Hey guys,

So I was at a friend's farewell party. He's a son of a very rich businessman in my city. So I know there'll be at least 1 high class girl in the party. And boy, I wasn't wrong! So the party (formal party) took place besides a pool. So there was lines of chairs and I saw the girl seated, bored in 1 of the lines. I just need to find a good momentum...

The momentum came when she went to the toilet (I think) and she sat back on the chair. I was behind her, so when she sat back so hard, the chair bumped my knee and I "ouch" a little. She squeaked "sorry!". Aha!! The momentum came...

So I tapped on her shoulder and asked " You must be a great singer" (smile
Her: Emm, not really. Why?
Me: Because when you said sorry before, it was perfectly high pitched

She laughed and gave me an IOI. Then we fluff talk a little, teased her and asked her to turn around. I said that she was quite interesting to talk with.

Then something happened... There's a girl, about 6, dressed not so smart with huge glass, geeky look, etc asked me

HB6: Are you just praising my sister?

I was AFOGed!! (alpha female of the group)

So I was just pass the test by

Me: Maybe, and I hope that she didn't fly to the moon just with that.

She laughed, but keep testing me until I just cold read her to shut her up and then she stopped testing and began to invest. I told her that she's quite confident and protective to her sister and family. She asked if I were a magician just because I can do the cold read. LOL..

Cut it short, I befriended the AFOG and chatted with the HB 9, I touched her hair, playful high 5's, just basic kino escalations, and we liked the Hip-Hop Dance, she was self taught and I offered her to take her into my friend's dance class. She agreed and number close.

She's in the junior high school, (I'm at the High School), I was surprised because by the way she dressed and behaved, it's like she's around 17 already. She's 14!!
Which could means she's easier to game (lack of experience) or it's still the same because I know that a girl with this caliber will begin to got hit on in this age.

I told her to give me a nickname after I gave her one, and we shared our hobby in music, and she began to playfully push me while I was sitting besides the pool (jeez, I'm so glad that I didn't fell down, so pushed me hard!). I know she's all over me, but some people need my help so I have to eject for a while.

After that, I saw her sitting in the piano (there's a piano in the house), and I see that she wants to play it, although unable to. So I teached her a little, she was quite histerical when I played. She told her sister euphorically about the piano stuff and etc.

I eject. I know she's attracted, but both of us have something to do.

Now I think I made the 1 mistake. The meeting was so short, so I feel that although the attraction is high, we didn't build enough comfort. And I didn't anchored the good emotion by send her a text later that night. I think that's my mistake.

So the next day, I texted her

"Hey HB, I can't believe I played the piano for you last night! I never played the piano for a girl on the 1st meeting! How luck you are.. . Btw, from the party last night, I can tell that u're such a ice cream lover. What flavor drives u crazy? "

No rep. Shit, it could be a flake... Or lack of comfort?? So I just toned down the flirtiness level.

2 days later.

Me: Hey HB, how's ur day? Anything exciting happened today?
(less than 1 minute)
HB: Fine.. Just met the hottest guy in school.. Haha...
Me: Hmm, Bali(hometown) is hot already, I hope that he didn't melt you up?:) U might be made of ice cream. So, do you love eating gellato?

(3 hours later)
HB: "Huh? No I'm not.."

WHAT THE???????
(1 hour later)
Me: "Hey just finished watching the 4 fingered pianist concert. It's touching Brr, minus 2 cool points!! Girls who eat gellato are cool, u know.. Now I doubted you.. Aha! plus 3 cool points if u can tell me something interesting about ur life.

No reply.

A natural friend of mine told me to text her (I played the game quite differently because there's cultural differences here e.g sexual flirtiness, etc) the next day and asked "Hey, u got my text last night?". I kinda confused because he'd tried to game Mexican girl (though only via Facebook), and he succeed. So I thought that he's quite socially calibrated.

Any opinions guys??

Best pal,
Steven

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"Grief is the price we pay for love"

Hey guys,

I should say that I need help on this. Can you guys give me some guidance on what to do if she's cold on the text?? Like her response is really sparse and stuff.
I think this one has something to do with comfort. Thanks guys!!

Best pal,
Steven

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"Live every moment of your life as it is the best"

"Grief is the price we pay for love"

Dude... best leave this one. First off how old are you if you're gaming on 14 yr olds? Second, when she responds with two word answers and you text AGAIN in an hr something's wrong about that situation.

Haha.. Thx for the response,dude. First of all, I'm 16, I know it's far from community standard, and maybe I shouldn't even be here! But I'm eager to improve my social and love life, so here I am anyway.

I still need help in this one, guys. Thanks!!

Best pal,
Steven

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"Live every moment of your life as it is the best"

"Grief is the price we pay for love"

it's only a 2 year difference. just keep it up, start early end early. who knows how good you'll be in your 20's.

I hope she wasnt sitting alone at this party because she is displaying a bitch sheild; sometimes it goes un-noticed when you charmed her that quickly - the singer opener i thought was good (playing on every girls' young pop-star fantasy)!

It sounds like if you had whipped out a subtle Triangle gazing (not sure of the crafter of that one - but look into her left eye -> right eye -> lips /repeat..mood needs to be right) because you seemed to have high tension between you - that would have ended in a kiss-close.

Looking back - I think the first text was a little bit heavy - you text her the next day "what drives you crazy?" after admitting to have not forged a comfortable situation with her..

book this one down as expirience and let it slide imo.

Sebastien --Illusionist--

no offence. but Wtf are u doing here reading this stuff. And dont start early him, your downgrading yourself to abbrevatations formed by older people who struggled with females. Your young, Live your life. What happens, happens, be your self and stop following these setups. Then again what do i know.

