Alright to make things short,

Met the HB 9 at the club via friend, introduced us later that night danced with her, get number close (should have atleast Kclosed, too many IOI's from her telling me your making me get hot after dancing with her, looking me from afar the whole night,) etc

And no she doesn't show those IOI's just because she needed attention from everyone in the club as I was the only one she really went to and talked except with her friends. And not to be cocky I am one of the best looking guys in the club

Adds me on Facebook first bla bla bla

Since then we text till the next weekend where I see her again at the club (well she told me she was going so I didnt respond to her text and showed up since alot of my friends we're going. Ignored her for the first hour, showed I knew about everyone in the club (social whatever it's called ) after my friends telling me her friends we're talking about me and she was looking at me alot I started to open talked for 5 minutes said I had to get back with friends (she kept looking at me the whole night and her friends we're almost ushing her to go see me again) . Again FAIL I didn't Kclose and left early due to school the next day.

She texts me first the day after complimenting, etc and texts me first the days after. Recently she's been texting me less and I had asked her to come to the shopping mall with me today on wednesday but said she couldn't due to an appointment (don't care as I have to go but sucks anyways) I reply with: ''Alright cool'' and leave it at that and no message from her afterwards.

She still is doing her independant and well I'm fucked a lil. What went wrong? Didn't Kclose when I had the chance so I can later on escalate to Fclose maybe or whetever she was IOIing me too much it was so easy.

I know I should freeze her out a while. I need some more pointers. I feel this is going to be good practice even if it doesn't turn out the way I want it to.

At first she wasn't at all in my thoughts but now because of her showing so much interest I got interested a bit, starting a One-itis a bit but not much (just thinking it sucks a bit cause she is slacking a little)

I've had almost exactly the same problem. And I think (although I'm still not sure) that I disqualified too hard. You seem like you did the same. A girl that hot is likely to just move on when she thinks she doesn't have a chance, which makes us obviously want her more now she's not so interested. Then we get one-itis and reduce our chances still further.

This is only a thought though and I would welcome other peoples opinions on this as I'm quite interested in figuring it out too.

Harem x