So I want to share what DID NOT work....


Insert party, alcohol and a general upbeat vibe. My target has been partying with me this weekend, and I'm giving more Kino and starting to loosen her up. When she is about to leave, she realized I STILL had her Camera perfect right? I have the camera in my back pocket and she's asking for it, so I tell her innocently, "You may have it, but only if you kiss me on the cheek" so she's pretty drunk, but she's the type that doesn't play around apparently...

She starts throwing a FIT...her friend (Also my friend) is throwing a shit fit too...so that's clearly not helping...

Oh shit shit shit what do I do now? So I cave in after the drunk bitch is threatening me, lol empty threats of course, but hey I didn't want to get her mad at me! I was only playing.

And apparently the quiet asian chick has be labelled as a "Douche" and a "player" etc...Oh well, I really don't give 2 f**s about her opinion or anyone else's, I was only having fun. but this routine backfired horribly....



How do u guys get out of tricky situations like mine???? Yikes

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-- Jay --

My thought here is that you didnt want her to kiss you, honestly. You told her that the only way to get her camera back was to give you a kiss. So in her eyes your forcing her to and that must have been really uncomfortable.

What I would have done instead is ask her with a smile in a playful manner, "You'll get your camera back, but what do i get for giving it back to you?"

I think this is a much better approach because she knows your going to give it back and your giving her the opportunity to tell you what she wants to give you. Holding something hostage for a kiss is a really bad thing to do, because even if she does kiss you she is going to think your some creepy perv!

Another one you can do is say ok but i need a picture of us first and then run a camera routine with her camera. I think the camera routine was developed by style or mystery. look that one up for further information.

hope it helps and better luck next time.