FR:This is my first field report on your site, I've read many, basically trolling.

Today I was at my public library with some study group of males for a class test. I had arrived late, and found them on the second level of the 3 level public library. As soon as I took a seat with the group, I started sneezing (4 times) loudly.

Some HB7 blesses me and small talk ensues from there, but then the awkward silence and back to studying.

I'm now thinking of trying to re-initiate the conversation with her because she gave me one IOI (called me funny). Then I just told myself, forget it I'm too busy came late, need to catch up.

So now I'm actually thinking more about what a pussy I am, and that I should freaking practice destroying my day-game Anxiety with this girl. I remembered the post on the video section that I watched yesterday, and had put on my headphones to watch some of that video again. The post if-you-resist-the-approach-this-could-b-vt34741.html is here

Few seconds of the video I remembered it all. Told myself F**k that, I'm not F**king no Doll. Quickly got out of my seat and used the Cousin Opener.

I threw in a neg, that completely made her feel so insecure about herself, that she literally got up and went to the washroom. I threw in the neg near the end of the opener, "You got an eye crustie, ya right there, don't worry it looks good on you, if there was an eye crustie award you'd win"

She wasn't upset at all, just really wiping her eyes like crazy making some make-up excuses etc.. I laughed to be honest, but ya I won't use that neg to someone who isn't a HB9/10. Didn't continue conversation with her after that, just smiled when she came back and that is it.

So now I'm leaving and spot a moving set HB8.5, but she looked more like a Tom-boy, rocker chick (completely not my type but very cute face with some weirdo glasses). I use the Cousin opener again. This time the opener it self failed from the BEGINNING!!!

This cousin opener starts with "Hey are you a girl" She felt insecure immediately, started asking me why do I look like a boy, but I ignored that and continued to try and finish the opener.

She admitted at the end that she doesn't have good girl advice. Then I opened my stupid mouth and said ohhh no wonder I mistook you for a boy. I laughed, but at that point I could see she wanted nothing to do with the conversation no more, so I ejected myself.

The study group was not my social circle, I just knew them from class. I usually don't day game unless I'm with friends, or people heading out to a club parking lot pimping.

All I'm saying is that my day-game sucks, and the girls I approached today were completely not my type. When I say type, I mean a girl I wouldn't be able to connect with personality, and socially. I'm really good at gaming hood-chicks mainly in the clubs, and usually tipsy.

But ya I'm starting to force myself more on day-game because I know I want to find quality, rather than quantity. I'm going to use a Jesus Opener tomorrow. I'll update you all on it here.

You'd be surpised but a lot of time in day game you don't need a lot of negs really. The only time you want to neg is if she's not complying with you.

If you use an opinion opener for example during the day and she's helping you, talking to you, and giving you answers there is no need to neg her for good behaviour.

If she starts to give you resistence as a test and not just, "I'm not sure..." but more like "Why should I help you..." type of thing then throw a small neg.

Anyways, I typically do a more direct opener during the day because I don't have 20-30 minutes to spend. Chances are they have stuff to do as well, so I like to get to the point.

Good luck your next time out.

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Here is a day-game opener I like:

"Hey I saw you and thought you were cute, but I wanted to know if you were cool."

Deceptively simple and effective. It demonstrates value on many levels.

Or you could use the guru0z version : "Hey I don't come around here often. Where are the cool people?"