Hi Guys,

Quick FR and need some advice on training a wing...

So it was saturday afternoon, I was playing cricket. After we were having a few drinks and this 17 year old HB9 walked past. (Before we continue, just feel like I need to mention that in South Africa the legal age of consent is 16) I called her over, she came so no opener was required. I immediately hit her with a couple of negs, straight off the bat.

She immediatly responded with IOIs and I knew that I was in. I showed her a few basic magic tricks I have learned, just to DHV a little more. She mentioned the BF but I paid no attention and immediately changed the subject. My wing did a nice accomplishment intro and proceded to invite her to a BBQ at my place and a few drinks after.

We went to her place first for her to get dressed, she undressed right there... Because wing was sitting there as well I did not make a move. We went to my place and we had a group of friends over for the BBQ. Her and I started making out. (By this time I had also started building comfort by cutting back on the attraction stuff and even showed her photos of my daughter.) Things have been going really well and I fingered her.

We then left my place and went to a local bar to have a few drinks where the passion and the heat continued, I even pushed her away and said to her this is a bad idea, she agreed but kept kissing me and rubbing my member. We were there and a few minutes later I returned from the bar finding my wing with his tongue down her throat. No jokes... He is not attractive, he has no game but he keeps doing this to me. I would open girls and he would just follow my example and then hit on them and they always seem to oblige.

Is there something that Im doing wrong, is it because I keep attracting loose skanks... I need some advice here. I dont want to confront him and seem to aggressive, he and I are really good friends and have had a few 3 somes and group sex on a few ocassions but he seems to think that every set I open and get into this is going to happen. I have no emotional attachment to women any longer, I am here purely to make their fantasies come true. I am sure that we could have had another 3 some but coe on, it was my set!!! I got upset at both of them and returned to AFC behaviour which cost me the lay!!! How should I have handled the situation? How should I have reacted and how do I tell him to back off without being to aggressive. Should I give him the list of wing rules and tell him to live by it?

Your input would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

that girl is a skank and that guy isn't much of a friend

I am aware that she was a skank. From the moment we met I knew she was not the dating type. the way she speaks and flaunts herself it's a dead give-away. She was common and cheap but damn was she hot!!! I just want to know how I should have handled this screwed up situation? I feel that I gave her even more reason to move on and fuck my friend! Damned AFC behaviour that surfaced. I know I should have just hit on every other chick that I saw and should have plaed the joealousy plot line but with a skank like that it would never have worked. She was just a skank looking to get laid to get back at her bf.

You sound like the prick here. Your threesomes you had with your friend in the past was indication that you are cool with sharing. He knows how you two roll, so he had no intentions of stepping on your toes, he was just very horny, and you don't leave your prey alone with another cannibal unless you want to share.

The 3somes you guys are having is of double penetrating women? That takes a real fucking friend to perform, because there is no way in hell I'd fuck a chick with my buddy at the same time.

If she had kissed your friend and you, then that is enough of a signal that you both should of stayed at your place and 3sumed her like you said you had to other women.

Dude, thanks. I think I needed to hear that. I also felt that I needed to take responsibility myself but needed to hear someone else say that.

The important thing to note here though is that we are best friends, have been for long, and that is why I dont mind sharing but sometimes I want to be selfish and keep the target to myself. See, I dont want to share every time I get laid.

Thanks for the input! I greatly appreciate.

Guys, just wanted to mention... HB mentioned above aclled me last week and has now become a full close and she is doing the chasing now. Ignoring them after showing them the time of their life is always a good thing... She wants to become a LTR but no thanks... lying bitch... LOL, still love women though!