I was solo sarging at the mall, and I see this three-set. Obviously, I open them up. After figuring out that my target was married with kids, I ejected. Later, when they spot me, They run towards me and ask if i'm a player. I exasperate by saying that I am, that I "Pick up woman every night". She then tells me that this other girl came up to me and saw me sarging at another place. The girls who talk to this three-set said a the story is that I say "vulgar things to get woman to come back home with me". They said that they would aerrest me bcause I stalk woman. I immediately eject because there is no point in this conversation. They follow me, until I loose them. Worse. Set. EVER.

The other set tried to sabotage that set by saying false things. I don't understand why a set I sarged before cared so much to approach the girls I was talking to scare them away from me. It increased my approach anxiety a little, but it made an amazing story.

If I were you, I"d stay away from that particular mall. Lord knows that set was trying to deliberately wreck your reputation. This actually happened to me a few weeks ago when these two girls were trying to wreck my reputation by telling the next set of girls I was talking with to stay the hell away from me. It sucked but I didn't let it get to me. If anything, its made me stronger. It can help you out as well if you just not let it get to you. When it comes to failure, be a man about it and move on.

DID you say vulgar things to them to try to get them home with you??

These girls were shit testing you, tho not in the sense of hoping you pass, but in deliberately trying to make you fail. Toss it back on them.. "Yeah right, does that even make sense? What girl in her right mind would go home with a guy like that?" "What, do you have a problem with me talking to other girls?" "Is there something wrong about chatting to people at the mall?" As well as more direct things that would come out of the conversation..

When you ejected, if they followed you, turn right back around and engage them. For god's sake, dont let them chase you out of the mall.. "Whoa... who's stalking who now?" "You know this wont work, no matter how much you follow me around, I WONT go out with you, you crazy stalker!!" etc..

At any rate tho, you should be coming off as a sincere, albeit VERY charming guy when you sarge, and the girls should be getting a good, happy impression from you which they remember. "Oh its that guy! Lets go talk to him he is SO funny/cool/sexy etc.." You have obviously gotten something wrong with these girls, so um...were you saying vulgar things in DAYGAME?? trying to get them to come home in some obvious way? Oooops.

You definitely need to find some different areas as well to sarge in, move it around a bit. You are going to end up with the rep of "That wierd guy who hangs out at the mall all day desperately trying to pick up any girl he sees."

so... umm you sound pretty old man... an old guy spittin game to chicks at the mall is kinda creepy. and yeah no matter who im tryin to pick up whether i get rejected or not girls never say shit bad about me... either A its cause im soo fuckin sexy that if she does say anything the other chick is gonna think she's a hater or B because im so fuckin cool that the bitch knows if she says somethin bad about me that me and my guys are gonna make her feel stupid...

but usually like the other guy its C... i dont leave girls with bad impressions. the fuck is up with you?

...wait wait wait... i just had a REVELATION!!!! who sarges by themselves @ the mall? im assuming its earlier in the day cause you know malls all close @ like 9pm. so if its on a weekday you should be busy or @ work or with a girl. If its a weekend you should be sleeping or with ur friends. WHO GOES TO A MALL BY HIS OR HER SELF JUST TO PICK UP ON FEMALES??? You know how lame that looks?

what is wrong with solo sarging at a mall.

he might have been on a break from work and had to go to the mall and happened to spot girls he liked.

its a lifestyle dude, not an on and off switch.

First off, I was waiting for a friend @ the mall. We were meeting up. I'm in college, so i'm not that old.

madmax3000: thanks, that really helps. Glad i'm not the only one who has had that happen.

daggeaz:I rarely sarge at the mall and I never say vulgar things. I know my routine.

colloso: You have issues. -Rep.

AFCerik:yup.

Colloso depends on friends for picking up.

W1ng im sure you left out something in your FR. Women don't just purposefully decide to do something that mean, unless you hurt them. You definitely said something that had upset them.

I would go back to the mall and do some regular stuff. I would chat up with people working in the stores and keep it very casual giving the impression that I'm a nice friendly guy. If you want to get over your approach anxiety at that mall then don't let a bunch of girls stop you. Hey I would even talk to the cops at the malls and keep it short and friendly.

You must have negged your previous targets and obviously they didn't like it and wanted to get back at you.

Once one of the girls who had this thing for me came up from no where in a club and told my target that she should stay away from me as I pick up women in bars and clubs. I smiled and told my target that this girl is just jealous that I don't give her any attention, and that she once pied in my car !!! The target burst out laughing. But I was a little careful to kino after that. For every 3-4 times she would touch me I touched her back. I did not kiss her till end of day 2.

But yeah, keep doing what you are doing but don't let people see you only approaching women.

wow. yeah the neg rep thing affected me... i figured if it matters to people then imma say fuck you to the system and give my points away... right w1ng? my opinion may not be popular @ the moment, but im not the one who needs advice. you might not want to hear my advice, but maybe it needed to be heard. keep that in mind...

in w1ng fashion

w1ng: but u didnt state ur age. makes me think ur still kinda old... there are 50 year olds in college.

afc erik: his first words were "i was solo sarging" which led me to believe he was there to 'sarge'. but true you are right i shouldnt just jump off the wagon and say he's a geek by himself @ the mall or somethin. i mean going to the mall BY YOURSELF with ONLY the intentions of picking up chicks is fuckin wierd. and if you want we could open up a whole other thread and i will break it down scientifically to you how it is wierd. but i guess he wasnt solo sarging at the mall. "he was waiting for his friend at the mall so he saw a three-set and obviously opened them up"

platinum afc: maybe i deserve it cause i sounded like a dick but its not nice to assume things about people. i have proof as in pictures...no shit pictures!!... of females on my dick. i could put u to shame kid. ... but that is not my place... so yeah im sure you didnt really mean to disrespect me like that as i didnt mean to disrespect w1ng...

moving on... W1ng?? whatchha gonna do?