Hey guys,
It's been a while since I posted on this forum. Been trying new stuffs and trying to analyze my own FRs rather than asking you guys. But I improved so little and I know that only this forum can help me on getting over these. Thanks for the helps this far, guys!

For Venom, it's quite long story, but to keep it short I was a geek and have no social skills, had no even single date with a girl until last year, which is within 3 days after I encountered AFC Adam's method and became involved on the game. So I believe this stuff works for me.

So, after some weeks of no contacts, I tried to reinitiate contact. This was the text banter:

Me: Hey "HB", so I'm going to watch some movie with my friends tomorrow. We;d like to invite u out with us because we're going to have some fun and I'd not feel good about it if I don't invite u out with us. In case that u wouln't look like a lonely wolf, bring ur friends, maybe even ur "geeky" sister. But make sure that u treat her well and don't make her look like a "geek" just because she doesn't look as good as you are. So hey, what ur view on cookies n cream flavoured ice cream?
(we had a joke on her sister earlier (the AFOG) and she called her geeky, so I gues it's still fine)
Her: Oh..! I wanna..! But I don't think I can watch movie with you guys

I was on my piano lesson, so I just waited until the class' over

Me: Hey, was on piano class earlier. Hmm, usually girls' problems are:
1. They don't have the transportation
2. They're not comfortable with guys only
Which one are you?
Her: no 1 and I'm busy
Me: Well, just another time then. But I like your spontaneity and honesty. Usually girls are just pretending to be busy and looking for excuses and even thinking about it so much. U're quite different. :0) Hey, can u cook?
Her: Umm.. not really, just rice. Haha..
Me: Ha.. That's enough for you to join my plan. So it's like I already got 2 girls who agreed for a cooking contest. They'll cook their specialty. And I think it's ok for you to enter your rice as your specialty. Ur rice isn't so bad and stil eatable,right?:P
Her: Um.. I think so.. Haha..
Me: OK, u're in then! If u win u'll get a surprise from me. But for u, I'm going to give u something special. Usually I never tell the girls about the surprise, but because u seems to be a girl who'll kill me if u get something u don't like, (considering u almost drowned me on the pool the other day) I'll let u to pick some sky objects that u like the most. Stars, moon, anything. Which 1 do u like? I can't give u a date me with me because I don't date nice girls, except u have done something crazy lately. What's the craziest thing that u've done lately?

Her: Umm.. Fight with friends, learn how to dance, how to rap.. Haha.. No. Don't want a date..
Me: Haha.. What makes you think that's crazy enough to get a date with me? All of that aren't crazy enough, except fighting with friends? Oh jeez, how many round have u won? I used to fight a lot when I was in the Elementary,but I got bad in the junior high. u really are killing me now. So will u promise if we ever go out u won't kill me?And if u fight, which one do u prefer to use, kicks or punches?
Her: punches on the nose, head and stomach. and kick her ass..
Me:Gosh. Her ass? U're quite naughty. I like it I hope that u don't do this to ur sister. Her butt will ve even more flat. So, I'm sure if u fight a boy, u will kick him in the balls?

My intention was to inject a little bit sexuality to the text, but I might miscalibrated. She didn't reply for a long time, I know something happened (she reply real fast, 3 mins at most, so something must be wrong with the last text)

So I tried to reframe things
Me: Hey I think this one is more important. I think u're kinda unique. U got this mixture of feminime and masculine traits, which is quite rare these days. What do u like about urself?

And still no reply. OK, the mistake is miscalibration and escalating too fast. She isn't not that comfortable with me (based on not so solid n-close, I think it's still understandable if she texts like these, before it was even worse. not enough comfort).

Still, there might be another mistakes that I don't know. What should I do now,guys?

Thanks for the advice

Best pal,
Steven

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"Live every moment of your life as it is the best"

"Grief is the price we pay for love"

Sorry to beak it to you.. but Steve, you fukt it.

put this down as a learing curve..

you did just call her a tomboy with this "mixture of feminime and masculine traits"...trying to insert sexuality into texts after the 3rd / 4th texts doesn't work unless she is dirty as hell - and seeing as she replies few word answers and suddenly stops... it just hints that she thinks - "creep"

surely you've been gaming others!.. don't feel discouraged - you have got pretty good game.. you understand the dynamics well - but just bother with too many fridged chicks are your age...

-Illusionist-
x x x x x x

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Not to be an asshole or anything, just trying to help out but, dude you've fukt up on the texts...the real life stuff was good though!

Reading your texts I find them annoying too random with the gellato stuff and you're just giving her too much, she could tell by the first text that she owned you, literally, owned. Your intentions are too obvious and, trying to make it more sexual, well she's 14, usually girls that age aren't that active yet , sexually.

You also texted her too much while she didnt reply. You'll have to re-read texts a few times so you really understand what she's saying, which in this case was: I'm not interested

You should go for girls more your age, i think they will be easier to game.

Best of luck pal

Hey guys,

Thank for all the advices and feedbacks, I'm really thankful and grateful for everything that you've given to me, but still I won't give up that easily, because it would lack one important thing: PERSISTENCE

So I'll continue to push things further.

Recently, I knew that this girl already fancy this 1 guy and fell in love with him. But good news, they started to get apart. So how do I get in and get her heart?

Thanks,

Best pal,
Steven

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"Live every moment of your life as it is the best"

"Grief is the price we pay for love"

persistence? no.

stalking behaviour and not knowing when to quit? yes.

Yep, I have tried it all, and now she won't reply. Thanks for the advices and I deeply messed up. My bad... Thanks for everything!

Best pal,
Steven

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"Live every moment of your life as it is the best"

"Grief is the price we pay for love"