Hello everyone. I am Twiggens and i have been on the society for a few weeks now. I am not new to PUA, but i am recently single after a nasty break up, so im a little rusty. But wow i am really bothered right now.

For some reason i have have been having a lot of AA recently when i have been sarging. Which is really strange. Certain nights i will have basically no problem, and can approach any HB. Then the next night will be a complete 180, like i have never spoken to a HB before. I get scared to approach which is absolutely rediculous. I have no clue where that positive mindset goes, its like i freeze up or something. I try to have a minimum of drinks, but im not sure if subconciously i put too much of a dependence on drinking "to loosen up" like i used to. Crutch style..

So recently i have been focusing on my inner game and really trying to love myself. Get my self-esteem high, and kill that ego is my plan. I have been listening to an online audio recording which came with styles 30 day to PUA. Its similar to a tony robbins tape. This has been helping, but i am looking for something more. I really want to nail this sucker, it has really been bothering me, especially of late. I am calling out for your help..any suggestions?

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"Man is not a prisoner of fate...but only a prisoner of his own mind" FDR

i know that it's difficult, but guess what, even the best pua's has AA, i also have AA.
i always compaire the game to swimming, the first seconds the water is cold. and hard to get in. but once you are in there and get used to the water. so when you open you will enjoy the ride.
always use the 3 second rule, when you see a set, you proboly get this feeling you want to open but u cant, you can have this feeling for ten minutes, or just for 3 seconds.

start by asking just what time it is. or were the bathroom is or something. just start with this. and eventually you will be open sets.
i hope this works for you. it did for me.