| The mood was just right. Rooftop of Pacific Beacon. Flatscreens all around us, music thumping, fireplace a blazing, the lounge, the drinks and view of the Coronado Bay Bridge overlooking downtown San Diego, and I fucking choke. Boy did I choke.
This post is different from my other posts because its not about the perfect sarge. It’s about shutting out the AFC inside your head. I recently just moved into a new condo and invited out an Asian HB8 and some friends to check out the new pad. Long story short, me and HB8 Chen end up on the rooftop shooting the shit. I would go on to break the number #1 I always give guys advice about. You should Always ESCALATE. The girl will 90% not make that precious first move. She’ll wait there, and wait there, and wait there, and wait. Hoping you’ve got some type of clue, and the guts to put your arm around her curvy body, and embrace her with a kiss. I mean this petite, Chinese, tight ass, perky tits, Hello Kitty looking HB8 Chen damn near gave me all the right signals and I still listened to the Frustrated Chump inside of my head. Holy fuck. Here were the IOIs:
1) Walked in my room and was amazed at my new living conditions.
2) Complimented me on the amount of jewelry I was wearing more than I can count.
3) Wasn’t embarrassed at my porn collection (and actually wanted to pop one in)
4) Never removed my hand from her thigh in the HOUR conversation I wasted not escalating
5) Let me show her the dance moves… that involved LOTS of touching
I mean the signs were fucking BEAMING in my eyes and I did what I shun others never to do… I hesitated. The truest statement ever stated “If you think you probably should have made a move… then you probably should’ve.”
Wondering “What if?” is a far greater crime, and far worst feeling then every being rejected. With rejection there’s at least that notion of well, I now know for a fact she’s not interested, so I can move on. No harm no foul. But when you fail to escalate, man oh man! It keeps you up ALL nite wondering, “What if I did that” or “Why didn’t I just lean over and start making out with her?” Guys… trust me… there is NO worst feeling in the world then not approaching a particular set, or not escalating a particular HB. I hold myself to a very high standard, and consider myself to be one of the up -n- coming best PUAs in the states. Fuck. The feeling of being rejected by 1000 women doesn’t compare to having pussy literally sitting in your lap and punking out. I’m irate right now… but debriefing the situation to never let it happen again. Keep your sarging to a maximum, and your postings to a minimum. I’m gonna try -n- sleep the frustration off. Outtie 3000.
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