tonight i went to a local bar with a bunch of friends. i always see a lot of ppl know, especially girls that make to be good pivots. my buddy nick was my wing and we opened at least 5 sets. some by myself and he would come over and distract the targets friends after i had opened them all. although i opened several sets i did get a number close i felt that DHV lacked throughout the night. since i had a few JD and cokes my confidence and spirit was on the upper

there was a 7 and HB8 that were on the patio of the bar looking in the window...i approach behind them...(i know u should never approach from behind but i knew id get both of their attention)...

me:so who are we spying on in there???
both girls turn around...giggle....
both girls:we are checking out the hot guys
me:how is the talent looking tonight on a scale from 1 to 10?
7:its about a 6
me:so uve had better is wut ure saying??? u girls are all the same...we are objects for ur pervisions!!! (cocky funny in full delivery)
both girls laugh...

we continue to fluff about how the "talent" in the bar and another girl comes in that i am friends with and CBs me/gives me social status at the same time as she tells the girls "be careful with him, he is trouble!!!". they both giggle...and this is where the 7 and not the HB8 gives me the first IOI...

7:well we just had a threesome in the bathroom (she puts her arm around me....definatey an IOI)
me:im sorry chelsie(girl who came into the conv) but u know i cant help myself, i love to love the ladies and they love to love me back **with a shrugg and dumb founded look**. (the girls kept laughing at the cocky funny so i threw more at them)

the HB8 took off as i lost her interest, she did not seem to wana chat that much after the convo had been initiated as i talked to the 7 and negged her about her shoes. after chels had come into the conv and it seemed to break up after that. i would talk to the 7 several times after the initial chat and two of my friends actually opened her and made friends with her. i didnt not follow the 7 around the bar as that is too AFC, but i chatted and bumped into her several times to find out that HB8 was fighting w/her BF that night. even though my friends were moving in on the 7 i didnt amog them but just tried to DHV and grab her full attention. she was talking to my two friends, one of which has my exact first name, and she already had to buddies flooding her with attention. i talk to one of my buddies and ignore her at first and then some how the threesome action comes up...i decide to go with a dane cook line(funny comedian)...

in response to the threesome joke cracked earlier that night...
me:alright 7....sometimes i like to turn off all the lights in the bathroom and play a little game called "whos in my mouth???".
7:laughs hard...i love dane cook!!!
my friend with my name:yeah there was all guys in the bathroom!
(the fucker tried to neg and amog me!!! not to worry though...)
me:yeah dude...why the hell did u ask me to take my pants off when we were in there??!!
both of my buddies and the 7 laugh harder and he had nothing in response.

i field tested something new tonight and it worked well. i did the ESP guess a number 1-10 (which worked, she picked lucky #7). she was immediately excited and asked me to do it again....i was thinking 3 or 4 and guessed 4...of course she picked 3. this is where i neg her again

me:ure a liar, i dont believe u. u girls are all the same (she laughed at that neg). u picked 4
7:no i picked 3 i swear!
**if the ESP fails this next test is wut i like to call Fake ESP test which will hopefully gets a laugh and keeps her interest**
me:alright 7, forget #s. i say fuck shoes and fuck #s(another line from dane cook, it got a giggle). think of something u dont like....a person...something...anything at at all...
i give her 5 seconds and gaze into her eyes as if im really reading her thoughts
me:**i turn a sour but stern face** OMG!!! u hate vegetarians?!?! wtf??? they are good ppl, wut did they ever do to u?!!??! have u no shame...
7:**laughs loudly and gives another IOI as she touches my arms** i was thinking i hate seafood!!!
me:there u go lying again. (more cocky funny) u and i are not going to work. i cant trust u, we dont have that foundation.

we fluffed some more...both my friends come back to say bye and wish her a good night. we talk some more and she asks me if i go to that bar a lot...IOI...she asks for my # and says i should be there next thursday night...another IOI...i neg her again

me:listen 7...i will be here. should u decide not to make it here and get caught up doing something else that is not as important as seeing me. we are done. u are done. i will find another 7 to replace u, ure cut off
7:**laughs again**oh alright big boy! i will see u then

we part ways and i take my friends home


i feel that my sticking point is that i am finding it hard to build rapport and DHV. it took me a while to really talk to her and not fluff so much. i stayed away from asking questions and mostly stuck to cocky funny. i can't seem to find that transition after the open to try move in for IOIs or get closer. there was another set i opened tonight where it went smoothly and fluffed more. maybe i shouldve tried to kino but thought about it too much. i did recieve a few IOIs as the girl briefly touched my arm but at the time i didnt take it as a IOI. any sugguestions on DHV and building rapport for a kiss close? i feel i can do it but i just dont progress to a phase shift.