So last night, I went out with this girl that I met at the club (Katie) and her gay friend. Katie is average looking. This was my 2nd time at the nightclub which is 18+ that night. I decided to peacock in a mini blue dress. For the record, I'm not 21 yet, and still new at the game.

My goal: to meet new HGs, learn to get guys to buy me drinks, and have a good time

my results were 5 approaches in 2 hours before club closing

1st- guy in college who had braces. he was holding a drink and i talked with him. as i was dancing with him, i asked if i could have the drink.

2nd-Katie and I were apprached by 2 guys. I was working my game to get the guy to buy me a drink. Katie messed up and paid the guy to buy us drinks. We drink and dance a bit

3rd- guy same town as me. 2 years younger. introduces me to his buddies, dance a bit and he says he has to go back to buddies

4th- 2 guys. I danced with one, while the other looked bored. I switched and danced with the other. Then one said he had to go find his buddy

5th- 2 HB8s, one of the girls was dancing on the stage. I appoached her with a compliment and she introduced herself and her friend. She offered me her drink and invited me to go clubbing Fri

The only bad part about the night was

1.) 2nd approach guys had gotten my number but FORGOT MY NAME
2.) I asked a guy to dance, but he said he has a gf...I mean come on, USE A BETTER EXCUSE.

Please let me know if you have any suggestions for me as to how to get a guy to buy me a drink. Just asking a guy for a drink isn't as easy as ppl say.

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1) that sound like me =x
2) it happends

Basicly your not building enough attraction for the guy. many occasion girls will ask me randomly to buy them a drink dont be offended but in my head i'm like
"Who the heck is this bitch asking me to buy her a drink? i barely even know you". Now you might get an avrge guy to buy you one but.. thats not what you are looking for. to get the High prize guy to buy you a drink or be remotely intrested in you. Be outgoing. Get his attention. flirt flirt flirt! Use your sex appeal. remember we men are Attracted to looks and then personality but dont be the biggest slut ot sluttyness out there. Be sophisticated as well, smart, not clingy or so needy. dont be to easy but dont be to hard-to get. good luck.

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should we really be training girls to be man eaters lol ?

scared of a challenge? PUA'ing doesnt discriminate, females and males alike need help or guideance. What better way to pick up high quality men then being on a forum at the source.

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what would you consider as too slutty? what would you consider as a close?
"i have to go meet my friends, gimme a call" ?

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difference betweena challeneg and getting used lol

as for to slutty, if your all over him grabbin on his cock and you know making out heavily within mins .. thats being to slutty( guys wouldnt mind that) but then he loses respect for you. as for a close? what kinda close are you looking for? are you trying to get his #? take him back home? I advise you to get his number unless your just looking for a 1 night stand.

as for Fumin if you are being used by a girl.. its not her fault ,its yours for letting her use you.

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Just a quick question here. Are you trying to have guys buy you drink as a sort of game to break you aproach anxiety or do you want to get something out of this besides getting free drinks?

Don't take this the wrong way, but if you want a relationship, a date, a fuck friend, a friend... whateve is another ballpark from getting a free drink. Are you trying to create attraction through him investing in you? Heck maybe it's a calssical hoop girls use but it woudn't spark much in me.

here's the part where i'm not sure i'm doing correctly. that night, i tried giving guys my number instead of me asking it for it. usualy at parties though, i get the guys whole name and number to look them up on facebook so i can add them. i'm just looking to hangout or maybe go on a few dates, but no hooking up

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for the drinks, i see it more as a game and ego boost. it's like i win on my part if i can get the guy to buy me a drink. i'm not looking for a relationship, i feel as if 90% of the guys out there are players. when it comes to meeting guys at a club, its rare to find someone to acually dated with. as i have observed, most are just looking for a hookup or a good time. i just want to hangout or go on a few dates with them, and when they want to get physical or hookup, i dump them and find a new target.

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Alright. That's cool.

If you are just looking for guys to hang out with and go for a few dates, just use the 'friendship' model. Be nice to people, help them out, be yourself. You don't need game for that. Bypass attraction and the guy won't even think of going physical or hookup on you. That way you can safe yourself the 'dump him' part. You'll have guys to hang around with then. Again, you don't need game for that, you just need to be social.