I’ve been silent member of this forum for a long time but I decided to stop being lazy and start making some reports because I’ve heard that it improves your game and feedback helps of course. If anyone else starts to do day game regularly feel free to use this thread to report.

So me and my wing were having Day Game for the first time in 3 months. We agreed to do this now more frequently, because summertime brings hotties to the streets like no other season. I was in my head though and I didn’t have a playful vibe so I think that’s part of the reason why first one didn’t go so well:

Me: Hey, what r u reading?
Girl: Mmm, reading Cosmo..
Me: Yeah, nice weather to read outside
(I’m sitting dow as I say this)
Girl: Yes..
Me: If I would read something here it would be movie-magazine, that’s my Cosmo.
Girl: Oh, they have those too?
Me: Oh yeah, they have articles about future movies, reviews and stuff..We men don’t have Cosmo so we have to settle for those and Car-magazines
(repeating myself already here =)
Girl: Um, yeah..

Girl obviously wasn’t that into our conversation and was probably thinking “What is this thing?”
I decided to be very forward to ease her state and let her know what’s happening

Me: Actually I just saw you when I was walking past and wanted to talk to you. I’m on my way to sales with my friend. have you been shopping already?
Girl: No, I haven’t ..(didn’t get smiling response, she’s still cold)
Me: Most of the stores are very similar, nothing sticks out with unique style. But you could come with us as a fashion-consultant and show us what good and what’s not.
Girl: Sorry, I don’t think I’m gonna.

I petted her chihuahua and asked some questions but things were not going anywhere (she was also little too young for me) and she stayed in same position the whole time. So I just left her alone. This took place near beer gardens so she might have thought that I had been drinking, which I think always lowers your points during day-time.

Wing opened a 2set chilling on grass at the river and I joined after a while. We talked about movies, festivals and the fact that the other girl doesn’t lose her memory when drinking and doesn’t have hangovers. I teased her about it, saying how unfair that is, she should have one or the other. Vibe was better here and convo went better. Maybe because I was more relaxed about it and me and my wing could support each other in 2set.

After that I opened 3 girls asking about sunglasses. They said right away “Is this somekind of pickup line?” =) I didn’t confess. I just kept joking about ugly sunglasses and how I lose them probably within 3 days. This went quite well but I noticed that these girls were really young, so I just thanked them for shopping advice.

Inside the mall my wing opened a cute girl with the sunglass opener. 3 of us talked about finding them, then about upcoming festival and music there and so on. She was receptive, and although I talked more to her, I waited for my wing to make a couple of jokes and take her number cos he opened her. The girl was interested and I think she would have given number to me but I didn’t close my wings girl. Afterwards he told me he was waiting for me to close. =) So then we agreed that who opens, closes.


Next one was sitting down and her two friend left somewhere so it was perfect time to go in. I did my opener and then said “Actually I thought you were cute so I came to talk to you. I kept talking about sunglasses and sat down next to her. She was visiting festival from another city and I started talking about bands and smuggling booze to the festival-area. She participated somewhat in convo but was visibly nervous so I tried pacing her state by saying that I realize this might be little weird. It didn’t help though so I left and wished her a nice weekend in the city. I think I was little too serious with first 30 secs so maybe that determined the vibe for her.


Last one of the day was on street. She was walking her dogs and I first watched her across the street but went after her and made that my opener. “Hey miss, hold on! I saw you walking across and I thought you were cute.” She said something like ”No, I’m not” so she wasn’t repective to my direct opener. So again I tried to pace her state by saying that I realize this might be little weird. I asked if she’s single and I saw her realizing that this is a perfect excuse =) so she said “No”. I tried some teasing but decided to abort soon after.

Some points:

1. I shouldn’t just say “I realize this might be little weird.” cause that just reinforces those feeling. I have to continue with something like “ ..but I just had to do this because you seem special” or some s**t like that.
2. Don’t ask if she’s single if you don’t have good enough vibe, she’s gonna say no.


So that’s it. It’s a start, but no numbers. I have done this before and gotten number from the first try.
Maybe it takes a while to get this going again. Some feedback and ideas appreciated, so tell me if u got them.

Breeze

Day2:

Wing came late to the town and couldn't push myself to do approaches without him. Half past seven we finally got busy. I asked opinion about some sunglasses from a blond hb8. She said they look pretty good on me. I made some talk about how hard it's finding sunglasses that fit me. I teased her that she looks like hardcore shopper so she must know where are the best sunglasses. Turns out she's from different city visiting here with her family so she didn't know. She told how there was a festival in her city and she didn't want to leave and so on. She was very receptive and we had a good convo but I soon left because she was from another city and there was no point continuing.

