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So last weekend I as out. I live in a extremely small town (like 3k people, If 30-40 people are out on friday/saturday that's busy and you can guess atleast 20-30 are dudes.) The bar was closing and this Hideous dragon I talked to very briefly invited me to this after party.
At this point I was drunk, horny, hadn't been laid in a few months, figured I'd probably fuck this fat bitch and drink some booze. She was from out of town. So we go back to this place, whatever, do the deed. (It was horrible btw, I'm not fucking fat chicks ever again.)
So mid way through the sex I tell her to get a friend in here with us or go get her sister to come down here. I wasn't joking. In my mind, I thought, I don't like fucking this fat ugly bitch, but If I got a 3way out of it or fucked her sister It would be ok, because that's a bit more than just hooking up with a ugly chick.
So anyways, doesn't happen. I give her amazing sex, I leave. later we are txting I tell her I'm not going to fuck her again unless she brings a friend and I try and get her sisters number. No dice.
So now we are at last night....I go out to the bar, its kinda of packed, maybe 35 people. I always go alone because I don't hang around with people in this town, but I know some people enough to just come up at the bar and chat.
so about a half hour after I over hear this chick I don't even know telling these people that i'm "Tall, handsome and an amazing fuck." I'm thinking..."ahh...wtf? I don't even know this girl." I see her going to EVERYONE in the bar. I think nothing of it. so maybe a hour later I'm looking around, not very many girls their at all. I sit down with some people from the after party I was at the week before and the sister of the chick I fucked was running around the room and she was friend with those people.
So I'm sitting their, and I'm like "...whats going on?" and one chick just flips out on me. Something is said about me being "tall,handsome an amazing fuck" so I'm like "yeah, so where are the women lining up?" Shes like "you're also an asshole pig." "DO YOU THINK THAT'S OK!?".... this chick was furious.
It dawns on me now whats going on. These girls had been running around all night telling everyone what had happened (their side of the story) and cock blocking me bigtime to all the women in the place. Not only that, but to the guys too. I swear for a few minutes it felt like every eye in the bar was on me as I was talking to these people about "my actions". Like I was completely singled out by everyone, I look at anyone and they had a smirk on their face like "aw man".
I talked to a few guys, more or less the guys weren't hating on me for it, they were just like "rookie mistake" but weren't going to hold it against me. But when you've now been shit talked by a bunch of women to all the other women...you're not in good shape for that to go away quickly.
Their was this one guy that really wanted to fight me, he was telling other people I was saying shit to get them to fight me. I just let him say whatever he wanted, call me shit, do whatever, let it roll of me because I don't have anything to prove.
I was standing outside after the bar closed and that dude was there talking and whatever, waiting for me to stroll off so he could follow me. I'm a pretty friendly dude and I have decent rapport with some of the guys that go out often. So one of the guys that knew the guy that wanted to fight me stepped in to help defuse the situation. Which I thought was cool because I didn't really want to fight and their was like 15 guys all standing out their smoking watching what was going on between me and this guy.
So I stroll off with this girl from the bar, she was into me for a few weeks and I thought "ok whatever" one of the few girls interested in me that night, kinda a sure thing. We go to the store next to the bar for stuff and as we are leaving the store this one girl, who actually wasn't that bad looking (better than what I was with, but also maybe in her mid 30's) came out and was like "hey, I get it" and blah blah blah, I forget exactly what she said, but I think it was along the lines of they are all haters and you know, they don't understand how someone could be that way, I basically took it as she wasn't turned off by what everyone had been saying, and this girl was with the girl that was telling everyone this stuff the entire night.
(Side note: when that girl came out I tired to go introduce myself and was like "well then why didn't you come up and talk to me?", thats all I got in before the other girl was trying to pull me away. I couldn't really go start a convo with her at the time.)
So...I think that's enough rambling and that's most of the details....I am definitly now known around this towns 'bar scene' which makes me laugh, since I lived here for years and only started really going out a few months ago. I don't think I will be going out for awhile. I end up fucking girls way below my standards and physical attraction, and as the girl I hooked up with put it. It's usually a 5/1 guy to girl ratio, so they have the pick regardless of how they look, because their are enough men that it doesnt matter.
I dont like that.
My first initial reaction would have to been like "fuck all you. I'm just to much man for you" you know, blah blah blah arrogant I don't give a shit attitude, but, well, It started to feel like a bit of a hostile environment for me for a bit, with guys trying to start fights with me and girls pissed off and talking smack about me, you know everyone looking at me, I'm there alone with no backup, like no good friends that would have my back, where as everyone knows everyone, everyone has got good friends with them.
So I went with the explaining that I'm a good guy, just a bit inexperience, basically just saying what they wanted to hear to make me look better to them. The guys weren't going say much in my defense because they don't want to be in the bad with the women, cause they probably want to fuck them or are fucking them. So, well, even though it felt like a bit of a pussy move. I would have singled myself out even more had I got on the "fuck you" attitude train.
oh, and i forgot to mention that I did end up convincing the sister (who by isnt even good looking and is old) that I as a good guy and she said she would "put in a good word for me" to the women. I doubt it, but atleast shes wont try adn continue to cockblock me
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