| Ok, so after reading the Game at the beginning of the year and recently reading Gamblers Book on 'The Natural Art of Seduction', I'm all pumped up and ready to get into the Game! So me and my boy, 'John the Greek', who I've known for ages and is basically my unofficial wing man (until we learn how to be proper wingmen for each other and make it official- lol) decide its time to get out there and improve our Game. We go to a bar called 'Bedroom bar' and yes it does actually have a bed in one corner. It's a nice bar I've been to once before, has a friendly vibe, women of all ages and a guy who plays the saxophone while the DJ spins- very cool!
So after loosing our other friend, who got drunk and wandered off, we made our way to the bar and sat down opposite three very stunning looking ladies in high boots and nice, short, tight dresses, but we play it cool, get some drinks and just chat and catch up on what we been doing that week. Out of the corner of my eye I see the girls look over every so often, as me and John are talking animatedly with our hands and laughing a lot- we've been friends for ages so usually have dump ass convo's where we end up laughing and pissing ourselves. So the women are obviously intrigued, me and John are warmed and ready to go, when we learn our very first lesson 1) If you are new to the PUA Game, never leave the House with out at least 4-5 openers ready to go. Yes, I admit it, we went out ready to do Game and none of us had any solid openers! Yes, we suck!! hahaha, but I'm good under pressure and I come up with an opinion opener about whether the girls would think that a man getting a tattoo on his lower back would be gay or not, but then suddenly the women get up and start dancing. The DJ hasn't started to play yet, they only have the background music on and the women are obviously shy, as they are basically standing on the spot just dancing a little bit, but still it made it just that little bit more awkward to now stand up and use the opener. So again I let my mind tick over and notice that they are all wearing the same black, knee height boots and straight away suggest to John an opener asking them if they all agreed on wearing the same boots out tonight, but just as I come up with it they pick up their coats and go to leave. My boy John quickly approaches one and uses the opener and she actually stops, leaving her friends to walk away towards the exit, laughs and has a small miunte convo with John before leaving to join her friends. So lesson one so far that night was 'Never leave the house without openers, until the time comes that we're so good at Game that we can improvise easily', but the opener worked and we get on with our evening, ready to go and open some more girls.
The DJ comes on and suddenly the bar is loud with beats pumping out and we realise its too loud to properly approach a girl without shouting in her ear. Being our first night we think about what we've read on dance floor game, or speaking to girls in loud clubs, but basically we're lost!! At one point John, who is buzzing and ready to go, goes up to 3 girls and uses the tattoo opinion opener. I can't believe what he is doing, because the girls are dancing and even though I'm as new as John, I know that trying to get a girls opinion while she is dancing will most properly not work, as she is in full swing of getting down with her friends, but its funny and when John comes back and says that she wasn't interested we both laugh at the situation. Then I come up with an idea and go up to the same girl and claim that my friend was trying to embarrasse me and that I was drunk when I contemplated getting this tattoo on my lower back. Now to add to the joke of the situation the girl tells me that she couldn't hear a word my friend had told her and so had no idea what I was talking about. I fumbled my words for a while trying to turn this into convo, as she's is actually interesed in talking and her other 2 friends step back and leave us be, but the music is loud, I keep having to repeat myself and it ends with her blowing me off by saying 'have a nice evening', I try and rally by saying 'I always have a good evening', smile, walk away, tell John what she said about not even hearing him and we both laugh about it again. Fuck it, it was another opener and we're learning shit tonight.
For the rest of the evening we dance a bit, kinda talk and dance with these two crazy south african chicks, get in a little convo with a girl that was drunk out of her mind, and I try a 'are you going to teach me to dance' opener on a girl, who is too shy and then gets intimidated when I show her a basic salsa set. We also learn to have a back up place to go if we're not feeling the place we're at, as even though Bedroom bar is good, it's too noise to talk to girls and we wanna practise opening. But it was a good first night and we took away everything we learned to improve on next time: )
And thats the first of what I plan to be many field reports of Scribe and John the Greek! haha : )
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