I was at a local smoothie place on my lunch break from work. This HB8 comes in and she's on line behind me. I decide to open her with, "what kind of smoothie would you recommend." She tells me to get some acai berry smoothie and I get up to the counter and order the salad that I went in there for. She took notice that didn't get a smoothie and made a smart ass comment to me. I smiled at her and went out to the food court area. She comes over and asks me why I asked her what smoothie I should get when I didn't get one. I told her I made a spontaneous last minute decision. She was slightly hooked.

I negged her once, she had to get going and I felt as if she was trying to game me a bit and tried negging me, I didn't bite. She said "So I don't have to call you "Hey You" do you have a name?" So I gave her my name and got hers and she offered me her number.

Spoke to her for quite some time on the phone as she's got a rather off work schedule. She calls me up last night and said "wanna meet up for a drink. my friend and I are out in your area." I throw on my nice shiny watch and necklace and bracelet, a spritz of cologne, my "A game" button down shirt and I head out and meet her and her friend. I started the set kind of fresh even though I knew her from talking on the phone, but she was going to have to work for the attention and approval. I kept my body slight turned away from her, I negged her a few times and her friend starts negging her hardcore and he friend is high fiving me and laughing with me. I had won her over, now to go in for the kill.

As the target HB8 was sitting there every time I'd neg her I would put my hand on her shoulder and tell her it was all in good fun and that she was a good sport for putting up with it. A bit of a transition into A3. I noticed every time I put my hand on her should she felt better and looked to get a bit sad when I took it off.

She comments and said "I hate when I go somewhere and a guy hits on me and tries to impress me, all guys try to do is impress me. You however, you're so natural and fun and I you don't try to impress me at all... I almost feel as if I need to impress you. I feel we're on the same level."

She tried to start to neg me, as if to lower my value. With each attempt I did a takeaway and I completely turned my back to her and she jumps out of her seat and runs in front of me and hugs me "I'm sorry" Bingo! So I do some more kino pinging and she is now to the point of standing in between my legs and being all touchy. I could tell she wanted to kiss me. Her friend excused herself and came back like 5 minutes later.

If there is one thing I've learned from dating girls, you hold back on the kiss if you plan on wanting them to come back for more. We go into just conversation and enjoying the time. They needed to leave because her friend had work in the morning. Her friend gets in HB8's car and I am standing outside talking to HB8, and she was telling me how she didn't want to leave and that she had a good time. She gives me a hug and she still had that please kiss me look in her eyes. I took her hand and kissed her on the back of the hand and she got completely flustered and red.

Not 5 minutes later I get a text message. "I didn't want to leave you, you're amazing and so fun. Don't let this get to your head, but I really wanted to kiss you. Hopefully I get to see you again?"

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Like the freeze outs.

Thanx man I realy needed to hear sumthing like that, realy helped me alot man.. Good going with the freeze outs hehe

brilliant sir! i love how you didn't even say anything when she asked why you didn't get the smoothie. just a smile, that's badass...you totally set yourself apart from the average dude without even using some long winded opener

Follow up:

OK so we're about 7 hours in as far as seeing each other face to face. We went out for a drink at the place she works at, which happens to be a strip club (she doesn't strip) odd place for a girl to take a guy, but hell I'm quite alright with it. We grab a movie and head back to her place, she wanted to hang out at home with me. Knowing full well she wants to kiss me, full well that she's got evil intentions. I hold back on giving her any kisses, and then she was talking and talking and we were playing around and kind of negging on each other and she starts saying something and stop her from talking with a kiss. I pull away like 3 seconds later and she wanted more.

I started playing with her hair and did the Mystery hair pull routine and she went nuts and started breathing heavy. Most girls I thought didn't like the hair pulling thing, she did. We were wrestling a bit more and I had her hands and she was like I'm going to bite you if you don't give me my hands back. I tilted my head to the side and pointed to my neck and just like that the Style "Evolution phase shift." Was a complete cake walk from then on.

Bottom line, be yourself and be playful, but know when to pull out certain moves to get them to comply, in this case the phase shift that drove her nuts wanting more.