| Just a warning, I may end up FR bombing the forum soon. I’ve got too many to write that I’ve been slacking on! FR's to come possibly: Choding in DTF, a collection of fun sets, and a pull in Vegas.
FR: An Axe to Grind. Sutra (2.19.09)
Tonight we hit Sutra Lounge. I mean we HIT IT. CC was everywhere to be seen, and from what I saw. . . yet again no one stepping on toes! Awesome, guys. It was great to see many of you again, and great to meet you guys who I still hadn't been out with before.
Persistently Beautiful CCOC members in attendance:
- Jack
- Zar
- Hydro
- Myself
(along of course with Shakeshi, Latin, PradaG, DECEMBER, Tampons, 310 + his brother, and a few others who's handles escape me at the moment.)
I picked up Jack on the way down to Sutra from my place in Diamond Bar. That drive put me in a great head space for the night.
Walking into Sutra, I instantly loved the place. Pretty sick for an OC club. Jack and I see Shakeshi and another CC'r sitting on the couch(sorry man forgot your handle!) We chill out for awhile, since we're there a bit early, and get the conversational juices flowing.
The club fills up slowly and the Casanovas trickle in. Soon we're dominating the massive smoker's patio. It was pretty damn funny to see two booths, ten CC'ers, FULL. . .and no chicks! hahaha This had me cracking up. It's chill though, the night is young!
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I'll skip to a couple specific interactions I can take lessons from for the sake of time:
- Zar passes off a Brunette beauty, HBBoots here, to myself and Jack on the couch. She's messing with her phone, and I'm in the middle of a conversation with Jack, so I take my time.
Muse: *look over at her with a grin* "You always this quiet, or do you have an excuse tonight?" *put on my patented playful interrogation face*
HBBoots: *turns toward me* . . . . . . (She has this empty facial expression like she's staring through me at something on the wall. It's at least 15 seconds before she answers). . . . . . . Am I . . . . quiet? (Oh boy, she's gotta be on something)
M: Wait, Seriously?! Yeah, I can't believe you haven't said hi to me yet! Your boots though, they are out. of. control!
HBB: Really? I think they're fun!(or some other nonsense)
M: No, no, I LIKE out of control. *She laughs, but I don't feel like continuing with her. I see Hydro playing a two-set, and get up to wing him. Pass off HBB to Jack*
^I didn’t push this one enough. Jack and later Zar do a great job of opening her up. God damn she was full of shit tests, and the more I deal with these chicks the better handle I’m getting on opening them up. Donno where Zar took that one, but it looked like he finally cracked her open.
M: 'Scuse me miss Sassy Boots!
*I step over HBB and swing into the two set with Hydro. Throwing my arms around his shoulders I give the girls my best accusing stare.*
Muse: Are you two being NICE to my BOYFRIEND?! *I shoot them a big grin* I HOPE you're not hitting on him TOO much!
^Coming in to wing with that type of line has never failed to crack up everyone in the set. Don’t be afraid to pull the gay card, because they generally know it’s bullshit. So it turns FUNNY!
One of the chicks and I get in a playful argument about who’s going to win the fight over Hydro, and I tell her she’s too cute to have the bouncer drag her outta here. Set goes on a little longer then Hydro and I eject.
Lately I’ve been doing a little work opening sets with 50%+ dudes just to get used to befriending and blowing out the guys. I’m trying to teach myself that they’re not gonna punch me in the face just for being social. I did ok tonight, clearly still in my head about it though.
- Choding on a mixed 5 set: 3 guys, 2 chicks. Gonna do it. Not gonna do it. Gonna do it. Not gonna do it. . . Glanced over, the guys are gone! Sweet! Turn my head, and check over my shoulder a few seconds later, now the GIRLS are gone! Derrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr…. Dumbass, we learned this already: wait one second too long and your set is GONE!
- Hit up a mixed two set. I did a decent job winning them both over, but they turned out to be a couple, so I didn’t wanna mess with that too much. Dude was chill, chick was funny. Nice people. I busted on them both a bit because that’s what I do, and followed up with story exchanges about the best dates each of us has been on for the least amount of money. I DHV’d the guy a couple times, and ejected. Score dude, if you ever read this, she’s hot! Haha
Last set I’m gonna talk about highlighted a serious snag in my game. It should have been easy as 1, 2, 3. . . and it was, up to a point.
