arrested for talking to them? As long as you find out their over 18 before the real fun part starts what's the problem?

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for moving targets, plant your feet, turn to them but at an angle, do not chase!, and just takl in a quiet tone.


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