Hello people,

Me and a bunch of friends are soon to arrange a speed dating night for charity - we're not desperate lol, just trying to raise some money for a good cause!

I've never been speed dating before but imagine it's going to be somewhere in between really fun and really awkward.

We need to setup the event and I imagine it will be on in about two weeks time. So I figured it may be a good idea to run a little case study on it. I'm happy to play the lab rat for any game techniques you want me to test out. I'm a pretty confident guy so am happy to push boundaries.

So yeah, just pop your ideas down, I'll keep an eye on this thread and we can run it as an experiment. I think I'll probably sit down with between 10-15 girls, so we can try different styles for each and then I'll report back.

I've done a bit of experimenting on this. Here are my findings

Things that work
SMILE
Try to be relaxed sit comfortably
Express your emotions.
Talk slowly
asking opinions on matters.
Tell funny stories
Kino
Move my wing got a girl to move to the bar, I got one to move outside, more relaxed try it

Don't do
Ask too many standard questions Where you from, what you do etc
Talk about really weird topics "like your dreams"

TBH a lot of girls will be really nice during the speed dating but when i tried to talk them after they go all flaky. The bitch shield comes back up. Maybe it's me not building enough attraction.

I got a nice K close on a speed dating here's how it went.
After the speed dating was over I decided not to gawk with the other men. I went straight over to HB and just approached her directly. I said that we never finished our chat about organic chemistry. After more banter I told her that out of the speed dating girls I liked her the most cause she intelligent and funny.

So I isolated her "I'm going outside for a sec why don't you come with me" So we went out and I k closed.

Yeah man, standard questions would suck - especially after 15 times over! Maybe I'll just take a dictaphone and press play while sitting there holding my balls haha

Come on guys, this could be a good experiment, let's get some ideas down and I swear I'll try them all out.

FFS the girls in speed dating events are all social rejects. Well not all but a majority are.

Why can't they find a right guy? Their attitude or they're UG. You're dealing with very broken women.

It would be nice to find a formula for Speed dating but it's kinda hard.

If any of teh Mpuas here are reading this please post ideas, I'll experiment with them on a speed dating night for a laugh.