so im taking this girl out on a second date tonight (kind of).
I say kind of because it almost seems like a first date due to me completly fucking up the original first date.

I honestly cant believe i managed to persuade her to come out again after the last date to the cinema!

yeah i know, why the fuck did i choose the cinema for a first date?!!

Ive been told so many times not to take a girl to the cinema but me being a broke student i saw the cinema as being a cheap night out.

so ye we sat in cinema n cudnt talk much. was really wierd coz the girl is so easy to talk to but due to the shit date and film she made me talk her home straight after the cinema.

so ye i number closed (dont have a clue how i managed that) n she took my number then i just left it.

she then text me like a week later asking when im gonna ring her to ask her out again "just not to the cinema" lol.

so ye im taking her for a drink tonight at a bar near her place so i can actually chat to her and aim for an early night back to hers.
dunno if taking her for a drink is gonna be another failed unintresting idea? what u lot think? any ways i can make going for a drink a bit more exciting?

n e ways im off but i'll post how it went.

You seriously need to change your attitude or frme on this.

She is not the prize, you are. You sound (and most likely act) like a puppy in a pet store looking at potential customers through the window. Man up, take control.

There is nothing wrong with movie or a drink. A bit cliché, yes, but nothing wrong.

_________________
Drink me, make me feel real
Wet your beak in the stream
Game we're playing is life
Love is a two way dream

right so i made her meet me at mine first. (so she cud see my room)
then ye we went out to a couple of bars n i just worked on mid game. played a few games with her n did a few simple magic tricks basically just built up hours and kino with her b4 was time to go home.

she said we cant go back to hers (i instantly thought fuck), but i let her carry on n she ended up saying "but we could go back to yours for a bit, your bedrooms well cleaner than mine i'd be embarassed if we went back to mine". (im so glad i showed her my room before we went out, im gonna take girls up to my room before a date all the time now).

but ye we got back to mine n i put some random crap on the tv n we just lay on my bed chatting for a bit. n e way we started making out n messing around but then LMR so i froze her out. just got out of bed n went made myself a drink. came back n carried on fooling around and again LMR, so again i froze her out. ( i said it was a good bit on tv and turned the volume up pretending to be intrested in it). she took the remote off me then started fooling with me again. i thought for sure she'd let me finish this time but it wasnt to be. this time not because of her LMR...

...I couldnt believe it. my SPAM just walked into my room sat on my sofa n started having a chat with us. i was like WTF?!! once id made him leave she was totally not in the mood anymore n so took the break in the mood as an excuse to leave.

so ye though i didnt F close it was still good experience (that i still need a lot of). Im still very much an AFC
(hense my still acting "like a puppy in a pet store" (made me laugh this TheJ)
still with AA but last night was good experience for my midgame.

i need to work more on my approaches and break my AA now so thats next on my list.

P.s.
Thanks for the advise TheJ i know exactlly what you mean, im just starting out in the game so my attitude is still that of an AFC.

*cookie*

Good job. Seems like your day 2 went pretty well. The trick to bring her to your place before hand is a good one. Have you read some of David DeAngelo's material? He recommends it as well.

I'd seriously have a word with that roomate! What's up with that.

You seem on the right track. Work on that AA!

_________________
Drink me, make me feel real
Wet your beak in the stream
Game we're playing is life
Love is a two way dream