Hi guys,
I have been going out of my own for the last few weeks. Last night a friend called and said he was going with a few buddies for a beer and asked if i wanted to tag along. I said yes and we went to a small bar in the town. these guys work in the local prison as wardens and they think that they are the image of an alpha male.

Nothing happened. I have only been sarging lattely on my own. The guy who invited me is a little bit on the wild side and unpredictable. He suggested we go to the city/ some twenty minutes drive. I sarge in the city so I said OK. anyway, there i was unexpectedly on a night out with some mates.

we went to a bar that was quite full and my friend who immediately got his camera going and broke the ice with a three set. I have been studying the "game" and to be honest felt quite embarrassed at how this guy with no knowledge whatsoever of the game was able to open set literally everywhere. He was even introducing me to girls that he didn't even know. I was impressed. I have to admit that he had been drinking which does improve your confidence but still he did well.
Anyway, there was a "tubby" Spanish chic. HB4- good for shooting practise if you know what I mean. anyway, I said some English and she shot me down, she started to say, bet you understand fuck u in Spanish if I said it to you.
I took it tongue in cheek, trying to blame it on my game, anyway, she went immediately over to the quietest guy and said your face is cute. Meanwhile I felt like a total jerk. I took it all excellently. I didn't really feel like I gave a fuck. I don;t know if the girl was trying to make me jealous because I caught her looking at me a few times and lauging to her friend.maybe she was just lauging at me.anyway my friend went for a drink to blow her off, because she was approaching him, and she followed him to the bar! It seemed that in spite of my "superior" knowledge of the game I was doign the worst.
we left shortly. my self esteem was into negative figures by the end of the evening.
What did I learn? On the approach, I have to stop looking like I am hitting on the girl. I have to build up more interesting things to say. I have zero conversation. Today in Spain is a bank holiday, I even found myself asking the chics boring questions like "do the supermarkets open tomorrow?" I couldn't believe my shit.

Either way, I was able to talk to girls a bit more easily even though I got nowhere.
which i guess is an improvement on my previous afc behaviour of just standing there all night with a beer in hand.

you undersold urself, girls know their exact ratings, when i tell a girl shes an 8 she doesnt argue, when I tell a girl she a 5 shes offended but doesnt disagree. women know their worth and because of this she took your approach offensively. She seems ur mate opening all the sets of HB7 plus, then what she perceives as his loser mate cracking on to her. She taught u a lesson because even though she is of lower value she is still of value and the way you approached probably made her feel like you had none whatsoever.

Rule of thumb for me is never chat to girls below HB7 and never work on girls below HB8... I like to maintain a consistent reputation,

whos better the guy whos had maybe 100 6's+7's or the guy who had 25 9+10's?

Hi,
I admit that I approached with literally no value. I felt like his sidekick. He was the one doing the tricks and pulling all the fast moves.

You ask the question, who is the better guy? The one who has been with 100 6-s or 25 9 or 10s. I have a terrible track record with women and I need to build up my confidence. I fear that talking to a 10 I would just get laughed at due to my lack of confidence and self esteem. I have to learn to consider myself in a different way first. Like a person who is worth something. i do undersell myself. i have self esteem issues. in the mystery method it says something about it not taking any longer to work on 10s but you need to go in with high value, acting like you are the prize and like you are sizing up the girl, if she could be a possible hottie. keeping her between validation and rejection. last night, the girls were just talking to me out of mere social politeness.

Jesus, I just feel like I have got so much to work on. yet having said that, reading the game, especially the first couple of chaters you realise that Style was no different and had his moments of doubts and that with practise he turned it all around.

How do you communicate high value? I guess it is something that I will pick up, the more I practise pick up. I need to learn to increase my sense of self worth, self esteem due to negative self talk. I need to tune up my self esteem.

Thanks friend for your comments - much appreciated.