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This is good work. Negs are wonderful in this situation as long as you keep it light and remember not to go overboard. Every girl in a school situation has a tipping point.
School is perhaps one of the most socially challenging arenas there are - everybody is vying for position and being dicks to eachother to become king dick. The other problem is everybody knows everybody. Go past this tipping point and not only will she bear a grudge for being just another school dick, but you may find it has a knock on effect to all of the other girls in the school when they get wind of your jerky ways.
So play it intelligently, once you are convinced that they regard you as a socially valuable character immediately start the compliments and allow negs to take a back seat (although NEVER telegraph too much interest for several reasons of which im not going to go into now.) Don't overdo it, but start making her think - 'wow he has a really sweet side to him, what a perfect boyfriend he would make'.
Good point, I forgot to look at the setting and the challenges that brings along with it. I should be more intelligent about this. I have noticed it is a much more... intertwined and complex arena for sarging than is a bar or club or even a party. Thanks for the advice...
Are there any specific tips you have for a setting such as school?