Another target was going to the store an I stopped her by yelling after her. Asked about her sunglasses (surprise, surprise )and talked about ugly sunglasses that are now on every stand. She was little hesitant to talk to me but was receptive until i said that I actually just wanted to talk to her. After that she closed up more and although we still joked a little, she left despite me trying to keep the convo going.

Something about stating my intent is screwing my game right now. Maybe I was too serious after all and not enough playful. Also there was only few targets this time of evening so there was a lot of time between sets and I went "cold" in between so maybe that's a factor.

Next I opened while walking from behind her and asked if she got something good (she came from candy shop) She could talk with candy in mouth so I laughed at her about that and kept walking. She yelled reply after me when she had swallowed. Said that she wasn't prepared that someone would talk to her in the middle of the day. Turned out that she got some candy that I like so I took one and joked about eating half of them. She was very receptive and I could have most probably closed, but she wasn't quite there on the hb-scale so I just ended it with thanks for the candy.

It’s been difficult to run day game, weather has been rainy or cloudy quite often and it feels that potential girls are off to their vacations on July anyway. Targets are few and I can’t get much needed momentum going when I have to wait for the next HB to appear. On many days I have one good interaction out of those five that I usually get to do. I also noticed that I give up too easily when girl doesn’t relax soon or is in a hurry. If I ask her to recommend ice cream flavor to me and she’s in hurry, I don’t simply say “Let’s do that another time, give me your number!” Or if her friend shows up just after I’m beginning to fluff talk to her, I don’t include the friend (just like in night game, duh), and just walk off. So a lot of trying but done half assed in some cases.

So we went out once again with my wing on day time and started chatting girls up. Not a lot of targets, but we decided to use what we have. Number of targets actually grew a bit after an hour. I chased my first one to the escalator. She had pink purse so I opened with an opener me& wing had cooked up: “Hey since u have that purse tell me what you think about men buying pink shirts. Is that little weird?” She was about to shop some shoes, I showed my new shoes. I suggested that she would help me shop some stuff and tell it looks good on me whatever I’m wearing. I wasn’t very relaxed yet and maybe because of that she wasn’t either, so I said “Is this all going a bit too fast for you?” and she said yes. I said that we could do that another time and she said she had a boyfriend. I said “no wonder” and let her go. Maybe she did have a boyfriend, maybe not.

Opened two very young girls, too young cause another had moped helmet, but hey, it’s all practice. Same opener, but they just gave their opinion and left. Wing noticed that I talked too fast trying to keep them there talking to me. Next girl I opened was at the store picking up ice cream like me so I asked her opinion what should I get, but she picked hers and didn’t want to chat much. I open girl right after stepping out of the store. She has pink shirt, guess what was my opener. I suggest right after (too fast) that she chats there with me while I wait for a friend (wing is in some set somewhere). She’s on her way to shop shoes and “doesn’t have time” to stay. I see previous ice cream girl again chilling with her friend. My wing makes me approach her again and try if I can turn things around. She’s not very keen talking to me and turns out she’s very young too. Oh well..

Wing does some more but we have been doing this now for 2 hours so we decide to go and get ready to night game. We pick our bikes but I’m getting pissed. I wanted to do 5 tries, and I only got 4. And there are no targets in sight. But then like a miracle some car drops a great looking girl right across the street and drives off. She takes maybe 5 steps before I approach her. She has pink shoes (girls really like pink ) so same opener. Now I have build attitude like nothing like it the whole day but now I also remember to talk slowly and I am smiling more. She smiles back and it helps us both to relax. She was on her way to a party and I ask some things about that and talk parties where I’ve been lately. Again I suggested that she would help me shop some stuff. Now I also introduced myself at this point witch I think normalizes this otherwise not so normal situation of stranger approaching (can’t believe I’ve skipped these basic things lately). I ask if she likes animal and she says yes so I go “Well so do I, we have something in common already.” I talked to her about some animal stuff and went back asking her to go shopping with me. She accepts and we change numbers. I tell my name again, in case she didn’t get it before. I wish her a great party and leave. Wing gives me applauds for a great looking interaction (he was watching from some distance).

So I finally #closed since restarting this day game challege. . It was surprisingly hard compared to 4 months ago when I was last doing it. Maybe I’m now getting my shit together again, basic stuff like introducing myself and talking slowly.