I finish up a coffin nail with Jack, and see a chick by herself near the wall . . . fumbling with her cell phone (of course). It’s my pleasure to give her some human company.
Muse: *Put on a big grin* What’s THIS all about? Since when are cell phones allowed in the club?
HBStoney: *Huge smile, she’s laughing. Her BL opens up toward me* You know, you’re the second person to tell me that tonight! I think you’re right. *Cell phone goes AWAY!*
-Zing! I’m in! That was easy, hook, open body language, no bitch shield! Sweet. Let’s roleplay, girl.
M: Yeah, I’ve got a few friends bouncing around the place, I’m not surprised you heard that one already.
We talk about the finer points of going on dates for little to no money and both agree that they are usually the most fun because you can get really creative. We do a little story exchange and I hit her with something new I’ve cooked up that hits every time so far: The Five Dollar Date: A roleplay revolving around the five minute girlfriend line. (I’ll go into specifics if anyone wants, but it’s superfluous right now)
M: Alright, YOU are my girlfriend for the next five minutes. *We get in a solid hug and roleplay for a minute about being bf/gf. She’s fun*
She’s really into the roleplay thing, and starts throwing little compliments my way. Holy shit. I hit her with the actual 5$ date routine where she has 5$ and a full tank of gas to take me on the most adventurous date she can think up. Turns out she has a pretty sick idea, but she mentions smoking a bowl at every spot she’s going to take me, hahaha. . . thus, HBStoney.
We end up having a pretty good conversation; she’s hot and into me, awesome. I know exactly where I’m taking this next when . . . FAFOOMF! It’s all gone. My head went blank. It was like one of those dreams when you’re up in front of the class and it’s going great until you notice you’re naked.
I quickly scraped up my wits, came up with a decent conversational thread, busted on her, got her qualifying on her own adventurousness, and kept up the vibes between us. During all this I was trying to stop blanking on what I had next. Another minute or two later, and I force myself to eject. This is the stupidest thing I’ve done in a long time. We have our “break up” and she tells me I’m the best boyfriend she’s ever had. I bring her in for another hug and she gives me a quick kiss on the cheek, then part ways. (What the fuck was I doing leaving!?)
I turn around, and OH YEAH the couches are RIGHT THERE behind me!!! What the fuck was I doing?! I should have this I should have that, it all rushed back to me as soon as we split. Jesus. How hard is it to remember, grab the hand, yank her over to the couch, sit down, vibe, makeout, number, then see where it goes from there? It's like I had Game Genie, and said "Nah, not tonight. I got this myself, a million HP and a heat seeking missile launcher? HAHA yeah right, I'll take my glock. thanks tho."
Here’s how I liken this interaction: It’s like we were out jogging together, pacing eachother, steps in unison, having a great time –when a pothole appears, snatching up my foot, slamming me onto the pavement. She comes back with her hand outstretched, telling me to get up and come with her, but I look up, yelling in her face “FUCK YOU BITCH, SAVE YOURSELF!!!” then watch her jog off without me. Haha. Lame.
So yeah, that was a great interaction, SO much fun until I fucked up and forgot where I was taking my game. Hindsight is great, but when you shut down in the heat of the moment, you kick yourself later. This will not happen again. I know everything I could have, should have done . . .
I’m the mechanic that’s found the leak. Time to seal it up so the engine runs tight!
Sutra was so much fun though, and I had a great time chilling with a lot of you CC’ers. I can’t wait till I head back to that club. For now though, I’ve got problems I need to fix. At least I know what they are, and that’s half the battle.
When I have a groundbreaking night, I’ll go back to my usual style of field report. Anecdotes, storyline and all. For now, I’m just trying to highlight my problems so I know exactly where to put in the work. I've been out six nights of the last ten, I'm planning on going out tonight and sunday too(hopefully). Going out this much is helping me fix my shit QUICK.
Cheers boys,
~Muse.
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