Basically it went down like this. About a year and a half ago I messed around with this girl for a couple of weeks. She's five years my senior and has a kid. She fell back into some old habits and disappeared on me. You should know that now she is married and her husband is in prison for 20+ years. I was fine with that and moved on as usual. Well last weekend she pops up at My older brother's BBQ with my aunt. I went about my evening without taking notice of her in hopes she'd just let me be. Of course that didn't work, she wound up approaching me. She chatted for a moment and I excused myself. Later she comes back asking me to fix her cell phone. I fix it, hand it back, and excuse myself. Later on in the night and an 18pk of beers for me later things excalated into a big water fight among several of us. She intervens and starts trying to wrestle around with me, grabbing my nuts, ect. I got agitated and literally tossed her over shoulder and threw her into the pool. Next thing I know she has pulled her jeans off and is trying to coax me into the pool. I ask what is possibly benefical to me jumping in that pool. She replied with "you can have me". I told her it wouldn't happen. I said "I'm no that easy, you're married, and in the pool my niece swims in". After a few minutes arguing she finally got mad, put on her pants and left.

I went back to drinking with my brother and friends only to have my phone go off. It was her. I answered and she was begging me to come over to her house and put it to her. I said no, argued a bit and finally got her to hang up. 10 minutes later she calls again, still begging for me to come over. Finally I say "Look, I won't tonight but I'll call you tomorrow". She finally agreed and left me alone for the rest of the night. Of course I didn't call her, but now I'm stuck trying to convince her I don't want her around me. However, everything I do tends to attract her more and more. I'll end up seeing her at my cousin's B-Day tomorrow and need some advice on how to handle this monster. I did however learn I can drink 18-20 beers and still not succumb to the beer goggles.

Any ideas?

is she hot?

if not, kill yourself.

...joking, of course.

I had a similar situation once.
You just have to say NO! Every little thing you do for her to get her off of you back like fixing the cell phone or agreeing to call her the next day (even though you didnt, she probably took that as some kind of "Sign") gives her some kind of hope that you want her back.
If its anything like the situation I had It almost feels like a trap. She somehow gets you to do the smallest favor for her and afterwards your like "DAMN! not again"
My suggestion would be to just cut her off. Cut her of from everything. It might take a while, some girls are nuckin futs but she should eventually get the hint, and she'll find someone else and you can sit back and say "haha sucker"

THE TINGS YOU DID ARE THE TINGS WE DO TO ATTRACT GIRLS , NO WONDER SHE IS CRAZY ABOUT YOU .
AND IF YOU WANT HER TO BREAK UP WITH YOU ,ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS BE WITH HER AND BE AFC , IF YOU DID NOT UNDERSTOD ME I'LL WRITE IT AGAIN GET TOGETHER WIT HER ,FUCK HER ONE MORE TIME , AND THAN START DOING ALL THE THINGS THAT AFC WOULD DO , CALL HER 100 TIMES A DAY,TELL HER YOU LOVE HER OVER AND OVER AGAIN , SHOWER HER WITH ATTENTION , YOU SAD SHE HAD A KID ,TELL HER THAT HER KIDS WITH YOU WOULD BE A LOT PRETTIER THAN THAT THING

BELIVE ME DO THESE THINGS AND WHEN SHE SEES YOU SHE WOULD CROSS THE STREET.

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