| Attempting to get over social Anxiety so bare with me.
ok, I was walking by the pool.. looking not that good Lol... My cloths were a bit of a mess, but it was No biggie tho...
& I saw This Chick laying out face down... All I saw was ass and lotion Lol, but it was enough for me, I had to make a move just to do it... I Was taking some of the "Try to fail just to get over AA" advice Ie. Not caring about my cloths. And it actually went pretty good. I came by & she was distracted by a Nintendo DS I hadent seen from my previous angle, but It was Ok.
I Came By & said "Excuse me, Can I sit here" (gesturing towards the chair next to her) & she gave me a response gesture, mumble thing I thought was negative at first, but was probably her being shy. I asked her name & She Said it, & I was Like... "So, What are you doing out here" (dumb ass question, I know, but It kept me from looking like a stuttering idiot.) & she said she didnt understand... Then I was Like "you dont understand Lol?, You dont speak English?" & she says no, I say "where are you from" & she says france... (in a thick ass accent) & I say, "Oh? Well what are you doing here?" & she went on about something or other, & i stopped paying attention after she said boyfriend cuz I wasent interested anymore Lol... Shortly after she mentioned him, I was like "oh you got a boyfriend" And she said yeah.. So I bailed out And shook her hand and said it was nice meeting her.
Decent For an Ice breaker?
I also notice my Confidence around people is getting better too... I can close in on a chick if she's alone good, But The real test is gonna be doing it in front of people...
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