Hey everybody, so I picked up this chick a couple weeks ago and she was really into me, everything was going great, the only problem is that I couldn't get physical with her fast enough....and we went out on two coffee dates where I had to leave shortly after and couldn't even get a kiss close, it was really stupid of me. Then we went on a lunch date, and I could tell she was sort of distant, and now she doesn't really respond to my e-mails or phone calls (I've only tried twice). I'm wondering what to do. Should I ignore her for a while, then try up and just run my game on her, escalate and get things physical? Should I ask her if everything's ok between us? I really enjoy spending time with her, but I fucked up and didn't escalate or anything, I have no idea why I just didn't, I really have no explanation. In fact at one point after our coffee date I was in her room, but still didn't do any kino, no clue why. I feel like she lost attraction for me completely since I didn't get physical with her. Any ideas? Help?

did u try all the negging and Mystery's Cat string theory during the dates, or were u just sweet and nice to her??

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Sigh, no I didn't do the cat string theory or much of the negs, maybe one or two, but very little. Mostly sweet and nice.

I would say take this as a learning experience. Don't message her again, especially not with "is everything okay between us?" as that's particuarly AFC and needy. It appears as if you're chasing her because you keep calling and she's not replying. If you want to try and rekindle the fire, I would suggest a freeze out and move on. Then you may be able to play the jelousy card if she comes back into it with the new bird. You could even play the jelousy card again on the new bird with this other girl. Win Win.

Niceboy