Ok I've been learning this PUA stuff for a few weeks now I just recently became single after a 2 year relationship. So far its awesome and I've gained a lot of confidence and improved my pick up game a lot.

However a couple of nights ago I met this girl at a cafe where I'd just played a show (musician, guitarist in duo with a singer). We were chatting outside for a while and I had her laughing and we were getting along great, she wanted to go in and get a drink and just to test the water I tried to see if I could get her to shout me and said "they don't pay us enough here for me to buy u a drink you should buy me one". She agree'd to buy me a drink and I said no I actually feel like a coffee and so we went walking to find a coffee shop but everything was closed. She had mentioned she lived near by and I asked if she wanted to go to her place and she could make me a coffee. She was happy with the idea and so off we went.

At her place I just played it cool we were sitting playing music out on the balcony and just talking shit and having a laugh, she even pulled herself up on asking a too serious question haha. No Where do you work, what do you do broing interview questions allowed, it made for some good conversation.

I was there for a couple of hours and her coffee was shocking so I could tease her about it and it was also an excuse to meet up again for a proper one. She was like yer that sounds good and we exchanged numbers and off I went.

Next day she text me saying she had a great time the night before and I said me too and I'll call her next week and we'll go for that coffee, she said sounds good.

Then WTF, the next day I get this text

"Hey Matt! I might have to take a rain check on the coffee... I just got out of a relationship and it would not feel right to go into something new as I'm a bit confused right now...sorry, I really enjoyed meeting you though! Good luck with the music you got talent take care of it, maybe I'll see u around! Jess"

Now I'm not even after a relationship right now as I just came out of one I'm just looking to have some fun and meet new girls and if one is amazing enough then i'll become dedicated but I didn't even think I gave that much of an impression the other night that that's what I wanted.

Where should I go with this and how should I respond to that text if I should at all?

I thought maybe I could joke with her about falling for me so easily she's trying to save herself, and then explain my situation and let her know i'm not after that.

Is she maybe trying to test me? Find out what my intentions are?

I haven't responded yet... please help

Dude IM no super PUA or anything but I would suggest just responding simply like "cool".. Then possibly call her a day after you would of with the coffee situation and pretend everything is completely normal. One thing i learned is women change there minds sooo fuckin much lol.. Try not to get stuck though. Keep your eyes focused on the next chick. She can't be anything special, your gonna game plently of chicks better looking to her. YOUR STILL YOUNG DUDE.. haha MUch love 2 ya

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