So I was out with my wing and we where going around this club checking out and opening girls. This club doesn’t have such a good reputation and it’s also a ‘go to’-place for mediocre and fat girls. I have also noticed that among those UG are often few great looking girls that (because the SPAM is not so hip and “cool” as in many other places) are somehow little more receptive to your approaches and are more willing to consider ONSes. This night most of them weren’t hot at all as usual, but then we spot 3set sitting on sofa area. My wing notices the left one and goes to talk to her. She’s pretty hot. I start to occupy her friends with small talk like ”So with brings you girls out tonight” or something and make some follow up jokes. At the same time I notice that girl in the middle is even hotter than my wing target-girl. Blond HB9 with slender body, and (I noticed now because she’s sitting like she’s half lying) she has huge breasts. Her friends tell us that she’s just became single. I think “This is why I come to this place”. She’s stroking her hair but not paying much attention to what I say.

It doesn’t go so well for my wing and he’s target so we leave for a while and talk to other girls but soon we are back in this set again because it is the best the place has to offer. Wing talks to his target again and the third girl is in the bathroom now so my target is alone, texting with her phone. I sit next to her but she’s annoyed and says I can’t sit there because it’s her friends place. So I get up and join my wing with the other girl. When the girl is distracted my wing hears what happened and says “So what? Go back in!” And I realize of course he’s right so I go and sit back next to my target who again says it’s for her friend. I say “yeah, I’m warming up the seat” and jump right to “Who are you texting to? Bringing more friends here?” She says she’s texting to a guy currently in army that she wants him. “This is pretty straightforward girls here” I think and said something like “Yeah that’s nice message for someone having tuff times in army. Actually it’s not so tuff anymore.” I then start to make jokes about how anyone can skip army (mandatory here in Finland) these days with smallest excuses like “I will miss my mommy” and how corporals nowadays probably tug the novices in and pat them on the head at the end of a day. I make my humor sarcastic and rough because I thought that kind of humor would work for this kind of girl and it does. She starts laughing and we make more jokes together. Now she start’s telling about how she’s practically never been single and I make some comments in between. She says it’s great cause she can just go out and do things if she wants. “Like this” she says and starts kissing me. It was pretty easy after all to make her from uninterested to interested. She says she’s not looking for anything serious right now and I say “It’s ok, I was out on date today also. You don’t go to candy store and pick just one sort off candy.”

We talk for a while and then she has to go to bathroom so we kiss and she leaves. My wing’s girl has a BF and she leaves with my target. I also don’t want to just wait for my girl to come back so we go around the club some more. Soon we ran into the girls again so I grab my girl and start making out. I stroke her lower back but this girl isn’t shy so she grabs my hand and slams it into her ass. Nice! After a while these girls go for a smoke so we are left by ourselves again. We go back to sofas where we have been almost all night and open a new set to “look cool” when girls come back. This is where I miss calibrated! Problem is I can’t see smoking area from this place and I stay in this set for too long and the girls don’t show up. I started looking for them but couldn’t find them. They were pretty drunk so they had left the place. “Nooooo!” I should have waited in a place where I can still see them but somehow I thought this was a sure deal. Probably her friend persuaded her to leave because she was getting tired. Damn!

Painful night but this happens. Nothing to do but to learn from this I guess..

Breeze2 I think you did a lot of things well here but there are a few areas you can improve upon. First and foremost, I should point out if you are hanging out and only approaching the hot girls it's pretty obvious to the rest of the room you are just there to pickup girls. If you're cool with that than so am I but there are more subtle ways like approaching other sets if nothing else but just to practice conversation skills and be social.
Alright, I am not much for plowing but I have to give you a lot of credit for going back in there and making it work. She's got a guy somewhat in her life and there isn't much you can do about that. However, he isn't in the club you were in and you took advantage of that. You kept it casual and made it easy for her to spend this time with you.
Once you have the girl with you and kissing you, etc. why did you let her go out to smoke by herself? You should have gone out there with her to the smoking area. Then you would have known what's going on. When it's girls night out they are going to make plans and bounce. You have to control or stay in contact with the group because it's really easy for them to pull her away.

Anyways, good job overall getting back in there and working the set. Next time just stick with the set once it's going that well. There is no real reason to open another set for a jealousy plot or anything else when you got a girl kissing you. Just ride the wave at that point!

Keep it up man, you're doing it right!

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Thanks for the feedback man! You have some good points..
I do actually talk also to not-so-hot-girls just for practice and to warm up. I just didn't write that down on my report. You are right about the futile jealousy plot. I didn't go with them for a smoke because air in that small smoking box is so bad. But I should have at least stayed close and waited at that point, not trying to be so "cool" when the deal is almost sealed.