Hi guys,

1st field report which went humbly wrong, felt pua when approaching- walked away afc please give me some advice on how I could of done better and where I went wrong, your help is most-most intensely appreciated.

I've met this HB before and shes quite comfortable with me around- I felt an opener was not required in this situation.

I approached with my position directly in front of HB but facing her friend. I made little conversation with the friend then changed the topic to involve HB, dropped afew negs on her for more attention. This is where she started to playfully slap my arms and tried to cover my mouth afew times. When we playfully wrestled I held her hand and pretended I wasn't aware of this, I then proceeded in isolating:

Me: So how long have you guys known each other?
Friend: *looks at HB* almost 5 years now?
Me: Wow... 5 years?
HB: *nods*
Me: If thats the case, you won't mind if I borrow her for 5 mins =)
Friend: =) sure take her

I was shocked at this point it was working and the nerves kicked in abit. Tried to order drinks and was lucky enough to hit her favourite drink, score... but as we waited I realised her attention was starting to drop and tried to talk to her some more but as I kept trying I realised she replies wit smiles and laughter and every now and then she'll slap me or try to do something physical towards me

This chick doesn't talk?!

When that was over we went back to the group and was cockblocked by 2 of her 'OTHER' friends who done it vy vy obviously making it quite awkward btw me and HB.

They even held both of her hands... leaving me no openings...

This is were I got nerve racked and felt vy AFC as I didnt know how to deal with this, while on the dancefloor it only got worst, I felt like a weirdo outsider by nights end I knew it was over...

Please... help... me...

-Koon

If this happens, I would jsut leave for now and go for some other chicks. Come back later in the night and try one more time. And it sounds to me like she's giving you a IOIs. Buckle up and just go for it man. Triangle gaze her and kino kino kino

thx for the advice mate

i spoke to my other mate who does the pua stuff wit me and he said the samething, i think the next time i see her im gonna put an impression down and if she doesnt talk i mit pull the cat string on her, thx again for the help most appreciated!

-koon

It's kool mate. You from Australia right? Where bouts? I'm in Brisvegas.

im from syd, brisvegas? lolz

lol alright. Brisbane = brisvegas. we rock! lol

Im in Sydney as well Koon.

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i think next time wat u should do is ...if the girls hold hands while dancing and blocking u off...you should grap there hands and separate there hands and hold themand dance with them ...it dont get scared to do that ..... while dancing with them you can give the girls a twarl or make them do things ... lead them.

The worst thing you can do is stay in set if the energy has dropped. Sometimes it's better to eject, say you'll be back later, and go and run more sets. For homework, try compiling more routines.