yesterday was my first sarging.

i was in a bar and went to a set of 3 - one guy ant two hb6.
i went to them and told them "styles" story about the secret admire.
they got really intreased at the story. i mostly talked to the guy and the girl that i didn't want. the girl that i wanted didn't asked for attention (maybe i should have ignored her a bit longer than 5 minutes?). i asked them what they would do if they where in my "hero of the story" situation.
i didn't neg any of the girls - i didn't see the opportunity (i think i was too nervous to do it)...

when i got nothing else to say, i politly left and took a friend to the table so he can be "the guy who suppose to have meet the admirer. my friend blew up the entire story and we had to bail.

than i went to a set of two hb8 (one of them was even 9). i came and told them that my table ban me (i didn't really explain why... maybe i could use it to make me look good somehow). after a few minutes of small talk (again - no negs - i just can't find the right time and ideas for it) i made them two great magic tricks which worked perfectly. i tryed mystory number close - and told the hb8 that "i need to go and make peace with my friends on the other table - so how can we continue this conversation?" she responsed with "I don't know". i wanted her to offer me her phone number but she didn't so i asked her "do you want to give me your number?" she said "maybe". i took it as a no and left.

what should i do diffrently.

i can't seem to get this "neg" thing - i just can't find the ideas for a neg ("you blink a lot" seems lame)
also - how could i number close the hb8 better?

Well you never want to make it seem like people don't l ike you so saying stuff like "my table ban me" really doesn't help and HB8's want you to take control so you should never hint that you want their phone number. They hear the same chitchat all the time so you have to come in with a lot of energy and say something that you are sure no one else will. Basically you have to be different to the the 10 guys who approached her.

I'd try not to ask ' do you want to give me your number?' - a question with an open answer (ie yes or no).
Instead just say 'put your number in here' (whilst putting your phone in their hand).
If there not interested, they wont do it. If they are, they will, and im guessing as she said maybe she was still interested.
As for the negs, dont feel as if you have to use them. Your taking the right approach by not using them if there is no reason to. I tend to neg the target with something playful like, 'is she always like this', directing it to her mates, if she keeps craving for attention.