A little background...I'm not down with most of the terms yet. Basically, I met this fun asian chick in one of my classes and approached during class and got her number. Then, it was spring break (this past week). Please excuse my boring storytelling - I'm more looking for any tips on the 3rd hangout (TBA)
*Hangout 1*
Tuesday: Called her to hang out, we agreed to go to a movie at 9:30. Picked her up, told lots of jokes, but I never ever ever kino or compliment for some reason, and this is what I need to REALLY work on. After the movie, she asked what we were going to do next and frankly I had planned on blowing it (due to previous experiences) so she offered to go get bubble tea (a delicacy in taiwan I guess) but we drove by the place and it was closed by then. after that, through conversation found out she used to be a bartender when she lived in Taiwan so we went to Meijer and bought some booze and went back to my place where she mixed some drinks. Turned on some movie and we drank and joked and laughed, blah blah. Again, I didn't do any kino or really compliment her at all...I'm an idiot. Anyway, she started asking if I thought she was pretty so I said some AFC bullshit. Fast forward 30 minutes later, I still hadn't made my move and she announced "after this drink I'm going to leave." SHIT! Fast forward 10 mins, drove her home and didn't even try to kiss, just a simple hug. I have no idea why I get this anxiety of getting denied, but whatever.
*Hangout 2*
Friday: Texted her and setup to go to the tea place. I'm white, she's asian. The tea place was about 25-30 asians in essentially a 15x20 room. I have no idea how they jam pack together over there but it was uncomfortable as hell for me. Anyway, we got the tea and did the normal joke around crap; then I kept hearing a noise and after 2 minutes asked her what it was and she was like oh my phone, so I told her to get it. She does, and its 3 texts from her friend saying they're going out to the bars (I'm 20, she's 22).
From here, she says "I would feel so bad if I left cause we just started hanging out" (seeking permission) so like an idiot I say "Don't feel bad, go do it. Hang out with your friends, I'll call up mine and we'll just catch up later." She smiles and hugs (damn it!) and 15 minutes later I drop her off at her place and she goes on her merry way.
Leading me to now...
I want to hang out with her again, I realize this is probably getting stuck on one chick syndrome; whatever =\ frankly I just want to get with an asian chick and it SEEMS like I have a good shot here; not to mention she's very interesting and good looking. (HB8 if I must use a term!)
If anyone has any tips on what to do for the next get-together/actions/ideas on what to say that will hopefully get her back into the mood of that first Tuesday night, I would be very interested to hear your thoughts.
Thanks for your time guys, flames welcomed and appreciated. I've much to learn
I will put more time and effort into my following posts, I realize this is more of an incoherent ramble.
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